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Archived questions from: 21 July, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

My parents want me to have a baby so they can look after it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - im a 17 year old girl living in the UK! recently, my parents have been a little immature and stupid i think to be honest. my parents have been trying for another baby since i was 2, but were told for personal reasons she will find it very difficult ...

I left my boyfriend because he was slagging me off to my sister on facebook!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - A couple of months ago i left my boyfriend because he was slagging me off on facebook to my sister! And i was talking to him myself on facebook chat and he said "My mate likes you" and i said who? he said "peter" Then he said that it was a joke ...

What do the labia look like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - this is libia question when one of my friends puts on a bathing suit there is a little lump..kinda like an arch stretching down. i think it is her libia. does this happen to all girls? and What is it? [Moderator note: the following question w...

She hasn't texted back for 4 days!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - My friend who i met alone hasn't texted me back last time she texted me she said she had to go for a bit i said ok well text me when u can. well that was 4 days ago. and iv texted her since but she hasn't responded i even texted her and said happy ...

How do I proceed with this shy girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5398 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - I know it`s a hard task to complete,but id like to try. I like a girl from my class. She is a beauty, but also she is very shy person. One night she was drunk and kissed me on the cheek and the second day she pretended that i dont exist. She take...

Embarassing gag reflex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I love giving my boyfriend head, but when he comes, I gag...It's embarrassing. Is there anyway to stop that from happening? It's not the taste or anything, usually I don't even notice it, it's just my reflexs. help?!...

Why is life such a cruel thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5304 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - i know this isnt my relationsip or anything! but i just cant help but worry, im only 17, i found out about 6 weeks ago that i was pregnant, and im now just 9 weeks gone, we was stupid, we made a mitake, not the best thing at this age, but me and my ...

Two UTI's in one month?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Two weeks ago I got a UTI. After it went away me and my boyfriend continued to have sex with a condom on. Last night we had sex without one, I'm on the pill by the way and now I wake up and I feel like I have a UTI again. I'm scared to tell my mom ...

Possible to have a real relationship without sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - So is it possible to have a real relationship without sex? Im 16 and Im a virgin and in a great relationship but I just don't see the point in relationships if you're not gonna do anything else. I mean what good is a teenage relationship? So my ...

My ex has a twisted logic to justify our broken relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I've recently ended my relationship with my ex because she was seeing this other girl behind my back, but when i was breaking up with her she's been saying all these things like "i knew this would happen because you don't want this to work but i do" ...

Theres always been something there but shes in a sexual relationship!

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21 July 2009 (M) - I fancy one of my friends, but she's been going out with a guy outside of school for 2 months. There's always been something there, and the relationship she's in now is almost purely sexual. What should I do...

He didn't cum in me, on birth control, could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - hi what are my chances of getting pregnant. me and my boyfriend had sex 3 days ago several times, he never came inside of me just like on my stomach. i'm on birth controll but that night i took it later than usual. i'm not supposed to start for ...

We both cheated now he wants a week break!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5398 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 7 months, we've both cheated on eachother and i felt awful. After that we worked it out and then the arguing happened again this time more often and we got more verbally nasty with eachother. ...

Best way to confess undying love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - i need to confess my undying love to a girl before she leaves for uni. what is the best way to do this? jamez x...

How do I come clean to my mum that the condom she found was mine and my boyfriend's?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - my mom found a condom that me and my boyfriend used but i couldnt find any excuse but to tell her that it was one of my friends from work that put it in my bag but i find it hard to believe that she believed me and im 16! i dont know how to tell her ...

I want to continue my friendship with my teacher but I want it to work romantically too!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I love a teacher of mine. I wasn't even sure what the feeling was until my mom identified it. (I talk about him with her; my age difference with my teacher is the same as my mom's with my dad.) He's 12- 13 years older than me, but even so, we conn...

Boyfriend's blue balls.....he says if I don't give him head he will leave me!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend says every time we hang out he gets blue balls and is in pain for hours, even days. It causes him headaches and muscle cramps too. I do plenty of sexual things for him almost every time we hang out. He's tried masturbating beforehand, ...

I'm crazy about a boy, but he lives very far away! Please help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - ive met a boy.. and i am crazy about him! i met him after i accidently added him on msn, but when i saw how gorgeous he is, i couldnt help talking to him through webcam and msn. after a day, i also realised how funny, artistic, modest, thoughtf...

I know stuff will happen in my hot tub on Thursday, how do I know what to do and how do I control myself?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - heyy. i'm really nervous. i've got this guy coming round mine on thursday. we're going in my hot tub. i know stuff is going to happen and im so nervous about it. how do you give a blowjob? i dont want to do it wrong. this is really important. ...

Can anyone tell whether I will bleed the first time I have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - okay... i masturbate quite alot. but i guess its just something us girls dont admit to lol! anyway ive been with this guy now for a little under 7 months, and im not stupid i know sex will happen pretty soon! but we've not rushed anything.. my que...

How do I trust someone who doesn't trust themselves

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5398 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - I've been having a rocky time with my partner lately about trust issues and that. We have been together for about 2 months now and we both feel attached to each other. There is major trust issues between us. I've made mistakes whilst I wa...

My boyfriend suddenly doesn't trust me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend has been acting like a little strange lately. Like he's a chill sorta dude but lately he freaks out about the littlest things! Like on my myspace i change my mood status a lot and for one it said "talking on the phone with ----" and ...

