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Hi, I have been through loads in my life. Marriage break up, boyfriend break ups, and been a single parent. I have been treated really bad sometimes, but i think this is all to do with life. I dont hold grudges, and have a good sence of humour. I just love all my friends and family, and have loads of support from them. So i thought i could share that with a few of you. I have asked for advice a few times. You dont always want to hear it, but there are some smart people out there.

I have now found, after a lot of searching, my soul mate. But lifes not all a bed of roses for us. But he keeps me smiling, well most of the time anyway.

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My lover is seeing someone else. Should I be worried? Am I being silly giving him grief over this?

Q.   My husband has alzheimers. I love him deeply, and I love and care for him. The illness has changed my life forever. I am a young 55 so in the end I met another man and we are lovers. I know it is wrong but I have some happiness here this way. I ...

A.   6 April 2009: Honey! you are in charge of the situation not him. If you really dont want to see him anymore then DONT. My guess is though that you do want to, and thats why you are not letting go. Its a no way situation, so take your own advice and walk away head... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   6 April 2009: Glad to hear that, I'm really pleased for you honey. Take care and enjoy your new life...you certainly deserve it. XXXX... (read in full...)

A girl at work is the most perfect person ever! I'm her boss.. what should I do?

Q.   So I got a dilemma. There is this girl I like at work. I really like her, I never connected with anyone like this before, people probably say that a lot but I've been through a lot of crap to know she is the real deal. I'm her boss though but she ...

A.   6 August 2008: Your so welcome. Its lovely that you took the chance and it worked out. XXX Good luck... (read in full...)

Are tampons or pads better for periods?

Q.   Hey I was wondering r tampons or pads better for periods? I was going to try using a tampon for the first time, but the instructions said only use it if it's a moderate period. I happen to be having a heavy period. I'm afraid to use tampons though, ...

A.   31 July 2008: Great advice from emilysanswers, except I would definatly change the tampon more often. Its so easy to forget and leave it in. You can get serious problems with poisoning from Tampons. Its a good idea to not wear them all the time. ... (read in full...)

I am confused because again there are 2 women in my life and each fulfilles different needs for me. Help me figure my emotions out and make a decision!!

Q.   hi, i am a 31 year old male. this is a little complex but bear with me. I was with a girl for 7 years but for the last 4 i was secretly seeing someone else. The problem with my girlfriend was that i was not physically attracted to her but she had ...

A.   31 July 2008: None of them can be right or you wouldnt be pondering over who to choose. Maybe you should have some time on your own, before like you say "I dont want to hurt anyone". The fact is you are hurting, not only the girls but yourself. I can actu... (read in full...)

On a date, who should pick up the bill?

Q.   What is the proper etiquette when going out on a date on who should pay? I always expect the man to pay for at least the first few dates. Then I may put some money towards dinner once in a while. Is this ok? ...

A.   31 July 2008: If he asked you out then he should pay. If you ask him the next time then you should pay, and if he really likes you he wont let you pay anyway. Be carefull not to offer, he might just think your a sponger, After all we did want equality didnt we?... (read in full...)

How can I cope with my partner's daughter?

Q.   I find it difficult to get on with my partner's daughter - her mom died when she was little and although she's twenty and quite manilupative, she has him wrapped around her little finger. She is at college but refuses to work to help support ...

A.   31 July 2008: Hi again, I have been reading all the answers you have been given and its very interesting. I dont think its that you dont like your partners daughter, just more of a case that you feel she is doing nothing to help support herself. At 20 years old ... (read in full...)

How can I cope with my partner's daughter?

Q.   I find it difficult to get on with my partner's daughter - her mom died when she was little and although she's twenty and quite manilupative, she has him wrapped around her little finger. She is at college but refuses to work to help support ...

A.   30 July 2008: I am in the same position as you, and I'm afraid until your partner see's for himself what a lazy bugger his little princess is, he wont belive it. You could start by telling him that you cant afford to keep her and perhaps she might consider ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is pregnant and I don't find her sexually attractive anymore... how do I deal?

Q.   My girlfriend is pregnant. She's about 4 months along, and her stomach is getting bigger. I think it's glorious that she's carrying our child but for the past month or so I haven't found her very sexually attractive. I have started flirting with a ...

A.   29 July 2008: You complete git. How could you do that? I am sure there are many men out there that dont find thier partners atractive whilst pregnant. But to go out with another girl, just because of this beggars belief.... (read in full...)

Before we met, my BF was not working for 5 years, do I leave him until he finds a stable job?

Q.   hi all my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year now and before we wasnt dating he wasnt working for 5years , the thing is im worried i mean 5 years is long time to be out of work . hes 23 and im 27 ok not in a stable job but im working m...

