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Archived questions from: 7 December, 2008 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

My exboyfriend/best friend hasn't spoken to me in 6 months and I miss him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

7 December 2008 (F - My ex boyfriend and I have not spoken in 6 months. We broke up about 2 years ago, but remained friends. we had been best friends for about 3 years before we got together, and then after we broke up we stayed friends still. i spoke to him virtually ...

Should I stay married even though I feel that some of the things that I need from marriage are not met?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

7 December 2008 (F - I suppose my internal conflict can be swayed with more encouragement. I met my ex online in a chat rooms 6 years ago. I eventually met him in person after a year, by which time we both hated to admit but were already in love. We distinctly met 3 ti...

Did I go into this new relationship on the rebound?

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7 December 2008 (F - Hey, the story is I was with a guy for a while (coming up to two years) but then we started to not get on as well and we argued and in the end there wasn't much of a relatioship going on so we broke up. I was obviously upset for a while but after a ...

How can I finally let go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

7 December 2008 (F - It's been 5 months and I still haven't let go. I feel totally pathetic that I have barely progressed in getting over my 2 year relationship. Granted after 3 months he started to woo me and get me to want to be with him again. And then at the 4 month ...

Does he feel guilty about the way he treated me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

7 December 2008 (F - I was with my ex for 2 months before he split with me for someone else back in august. I was in love with him so this was heartbreaking for me. 2 weeks later I find that Im pregnant by him. He didnt want to know and so I had an abortion as Im too ...

Did he go to the club because he knew his ex would be there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

7 December 2008 (F - ive been seeing a guy for about a month and a half now. but i had random concerns that he wasnt over his ex..they came from nowhere really but it just bothered me. i saw her out last night and text the guy saying id just seen her, then he turned up ...

Wishing away the next 6 months until my ex gets back! HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

7 December 2008 (F - I am feeling quite low at the moment as I am constantly thinking about my ex-boyfriend who has gone travelling for 6 months. Just before he went we started talking again after the split and actually got it on again. He has invited me to go and see ...

How to break that wall he has against me since we broke up? I want to date him again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

7 December 2008 (F - Hi, so I broke up with my boyfriend for about a month and 2 weeks ago (we'd been together for 20 months and most of the time we've been really happy). We go to the same school, so we see each other practically every day. I didn't really wanted to ...

Ex dumped me for the mother of his child, we still have sex, does he want me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

7 December 2008 (F - Hi guys, I need help over my ex bf he dumped me for his ex the mother of his child, anyway we are still having sex once or twice a week,talk on the phone everyday,i see him most days aswell, anyway for the past week hes invited my for a drink an...

The Ex Boyfriend is a stalker???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

7 December 2008 (F - ok i need help. well a few years back i "whent out" with this guy, [i'll call him #6] we only whent out for like 2 months. well he broke up with me. over the phone. on a voicemail. that was 12 seconds long. i was so upset, he was the first guy to ...

Have I already blown my chance with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

7 December 2008 (M - Hello everyone,Im a guy of 23 and got chatting to a really great girl who is 18 via a dating site and we hit it off straight away. To keep this as short as possible. We met up and went on a couple of really fantastic dates and i felt we real...

What do I do in case he has feelings left for the ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

7 December 2008 (F - I think my boyfriend might leave me. I thought everything was ok between us, but I'm not sure if he's still in love with his ex. He says he loves me but why does he care so much about what happens to her. If he cares that much, then why isn't he ...

It's so hard to get over her! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

7 December 2008 (M - Broke up 3 months ago. It was my first real relationship, and it lasted a 1 1/2 years. I really loved her, did everything for her, and I found out for a few months prior to our breakup that she had 'fallen in love with someone else'. This was over ...

Was engaged, he backed out, got another girl pregnant and know he wants back...What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 December 2008 (F - Okay big question.....I love him I know I do that's not the question. We were engaged a year ago, He got Major cold feet, left, got another chick pregnant, now he wants back in. Says he made a huge mistake by leaving. Says that we are meant to be ...

Will I regret losing my virginity to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 December 2008 (F - I'm a virgin, but I have been fingered by my ex-boyfriend before and used toys. Anyway, I'm going to stay with a friend next weekend (who I really like) but he lives quite far away.. I'd be really tempted to have sex with him, I think I'd find i...

Is this being strong or being stupid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 December 2008 (F - Okay so recently I was dating a guy who I have been with off and off for a little over a year and we didnt talk over the whole thanksgiving break so I finally talked to him once I found out he got accepted into army/bootcamp sorta deal. After that ...

Should he attend his ex fiance's wedding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 December 2008 (F - My boyfriend was invited to his ex-fiance's wedding should he attend? We both know she has feelings for him still....

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