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writes: Me and my gf are planning to have sex for the first time soon. (We are both virgins and 16)Im not sure what im supposed to do, do I just do what ive seen in porn??If not can you please advise??
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reader, daletom  +, writes (16 May 2009):
Do you care for this girl? What you see in porn is certainly NOT "making love" (which is what I hope you want to do, if she's special to you) and generally not even a real good example of just "having sex".
Yeah, the article by "satindesire" (and the responses) are a good place to start learning about the physiological mechanics of sex. But good sex is more than physiology, and the fact that you are asking this question makes me wonder if you two are mentally and emotionally ready for this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): DO NOT DO WHAT YOU SEE IN PORN!
I look at porn as much as the next guy but it's no way to learn about sex. You do your girlfriend's first time like you saw in a porn movie, and you'll be lucky if she ever comes back for a second time.
Read what the other people have linked you to.
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