A.   24 July 2008: Hi, If he is not ill, then sorry he's lazy. There are to many people in this country living on beifits because they cant be bothered to get up, that and the fact you can almost get from the goverment sitting on your **se what you can in some low ... (read in full...)

I can't get pregnant and my husband acts like he doesn't care?

Q.   My husband and I talked about the possibility of having another baby. Our financial situation isn't perfect, it never will be, but yes, money has been tight. Last year I went through cancer testing because of a 5 month long menstrual cycle and ...

A.   24 July 2008: I dont mean to sound harsh, I understand how hard it is on you, but it would seem that having a baby is more important to you than him. OR perhaps it is important but he's just not allowing it to take over his life like you are. You have a child ... (read in full...)

He doesn't cheat, but he's always busy so our life is full of problems. I need advice.

Q.   Dear cupid, am dating a 45yr old guy am 23 and the guy has 3kids from different mums the problem is that we keep arguing everytime i ask him about his last wife,all he does is tell me to stop nagging him.we dont spend much time together coz he is wo...

A.   24 July 2008: Oh my God honey!! What the hell do you want to be with him for? You might have love for him but he certainly isnt showing you any back is he? My advice is that you should pack your bags and go. He sounds like a completely selfish and nasty person. ... (read in full...)

He called me "a mate" in a text to a friend. I'm not "a mate". I'm his girlfriend! Help.

Q.   I hope someone can give me advice about this becuase I didn't sleep a wink last night for thinking about it. I was out with my boyfriend last night and we had a really good time, but something spoilt it - he sent me a text message which was for so...

A.   24 July 2008: To be honset I think you should give him a chance and see what happens. I have tried to catch my B/F out loads of times when he has done something fishy, but he has always (except once) been telling the truth. Just proceed with caution as they say.... (read in full...)

He called me "a mate" in a text to a friend. I'm not "a mate". I'm his girlfriend! Help.

Q.   I hope someone can give me advice about this becuase I didn't sleep a wink last night for thinking about it. I was out with my boyfriend last night and we had a really good time, but something spoilt it - he sent me a text message which was for so...

A.   24 July 2008: Hi, Just wanted to say that guys do slip up sometimes, and they can be a little thoughtless. My B/F always puts X's on the end of text's even to his mates. And guess what he said yesterday "I cant find my bank statements, they must be at your hou... (read in full...)

It's true I embarassed her by getting drunk, but how could she get over me so fast?

Q.   I need advice just over 3 weeks ago my ex dumped me I embrassed her at the her prom and got really drunk and she said that she no longer see's me in that way any more but how could she go off me in the space of a few short hours. We were together ...

A.   23 July 2008: You hit the nail on the head "She found someone else already". Thats how she has got over you so quickly. But darling if you have broken up a few times already something wasnt right was it? The only thing that you can do is to move on. You will find... (read in full...)

Would I be better off in a relationship with someone of my own age?

Q.   So i'm a gay 18 year old guy, and am going out with a 36 year old. True not the most conventional of relationships, but i've known i like older guys, so that's sorted. We've been going out for over a year, and like with most relationships we've ha...

A.   23 July 2008: Hey Joel! No problem. Your Mum must be really nice. X... (read in full...)

I found a sexy text from another woman on my husband's phone. He said he hasn't done anything wrong.

Q.   I have just found a sexy text from another woman on my husbands phone. It was under a mans name and in his language (which I can understand) I confronted him, he claimed that he met her on the yahoo chat and gave his number cos he was bored and now ...

A.   23 July 2008: He's not having an affair, what does he call texting other women then?. He may not be having sex with them but its still an emotional betrayal. He doesnt show any signs of stopping this either does he?. I think it were me, I would tell him to stop ... (read in full...)

I'm really worried about my girlfriend RIGHT NOW.

Q.   I'm really worried about my GF, She doesnt live near mine and she stayed over night and I have to go to work today and I gave her money to go town so she wouldnt get bored at my house, now that she's in town and im at work it worries me, she has not ...

A.   23 July 2008: Joel has it totally right. Stop panicking. She must have been able to contact you before she got there, so if worse comes to it, she will call when you are home later. Dont worry so much. XX... (read in full...)

Would I be better off in a relationship with someone of my own age?

Q.   So i'm a gay 18 year old guy, and am going out with a 36 year old. True not the most conventional of relationships, but i've known i like older guys, so that's sorted. We've been going out for over a year, and like with most relationships we've ha...

