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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have too much vaginal discharge and it's got to the point that I don't want to have sex with my boyfriend. It doesn't come out onto my pants (most of the time) but it is there inside me all the time and as soon as we start anything it's like the flood gates open.It's not a case of my body preparing for sex, or being turned on, because it is there every time I check myself internally. I have resorted to sneaking off to the toilet to 'flush' myself out a couple times a day just incase my boyfriend and I choose to get it on, and even then it may still reappear.I have been to the doctors a number of times and had all the sti tests done and I'm assured everything is ok. I'm not itchy, red or sore.However, I'm gradually going off sex completely as it's so embarrassing. My boyfriend and I also feel less sensation when it's like this, which is most of the time now.. afterall, what would you expect if for example, you used a whole tub of KY before sex?Is there anything I can do to 'turn the tap off'????
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (23 June 2009):
 Even douching with water rinses away beneficial bacteria that help keep the vaginal environment in balance. You might add yogurt to your diet on a daily basis to help restore this important balance, and begin using a pH-neutral soap for cleansing the outer vulva.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou for the advice. I didn't realise douching was so bad, and may be contributing to the problem. What is it that is so detrimental though? I thought water could be fine. I will stop it now however and let my body repair.
Thanks again x
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (21 June 2009):
If, indeed, you are douching to rid yourself of natural lubricant, then it may be part of the situation or at least a factor. However, what you may consider to be excessive wetting is not necessarily all that unusual when a woman is in a desirous mode. "Too much" is a relative description.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2009): from a male prespective I think that is one of the nicest conditions.you shouldnt be embarrassed by it. it shows to your partener that you are enjoying the action.just stop and wipe yourself off preferably using your panties and continue banging away.I wish I was your bf.
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