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Archived questions from: 16 February, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Does it hurt the children more to grow up in a divorced home or an unhappy one with the parents together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I was engaged to my ex for 5 years. We ended up breaking up for a stupid reason and I didn't contact him for months. He ended up sleeping with a girl and getting her pregnant after the break up. I found out later. We spoke and texted everyday and ...

Can any one suggest a way to kill off unwanted emotions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Can any one suggest a way to kill off unwanted emotions? Long story made short, I'm married for 6 years with 3 gorgeous kids and a fabulous husband. We have a great life together, all except I seem to not fancy my husband any more, I love him ...

My ex boyfriend and I... advice as I'm going nuts here!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up almost 3 months ago We had a crazy break up- hate eachother one minute/ love the next. He eventually asked me to be friends so I agree after much hesitation. So we hung out, had sex- sleepovers. That eventually stoped, ...

I recently found out that my boyfriend slept with his ex girlfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - hey guys I really need everyones opinion on this please im realllllly confused atm... I recently found out that my boyfriend slept with his ex girlfriend 3 months into out 10 month relationship... it was a funny way we started the relationship... ...

I fear sex is the only reason my ex wants me to visit him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend moved back to his home country for work. We decided to break up cos we thought that a long long distance relationship would not work because at the time we was going through a rough patch in our relationship. He has been away for a fe...

My g/f is close to her male friends, I'm scared to ask about it in case there is more to it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - I've been seeing my girlfriend for about 2 and a half years now, she's 22 and a half and i'm nearly 27, when we first met i was in an unsigned band and out a lot but due to work commitments i had to leave the band which meant my social life has ...

The girl I like wants to sleep around just to make her ex angry, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - So last night i was talking to the girl ive been talking to we dont date because she is still in the process of getting over her ex that she went out with for 3 years and hes come up frequenty in conversations, this girl has alreayd told me i mean a ...

How do I say NO to my ex boyfriend's best mate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I am a single, young woman of nineteen years and I am currently in a friends-with-benefits kind of thing with two young men my age (only making out). I honestly do not feel good about any of this. You see, one of these guys is my ex-boyfriend's best ...

Her ex popped up just as I was leaving. I find this difficult to handle.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - I recently spent the night with my girlfriend to celebrate valentines. The next morning I left to go home and an ex she had intimate relations with dropped by to use the restroom. I had a real issue with it and he knew she was seeing someone. So she ...

2 men... only one heart.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I really need advice, my chilhood sweetheart and I had a son whom is now 6 years old, I am now married to another man and my ex works away we usually keep in contact via text or pm etc, he has recently told me him and his wife are getting a divorce ...

My room mate also happens to be my ex husband and my boyfriend finds that difficult...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I have an interesting situation in my life, and not sure how to help my boyfriend understand it. I have a roommate - who also happens to be my ex hubby. I AM divorced from him. We have been the best of friends since we were 16 (both in our mid to ...

I don’t think he’s had time too heal... what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I’m confused. I’ve been with my boyfriend for over a year; I love him a lot and care for him. He has a child of 3 with another woman... A few days ago she called and they ended up arguing. He was really upset, he said when she broke up with hi...

Is it possible to keep communication without feeling pain or disappointment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Since the man I was dating the last year wasn't taking our relationship seriously I don't call him any more and I have told him that I see him as a friend from now and in the future. Although these aren't my real feelings I pretend that I don't have ...

End of a long relationship! I'm only 15! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I really need help. My ex boyfriend left me after a 1 year and 4 month relationship and I cannot cope at all... Throughout our relationship he always said these things exactly: "I promise that I love you and only you" "I promise that W...

I like him, he's not over her! Is there something more between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - im newly single. left my ex to live a life. around new years i met this guy, lets call him j. when i first met him i told him i didnt want anything because i just got out of my engagement... well, we hit it off pretty well, and i ended up sleepin ...

Ex-girlfriend found someone else but continues to pursue me for sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - i'm confused about my ex-girlfriend.We broke up about 8 months ago. She found a new guy but we been having sex the last six months while she been with her new boy friend. She tells me how much she loves me and miss me.We meet in the morning and talk ...

Does he still care about me or am I just seeing what I want to see??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - my ex and i have been broken up sence the 3rd of this month but i still love him....recently i feel like he kind of still cares about me but i am not sure. 1. he stares at me in the hallways at school (but not a creepy stare lol) 2. he ta...

Why does my ex ask if I'm dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Why does my ex girlfriend who I have a child with consistently ask if I am dating? She is the one who left the relationship and is now dating someone and I never ask her. Please advise. ...