A.   23 July 2008: Ok! So without being insulting towards you. I have an image of you stomping off when ever you dont get your own way. This my friend is why the age gap show's, if you were more compatable you wouldnt notice it would you? As for him being on his own ... (read in full...)

I broke up with the father of my son. Did he mean all he said? I know we both love each other.

Q.   What do i do? I recently just broke up with sons father after being in the relationship for over 5yrs but the funny part is i don't feel bad nor am i having second thoughts about my decision. The reason i came to this decision after all those ...

A.   23 July 2008: I would say give him a little space and let him see that you are not going back to your babys dad. That maybe what he is affraid of.XX Hope all works out for you both.... (read in full...)

He called me "a mate" in a text to a friend. I'm not "a mate". I'm his girlfriend! Help.

Q.   I hope someone can give me advice about this becuase I didn't sleep a wink last night for thinking about it. I was out with my boyfriend last night and we had a really good time, but something spoilt it - he sent me a text message which was for so...

A.   23 July 2008: Mmm! Until you said that you spoke to him the next day I thought, oh just a stupid guy thing, and you are worried for nothing. Why did he lie the next day though, because it would show up on his phone that he did or didnt send it to you. He could ... (read in full...)

I broke up with the father of my son. Did he mean all he said? I know we both love each other.

Q.   What do i do? I recently just broke up with sons father after being in the relationship for over 5yrs but the funny part is i don't feel bad nor am i having second thoughts about my decision. The reason i came to this decision after all those ...

A.   23 July 2008: Sweetheart, I'm not sure that I understand you correct. Your post say's you are 18-21, you have been with your babys dad for 5 years. That means your ex is from when you were 13-16, do I have this correct? You are still very young, as is the boyf... (read in full...)

My lover is seeing someone else. Should I be worried? Am I being silly giving him grief over this?

Q.   My husband has alzheimers. I love him deeply, and I love and care for him. The illness has changed my life forever. I am a young 55 so in the end I met another man and we are lovers. I know it is wrong but I have some happiness here this way. I ...

A.   23 July 2008: God almighty darling! you know how to bring grief into your life dont you? Sweetheart I understand that you need someone to show you efection, because it must be hell having to care for someone so seriously ill. But dont you have enough trouble with... (read in full...)

I keep having trouble talking to my ex boyfriends.

Q.   I have been good friends wiht one of my ex boy friends since we broke up. I talk to him almost every night, but i keep wanting to tell him i love him and play those games we use to play like "you hang up no you hang up" I am married and while i ...

A.   23 July 2008: Sometimes babe, you cant have both. You have to decide who is more important. If you love your husband then he must come first XXX... (read in full...)

How can I get over my grandfather's death?

Q.   What would u do if u count get over ur grandfathers death even if its been a year? I kind of dont want to get over it but it makes me upset and i take all my fustrations out on my girlsfriend. Would would u do?...

A.   23 July 2008: Honey! You are feeling such a huge loss because its clear that not only was he your grandfather he was also your best friend. I think this is so lovely that you had such a high opinion of him, when most kids these days cant be bothered with anyone ... (read in full...)

I found out that my fiance' has slept with his ex-wife. Should I forgive him?

Q.   After a long suffering separation and the legal issues, my fiance' is getting his final court date for a divorce in September. However, I was nosy and looked in his email. I found out from the email that he has sent to his divorce lawyer, said to ...

A.   23 July 2008: Em darling!! I dont think I can ever forgive or forget completely. Its just that I decided there were worse things in life that can happen and I put it to the back of my mind. I know its weird but it kind of made me stronger in the end. I guess I ... (read in full...)

I found out that my fiance' has slept with his ex-wife. Should I forgive him?

Q.   After a long suffering separation and the legal issues, my fiance' is getting his final court date for a divorce in September. However, I was nosy and looked in his email. I found out from the email that he has sent to his divorce lawyer, said to ...

A.   22 July 2008: If only it were as simple as that. If I had not been weak I wonder if I would have had my partner back. All I can say is go with your heart darling. I know how you feel, and how much it hurts. It wont do you any harm to put some space between you ... (read in full...)

I found out that my fiance' has slept with his ex-wife. Should I forgive him?

Q.   After a long suffering separation and the legal issues, my fiance' is getting his final court date for a divorce in September. However, I was nosy and looked in his email. I found out from the email that he has sent to his divorce lawyer, said to ...

A.   22 July 2008: Hi, I have been in a very simular situation to you. My partner had to go to visit a university with his daughter and his ex. They stayed in a hotel over night because it was to far to come back in one day. I cried myself to sleep that night, beca... (read in full...)

How can I get over my grandfather's death?

