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Archived questions from: 8 October, 2008 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

I am beginning to think that fate really does exist and departed loved ones really could be there watching over us and protecting us...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

8 October 2008 (M - The other week after being told by my girlfiend by text that it was over I drove for 2 hours to see her to try and speak to her to sort things out (mistake no.1) As she was ignoring all my messages and calls before I just turned up I messaged he...

I'm so obsessed with a man who was in jail and who returned to his girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

8 October 2008 (F - I can't get him out of my head!! I'm totally obsessed with a man who I probably won't see again and who was in jail but now has gone back to his girlfriend! We had a definite attraction for each other and I asked him to call once he got ou...

How can she be so cold? Could I win her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

8 October 2008 (M - About three months ago, I was madly in love with this girl I worked with. Turns out it was unrequitted. Beut, nether-the-less I still tried to get her. I sent her a valentine card and everything. Well, eventually she left, and I gave her a necklace ...

Am I making a fuss over nothing or is any of this something to worry about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

8 October 2008 (F - Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. I love him very much. The thing is I feel like I'm always proving my love but he isn't. I talk about him on my facebook profile, but he mentions nothing about me, not even that he's in a ...

I feel he is having second thoughts about a relationship as he has become most distant and angry over nothing apparent.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

8 October 2008 (F - I have recently split with my partner of one year. I am quite upset by this yes, however his best friend told me that he would be interested in starting a relationship with me. Having had strong feelings for him in the past I said I would be most ...

I saw my ex's girlfriend naked on some other guy's mobile phone! Do I tell my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

8 October 2008 (F - I'm a 25 year old woman and am totally stumped on this one so please give your opinion, my ex boyfriend who I really care about and still love has moved on with his life and got himself a new girlfriend, I'm okay with that to a degree but I won't ...

Did my ex return to me because I paid someone to do spells??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

8 October 2008 (F - this is a bit of a random question but, i broke up with my ex last year and even after having no contact from all that time i couldnt move on, although he had, so i decided casting a few spells would bring him back to me, i payed someone to do it, ...

I need closure with my ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

8 October 2008 (M - I need closure with my ex that I've been on and off with for almost 6 years. We always go through bad things, and we end up flipping on each other. I need some help on how to handle this....

Why did my ex treat me so strangely after we broke up, when she is the one that cheated? Is it bad to consider a revenge?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

8 October 2008 (M - I was with a girl for two year and found by chance she was seeing someone else. I walked away upset, but caused no problems at all,this was 10 month ago and all through this time she has constantly displayed strange behaviour to me. Sometimes ...

How to tell my ex that I want to get back together? He said it was my attitude and my arguing...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

8 October 2008 (F - i finally broke up with him...we thought i was pregnat, i'm not..ok..so the same day i found out..i wanted to have sex, he was scared...which i could see where he was coming from, but his whole attitude had been changing...now...its like i miss him ...

We broke up because he had some really strange fetishes, are there others out there who enjoy these?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

8 October 2008 (F - My exboyfriend of 1 yr and I just broke up. He was into some really strange fetishes and over time I agreed to participate in them...things like spanking him, using a strap on with him, peeing in his mouth while he performed oral sex on me, and then ...

She went back to her ex, but asked my friend if I remember her. Does that mean she still likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

8 October 2008 (M - theres a girl i met a few months ago. we both really liked each other and started meeting up and pulling eachother for a while. she was just broken up from her bf but she then went back to him. hes her first love and she was telling me she was ...

He has moved on and I am still stuck on him. I cant get over him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

8 October 2008 (F - I'm 16. I dated(unofficially) this guy (17 y/o) for 3 months - May, June and July. Things were great in the beginning and he had been in previous relationships, but I hadn't. We didn't kiss or do anything like that.. I used to hug only, because as...

I wanted some closure - but do you think he thinks I want him back now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

8 October 2008 (F - Does my ex think I'm trying to get him back? I broke up with my ex a year ago. Shortly after the breakup i changed my phone number so he would stop harassing me. He was emailing me up until July-so i changed my email in July. Well, on Saturday i ...

I just found out I have a teenaged son I knew nothing about - how do I tell my wife and our children, and how do I talk to this other child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 October 2008 (M - Alright im going to try to make this short as possible. Ok, when I was in my early 20s I had a friend that I was really close to. He had a sister that was I'm guessing 6 years younger than him (I can't rember). So she had a thing for me, but of c...

I have a wonderful boyfriend, but I'm infatuated with another guy - why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

8 October 2008 (F - I think I have a serious problem and I want to know honest opinions on what I should do. My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 4 years now (I'm in my 20's) and I love and care for him very much (I don't believe I'm in love with him ...

I want her back more then anything in this world, even after shes hurt me like this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

8 October 2008 (M - K so where to begin.... me and my ex dated for a while and we were both in love and she truely was and so was i but i didnt show it enough, and one day we got in a huge fight and i said really mean shit , that i didnt mean. anyways we broke up for...

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