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writes:I live in Texas and I recently went to North Carolina for my nephew's baptism. While over there, I meet my brother-in-law's cousin named Abel. We stayed over there for a week and I got to know Abel and I started to like him. The night before I felt, we went out clubbing and when we came back we shared an intimate moment. So when I came back to my house, I sorta missed his company but we kept talking on myspace. Ever since we've been talking to each other and getting to know each other more and more. He tells me he really misses me and that he really enjoyed my company. About a week ago he came to visit his family that live over here so I got to see him again. The same thing happened like last time so he left back home. Now what I'm asking for help as to what you think about what's happening between us. Do you think he really likes me? and why is it that once you share an intimate moment with someone, that you really start to get feelings for that person?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): I would suggest not having sex with him every single time you see him.
If he's not only into you for that right now, then he very well may be later.
Plus, you are pretty young for the hook up every time i see him game.
watch your rep.
Try being with him without sex. If he still talks to you and wants to see you again, then there's a greater chance he likes you for you.
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reader, lizzie(: +, writes (15 May 2009):
lizzie(: is verified as being by the original poster of the question well first of all, he's not my cousin. he's my brother in laws cousin so he's not related to me.
since everyone is curious, is was sex but it was romantic/passionate sex, not just empty sex.
thank you for your advice!(:
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): He's your cousin! Stay away, stay far away! And yes once you cross that closeness boundary you begin to get feelings, no matter who it's with. Be carefull with who you let your guard down. And yes of course he likes you and he probably wants a whole lot of other things from you. He will try for that you will see. guys are not completely happy until they get THEIR fill. Watch out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): so.. what was your intimant moment? I am just curious. I want to hear a story mostly i guess.
Plus, it's pretty hard to tell from the little information provided if he likes you or not.
If both intimant moments were just hot sex, then he may just be into the sex and taking it less seriously than you are. But if it was a moment that showed that he repsects you and has depth, then he probably does like you. I don't think he would go through trouble of keeping touch with a woman he doesn't get to see very often he if didn't actually like you.
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