Q.   What would u do if u count get over ur grandfathers death even if its been a year? I kind of dont want to get over it but it makes me upset and i take all my fustrations out on my girlsfriend. Would would u do?...

A.   22 July 2008: Hi, I lost my best mate a few weeks ago, so I know what you are going through. Its the hardest thing in the world to lose an important person in your life. I have gone through so many emotions, anger,tears,guilt. All sorts of stuff that I didnt th... (read in full...)

I keep having trouble talking to my ex boyfriends.

Q.   I have been good friends wiht one of my ex boy friends since we broke up. I talk to him almost every night, but i keep wanting to tell him i love him and play those games we use to play like "you hang up no you hang up" I am married and while i ...

A.   22 July 2008: It sounds to me like you got married to young and wern't really ready. You cant expect to still have the relationships with ex's that you used to have. For a start its unfair on your husband, and unfair on your ex's new partners. You need to decid... (read in full...)

My friend goes crazy when she is drunk and says nasty things about me that aren't true. I'm really upset by all of it.

Q.   Hi everyone, Ok my problem is that i have a friend. She is one of the nicest people when she is sober but drinks wayyyy too much and goes crazy, sometimes its funny she doesnt do anything bad just dances and things like that but recently it has t...

A.   22 July 2008: Have you tried talking to her when she is sobber? maybe you could get a better idea of why she is saying all this stuff. The thing is if you dont believe her then thats your choice, but why on earth are you still mates with her? A true friend woul... (read in full...)

He's 44 and she's 19. Is he a pervert?

Q.   the man i am sleeping with, wants an open relationship, i am in love with him so go along with it just to be with him. Now he tells me hes met a 19yr old girl and wants to see her again cos they have a connection - he's 44! does that make him a ...

A.   22 July 2008: This is really wierd, the question sounded like it came from a woman, but the answer was quite masculine. OOerr! Anyway!! Dump him love he sounds a bit strange.... (read in full...)

I truly believe he is "the one". He said he doesn't believe in "the one". I feel used.

Q.   I'm 17 and have been with my boyfriend since march 07, last night i asked him does he believe in 'the one' which he replied 'no', however i do believe in one and truly believe he is it. I know he loves me but for some reason i know feel used and ...

A.   22 July 2008: Hi, I think that when you are young, girls do tend to believe this. But ask yourself honestly, if you lost your B/F today and could never see him again, are you sure that after a while you wouldnt want to meet anyone else ever. Its very rare to only... (read in full...)

My husband doesn't know if he loves me anymore after 7 years - I feel it's a matter of time before he leaves.

Q.   we have been together for 16 years and married for 7 years ( no funnys about the 7 year itch please ) my husband told me a few days ago that he cares for me but is unsure if he loves me anymore , he doesnt want to move out at the moment because hes ...

A.   21 July 2008: Oh darling I am sorry! Until you find out why he feels like this, theres not an awfull lot you can do. Have you asked him if there is anyone else involved (I hope not) but these things can happen. You need to be strong and get him to talk about wh... (read in full...)

How long will it take for her to enjoy sex after losing her V card?

Q.   Ok me and my girlfriend recently had sex.. And she said it really hurt.. How long will it take for her to enjoy sex?...

A.   21 July 2008: Hi, Maybe a little while, until she learns to relax. Take it very slowly with her, and everything will be fine.... (read in full...)

I'm not sure I want to meet my online date, as he is not my type and comes accross as really obsessive - so should I?

Q.   Hi, i really need some advice. There's this guy i've been talkin to on msn who lives local. Apparently he really likes me, and i think i like him too but he comes across as really obsessive... he often rings me, emails me etc. And it does become r...

A.   21 July 2008: Hi sweetie, Is it safe to meet up with him?. How do you know that he's only 17, he could be 47 for all you know. Surely at your age its easy to go out with your mates and meet boys (ones that you can see are the same age as yourself). If he sou... (read in full...)

Can trust be rebuilt? I want to forgive and forget...

Q.   How do you rebuild trust? Infact can trust be rebuilt? My boyfriend broke up with me about a year ago, he told me he had feelings for his ex. Two months later he came back and told me he was sorry but he had made a mistake. It took me a long time to ...

A.   21 July 2008: Hi, There is no magic solution to make you forget what your B/F did. All I can say is! can you imagine your life without him, or would that seem unbearable. Is it worth losing the person you love because they made a mistake (even though it was a pr... (read in full...)

A girl at work is the most perfect person ever! I'm her boss.. what should I do?

Q.   So I got a dilemma. There is this girl I like at work. I really like her, I never connected with anyone like this before, people probably say that a lot but I've been through a lot of crap to know she is the real deal. I'm her boss though but she ...