He's talking about having kids, but I'm scared it will ruin things

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Sooo im 17 ill be 18 in three months and my boyfriend has asked me to marry him. We've been together almost 3 years now and we both love each other so much! I really love this boy and i think he's amazing and sweet and just PERFECT for me! I know we ...

Do girls like guys that write poetry?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - hey im 14 and i hate to boast but im quite a poet. i also write songs and i have even wrote a book. but the problem is i was wondering do girls like this in a guy or do they think that it is stupid? please help me because i dont know....

How do we stop fighting over every little thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5398 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Hello Cupid, I've been with my online boyfriend for 14 months. A big problem is that fight constantly!!! We fight about the smallest things ever but we still love each other just as much. We are very jealous people, and we tell each other to bl...

Is the babies father able to accompany me to the Doctors?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Im 17 yrs old and pregnant with a 19 yr old guy i've been dating for almost 2yrs. Hes very active in both mine and the babys life and wanted to keep it as soon as he found out. because he is so active though, he wants to be involved in all the ...

Does this seem like an overreaction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - Okay, so here's the deal. Around late June, my girlfriend asked me to hold onto a piece of sheet music for her because she didn't want to lose it. She would ask for it a few times to practice, seeing as how her choir class would be performing the s...

She only ever talks about her problems, never listens to mine

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Hi there, This may be quite a common situation, but I haven't really been exposed to it. This question is a friendship question, and I know it's long, but I'd really appreciate your persistence! I'm 15 years old, although I'm commonly mistake...

He's planned to get his wisdom teeth out just before our holiday

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - It seems like my boyfriend of three years just doesn't care when things are planned out. He and I are planning to take a romantic weekend trip to a nearby city. Today he went to the dentist to make an appointment to have his wisdom teeth taken out. ...

Should I date the best friend of the guy I lost my virginity to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - So I lost my virginity to this guy about two months ago and I have not seen him since that night and he talks shit about me. His best friend has liked me for awhile and I've treated him bad, until recently when I discovered i really like him. We ...

How can I get over my shyness when I meet all my BFs friends?

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21 July 2009 (F) - Needing some help! I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months. I have met his best friend and his mom and sister. But his birthday is this week, and a collection of his friends and family are going to be there. I am nervous about being there, but I ...

Why won't he let this girl go and be with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I am 20 years old and just recently, four months ago met a guy at school who is 30 years old. I have never been able to cope with guys my own age cause of maturity. but anyway I met the guy in college and I guess I talked first kinda flirting asking ...

I'm a masculine guy who wants a masculine guy...but I can't find anyone. Help, I'm sick of being alone!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - Is there anyone who feels like I do? Im a 19 year old masculine gay guy and I live in this small town in north Carolina and there are almost no gay guys here. There's a few promiscuious feminine guys but I don't want anything to do with them. I'm a ...

Should I tell more people I am bi? Do guys like girls who are bi?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

21 July 2009 (?) - hi well im bi and my girl friend is my best friend at school people know she is bi but only like 5 people know i am should ilet more people know that i am? and do guys like bi girls just wondering plz help...

How do I ask my girlfriend to masturbate with me? I don't want her to break up with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - I was wondering if girls masturbate as often as boys? I want to ask my girlfriend to do it with me, but idk if shell break up with me or something. How should I ask her?...

It bothers me that she's slept with so many people. I value sex, and she has just been giving it away

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - my girlfriend is 19 and so am i. She has had sex with seven different guys, including me, while i've only had sex with her. Ever since she told me about that, i haven't had the same respect for her and i feel like i cant see her the same way. a lot ...

I want my boyfriend to plan something for us to do. How do I make this happen?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - how do i get the guy i like to come up with the idea to make a plan with me? is this even possible? (i heard that guys don't do so well with subtle hints many times.) i really like this guy. i want him to come over next week when my parents are g...

I've changed since me and my ex broke up, and now I want her back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - I was in a relationship for almost 2 years with this girl.. We broke up because of my jealousy issues. About 2 months after breaking up i met this other girl and now we're dating. She is awesome but a HUGE flirt. She flirts with other guys left and ...

Just had sex for the first time and it was painless! I don't understand.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - hi i am 15 and just lost my virginity today to my boyfriend. it was also his first time too. anyways he is like about 6 inches or something like that and when we had sex it didnt hurt me at all! i was already used to being fingered. anyways i didnt ...

He said he's not ready for a girlfriend right now, but he also told me he'd never let me go!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - ok so im 15 and theres this guy ive been in loge with since december.. hes 16 and tells me he loves me too. first he had a girlfriend and we started talking and were like best friends. then i started to like him more than a friend. i just figured it ...

The "wet" feeling after sex makes me cringe!

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21 July 2009 (F) - i enjoy foreplay and i enjoy sexual activitied with my boyfriend, he makes me orgasm just about every time we do anything!! but i absolutly hate the 'wet' feeling, it makes me cringe! is this a common thing?...

I'm feeling guilt and regret over losing my virginity!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - i know theres no way i can go back or anything! but is there any ways of stoppin all this guilt and regret? ive been with my boyfriend for just over a year now. im 17 and hes 19, both virging when we got together, i always said i didnt want to loose ...

How do I tell my teacher to back off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - Im concerned that my drama teacher likes me in a kinda wrong way. I like her too but it'd wrong to have a relationship with her. Shes about 24 and shes all ways making inuendo with me. Started off as some good ol' fashioned crudeness now its just ...