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writes:So i had sex for the very first time last week, but it wasn't my boyfriends first time. It hurt i know thats normal for the first time and it was hard to get in at first cos i must be tight, but what i was wondering is does it feel different for the guy if its really tight?I mean will it give him more pleasure cos its tight? or will it maybe hurt him/be harder work for him?Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, daletom  +, writes (16 May 2009):
Yes, most guys would say "the tighter the better" - up to a point. If you want to give him a special thrill, do Kegel exercises and learn to control your PC muscles. (Google "Kegel PC" to learn about these.) It will take several months of practice, but if you get good at it you can make him climax when YOU want him to by squeezing him with these muscles.
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (16 May 2009):
 Guys will have a different answer to this one, but in my experience tighter is usually a better feeling. However, there is such a thing as being too-tight. It's not your fault, and there's nothing you can do about it (except maybe squeeze out a kid, but that's years down the road for you).
Just use plenty of lube, make sure you are relaxed, and that he goes slow.
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reader, misswalston +, writes (16 May 2009):
 I guess the guy that responded to you is one of the lucky ones, because usually a guy will tell you that it hurts them when a girl is tight. Sometimes it even scars the skin. What was your boyfriend's response? Did he look like it hurt him? Did he wince in pain? If he didn't show any of these signs, then maybe it wasn't so bad for him, but for you it will get better. The more you have sex, the looser you will get and it will be enjoyable and as long as he takes his time and not plunge into so fast......Good Luck...
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