A.   21 July 2008: How about!! "It would be a shame to lose contact with you, now your leaving. Would you like to meet up sometime for lunch, and a chat". If this girl likes you it wont matter what you say really. X... (read in full...)

Does my friend's husband have a real emotional attachment to me? Or was it just a bit of physical attraction?

Q.   I have a friend ,whom I know since last 4-5 yrs,me n his wife r really gud friend actually all of us (me n my hubby he and his wife)are really close friends .But 2 months back I was alone with him for beer ,then he lost his control once but some how ...

A.   18 July 2008: Honey!! You are going to lose a lot more than sleeps if you carry this on. You are having an emotional affair like the previous Aunt said, and it doesnt sound like it would take long for this to turn sexual, ask yourself "is this what you want". Y... (read in full...)

My Virgin Bride was not a Virgin. How do I cope?

Q.   Hi, like many other guys I have a problem with my wifes past. I met her 25 years ago, she was 17 and I was 19. we hit it off right from the start and fell in love. we now have 2 kids aged 10 and 12. Every thing was fine until I asked her...

A.   17 July 2008: My worry is that, are you that unaproachable that she had to lie to you in the first place. Could it be that the reaction she is getting now, is why she felt that she couldnt tell you in the first place. Why after all this time did she then tell... (read in full...)

If someone says "leave me alone" when they are heated, do they really mean it?

Q.   If someone tells you to stay away from them and leave them the F alone knowing they were saying it because they were heated does that mean they never want to see you again ever in life? ...

A.   17 July 2008: If you did nothing wrong, then I would do what they said, and then find someone new with better manners. Of course if you deserved it then thats different, and you should let them calm down.... (read in full...)

A girl at work is the most perfect person ever! I'm her boss.. what should I do?

Q.   So I got a dilemma. There is this girl I like at work. I really like her, I never connected with anyone like this before, people probably say that a lot but I've been through a lot of crap to know she is the real deal. I'm her boss though but she ...

A.   17 July 2008: If she's leaving anyway, what does it matter. Tell her how you feel, and then if she doesnt feel the same you wont have to face her. I think she probably likes you though, from what you said. Good luck... (read in full...)

Is it necessary to have things in common with a partner???

Q.   Hi just a quick question. Is it necessary to have something in common with your boyfriend or girlfriend? My boyfriend said on the phone last night " i dont think we've anything in common". And i said is that bad? Then he said "i think you're meant ...

A.   17 July 2008: Hi, It depends on you as people I think. I love Photography, Art gallery's, my Garden, and Sailing. I used to spend so much money on clothing and shoes you wouldnt believe it. Now I am happiest with my camera and being on the sea in our boat, an... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   17 July 2008: Sarcy, its only expensive because you both made it that way. I totally understand how upset and bitter you were, but you cannot stop this man from seeing his child, no matter how you feel about it. Because its totally un-fair on your son. You are ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   2 May 2008: Uncle Phil is right babe!! dont hang it out anymore than you have to. Except he is gone and have a good cry, but for goodness sake dont let those solicitors have any more of your money. Even if they get him to admit he is the biggest ar**hole in the ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   1 May 2008: Honey!! I cant believe that you called him. Its so obvious that he doesnt want anything to do with you, why keep hurting yourself. You know deep down that the only reason you called him was to get him to respond to you!! I dont know why you bother? ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   14 April 2008: I kind of agree with the last poster. Solicitors will do anything to earn some more out of the poor sod going through this pain. Really it doesnt matter what you divorce him for, its not as if he will have lying cheating sh** across his head. No b... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   10 March 2008: I wish I could give you a hug, I knew you would get there in the end. Hip Hip Horah XXXXXX... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   5 March 2008: Thank God!!! you are actually staring to fight this man back. I can also tell you why he cant look you in the face, it's guilt nothing else. For whatever reason he has for his actions, does not mean you have to take it laying down. Go for what... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   1 March 2008: Hi Honey, Reading your post, I can see that you have still got extremely strong feelings for this man. I know that its hard to let go of any hope, but I think that your husband has proved over and over again that you have no option. He has move... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   13 November 2007: Hiya! I am so pleased for you, your sounding so much better, and a hell of a lot more positive. Good for you. Its so nice when you try and help someone and they feel like there is no light at the end of the tunnel, and then they begin to see that... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   20 September 2007: Hi, I have been sitting reading what has happened to you with a lump in my throat. Its so sad when you are in love with someone who falls for someone else. I should know this has happened to me. But surely by now you can see that the only time he ... (read in full...)

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