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Archived questions from: 19 July, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I'm the boss's daughter, but his mom is my supervisor. We like each other but don't know if dating would be inappropriate. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Alright so I work at this tiny little store with only like 5 employees. So we're all a pretty close-knit group. Well, this one kid and I have gotten really close, to the point where he admitted that he likes me and wants to date me. Awesome, ...

My 15 year old is pregnant!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - DearCupid, I am a forty year old mother to two teenage girls. One who is thirteen, and the another one who is fifteen. My husband and I have always taught our daughters right from wrong, or at least we thought. We told them what we did and did...

She's invited me to her party, and I'd love to be more than friends. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - Dear All I would appreciate any advice you maybe abe to offer. I could really do with a second opinion please. I’d recommend you look over some background info about my situation: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/have...

Effects of masturbation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - Does masturbation make your penis smaller or affect its growth??...

Is he scared of his feelings or does he not like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - This is quite a lengthy question, I've condensed it to the most relevant details! Thank you too anyone who reads it and answers! I'm 17 and my ex boyfriend is 19. He is in the RAF and so works far away, about 160 miles away from me. We start...

How do I know if it is just friendship or if it is something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - We were both deeply hurt by the town gossip and so we took a step back from the relationship. We are slowly stepping back into it but I am confused. Keep in mind that this man was head over heels for me as he put it I was life and his soul and he ...

Straight/bi/gay??? Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - Hi i need a little help, and i dont know whats going on. I'm very confused about my sexuality. Am i straight/bi/gay? idk. lately ive just been wanting to have sex more and more and and i dont know whats happening. my problem is that im very ...

My best friend claims my boyfriend tried it on with her but my boyfriend says she's lying. Who do I believe?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Okay, heres the thing, My old best friend claimed that my boyfriend tried it on with her, she had been a really pants friend and been getting around a hell of a lot! i didnt know what to do, he denied it but said he might have said things to her o...

She's stealing everything away from me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - my friend is getting on my nerves at school because whenever we are around everyone else she is nasty, selfish and hurts everyone's feelings. She acts like she's the queen of the world and steals everyone else's attention when they need it the most. ...

Help! What can I do to help my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - My best friend is 14 and has recently broke up with her 17 year old boyfriend. They really liked each other and were getting on fine but he works at a primary school with children. Well they somehow found out about the relationship and told him that...

Can you take the morning after pill during your period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - i just had sex 4am this morning it is 12pm rite now, im currently on my period, i started friday 7/17/09 the date rite now is 7/19/09 but anyway i had sex during my period and the condom broke meaning he ejaculated inside me, he is advising me to ...

Do girls love long necks?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - Do girls think a long neck is sexy? My neck is 5 1/4 inches long and I have a nice tan on it. I am the only one in my family to have such a long neck. ...

Opinions please... does he really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - i like a boy in my school ive ..but am not sure if he likes me too but i always catch him staring at me and then he sticks his middle finger up and then i kinda chase him then he says sorry .. is that a sign of him liking mee? ...

Is this lump normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - ive just done a vaginal check and i seem to have found a small lump in the top part of my vulva and im not sure what it is .. it seams to be connected to a vein or something small and stringy like but im a tad worried about it.. ...

Puberty questions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - Moderator's note: two questions from the same poster have been combined. 1.) im nearly 14 and i have a lot of pubic hair and a little bit of arm pit hair but no other hair expect from my head but my penis hasnt grown to much its 3-5 inches flop and...

We haven't talked for a few days, should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - So there is this guy that I really like. We've been talking almost every day for about a month. He came over the other day and we just hung out at my house. He says all these cute things how he wants to kiss me and cuddle with me and hangout more. I ...

Is this wrong or gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - im 14 and male and somtimes wen i have sleepovers with my friend we have wank but we dont do it to each other we both do it other porn but we make sure we are away from each other and we make sure we cant see each others penises is this wrong or ...

