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writes:Ok I really like this guy but he doesn't pay attention to me. It's like I don't exist to him. I don't want to like him but I can't help it. I would just catch myself staring at him for like a really long time. Right now he is going out with another girl. I always try to look cute for him but its not working. My friends keep telling me hes a jerk and he doesn't deserve me. I know that but the thing is I don't know him that much so I can't be sure. What should I do? I mean I can't get over him really quick because I've liked him for two years now. I need help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2009): FROM ORIGINAL POSTER
Well I really don't have the confidence to just go up and talk to him bacuse we are in diffrent cliques. I mean he is in the popular stuck up one but I'm in the middle of losers and populars. But he is not stuck up I think he just acts that way because his friends do. How should I approach him in a casual way that will start our friendship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): show your confidence laugh a bit louder(but not crazy!!) with your friends stand slightly away from your group when he's looking if you notice out the corner of your eye make cool eye-contact with him if e/c lingers try smiling
yeah u can talk to him when the time is right but he does have a gf so just let him know you're there for now n don't go straight in there xx !!! :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): Hi
maybe the fact that he doesnt respond to your stares etc, is because he has a girlfriend and he doesnt look at other girls? I dont know, but thats what it might be from an outside perspective.
I think you just need to accept the fact that he has a girlfriend at the moment, and maybe stop trying to ger his attention so much. I always find that its when you are not trying that guys start to like you.. a bit annoying but soo true. If you really want him to notice you, you have to talk to him because he is not going to automatically want to be with someone when they dont speak. Try talking to him?
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