Is this normal behaviour for a 14 year old girl?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Is it normal for a 14 year old girl to sit on youtube for 20 minutes and watch sex scenes at least 2 times a week?? Cause I do this and I am feeling like I'm the only one!! Is this ok??...

How can I make my masturbating last longer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - I'm 13 nearly 14 year old boy and when I masturbate I normally watch porn before i do and when I start wanking I cum really fast like it takes 2 minutes is there anything I can do to make my masturbating last longer??...

Is the size of my penis normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - I'm 13 but gonna be 14 in a month. My penis size is 3-4 inches flop and 5-6 in erection is the size of my penis average,small or big ???...

Should I keep having phone sex with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Hey its mi again well I got another problem my“friend” says he will wait but we had to keep haveing phone sex...... idk if we should cause im kinda getting boerd.... so I told him meybe.....wat do u guys think should I at least keep haveing phone ...

How do I help him get over her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - i have been friends with this person from school for 10 months now, but all he does is moan about my other friend not having feelings for him, he thinks its because he's "black, fat and ugly" but I cant help finding him annoying and seeking for ...

Do I tell him that I like him too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - i have a crush on this guy. just that other night, we were talking online. i couldnt hear him very well so i told him to call me. after we talked for a little while,we atated talking about my bff. i asked him why hi cared so much a bout my bff. i...

Should I apologise to her parents?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - I am having a problem that my girlfriends parents have noticed that I have given her a love bite on her neck and on her chest. She has also done the same to me, both of our parents are now annoyed and have forbid us from seeing each other out side ...

I slept with his sister - should I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - I've had a crush on my boyfriends sister and didn't find out that she was bisexual until I got into a relationship with her brother. She recently slept over at my house while my boyfriend was at work and we ended up getting a little too close. Do ...

How should I tell this guy that I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - i like this guy in my class. i think he likes me too but i cant be sure. i really want to tell him that i like him. i cant keep it in myself anymore. i need to tell him. i just dont know how......

Do I have OCD? What to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Hi, so i have a comfort issue. For the last 5 years ive been obsessively wearing coats. No matter how hot it gets. When im not wearing one I panic and feel naked and ugly and exposed. My parents wont leave me alone about it. We r going to Cali soon ...

He held my hand, then he didn't. What should I do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - I went to a movie with this guy and at the very end we held hands. The next night me and my friend went to his house and watched a movie. I sat next to him but he never held my hand...It was kinda awkward. I like him alot but i dont know what i s...

I called my Girlfriend a slut and a whore and she won't forgive me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - Ok, so I get a call form this guy I used to go to school with, claiming that he had sex with her about 2 months ago. So I called her a whore, slut, just about every mean thing u can fit in a 5 minute conversation, while she just kinda took it, then ...

I wonder what would have happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - I'm starting to really miss my ex boyfriend. We broke up about a week ago, and I missed him but not as much as I do today. He cheated on me.. and when I went to give him his stuff back, he came out and stood there.. and watched me walk away, now I...

Teenage love and very confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - I was young 15.. never been in love and didn't plan on falling in love when I met this guy. We met, by his best friend and became a couple. In the beginning of the relationship, I wasn't all that into him. I ended up giving him a chance and falling ...

Which position would be good for first time sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - well i am about to have sex for the first time with my gf (yes i have a condom) and i was wondering was position would be good for the first time...my friend told me like cowgirl (woman on top) but ya......

I'm not sure how this boy feels about me, should we have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Im 14 years old and I konw this boy since 2nd grade we have been thru hell and back!!but its been amost 1 year and im in total love with him but I think he feels the same way for me but since im not sure I don't want to get my hopes up!!!but lately ...

Hard to let him go, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - I meet this guy and we have been knowing each other for one month and something days. And I read some advice about someone elses question and she was going to end it. I gained feelings for him and then lost them later on, cause I felt used. now I ...

I'm super short, but is my weight too much for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for over a year and he's perfect, im sooo happy to have him. if it wasnt for this one thing im never depressed. but almost every day im depressed about my body and i cry about it atleast once a week. is 97lb big for a 4 ft ...