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Archived questions from: 7 July, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

So why isn't he talking to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - ok i have been talking about my boy friend jarid and like i said befor that we have a some what long distint reation ship and latly he has not ben awnsering my txt or my calls he has been a little sick but we used to talk every day it has been 3 ...

Our relationship doesn't seem to be going anywhere - how long do I stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - ok so i have a boyfriend , since is summer we havent seen each other since the last day of school. he asked me out like 5 days ago and its been kinda going ok but lately it's like he dont dont give a fuck. excuse the language. but anyways i have onl...

Pregnancy and oral sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months now and we've been having sex for about 8 months. We used condoms for about 2 and a half months and then I went to the doctors to get a pregnancy test just to check. (Thankfully it was negative) ...

My girlfriend has feelings for another guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - Ok so heres how it goes.. Ive been dating this call for 4 months now. before that, we were best friends for a year, and it was basically the best relationship ever in the beginnin when i could see that she loved me a lot. Now, i dont see that ...

Getting over someone without avoiding him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Okay... i broke up with my ex about 2 months ago but i still kinda like him and im friends with him.. he is now going out with someone and i really need to get over him. it takes me a while to get over people but it annoys me.. does anyone ha...

My parents control my life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - i have recently turned 18 years old (last yr high school) and my parents STILL try to control every aspect of my life. to many adults im the nice hardworking student. because of this, i would think that my parents would trust me when it comes to ...

During sex with my boyfriend I felt a lot of pain. I need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - i have a problem , i had sex with my boyfriend but then i felt alot of pain , so we stopped but since then , i felt pain , after sometime we tried doing it again , but i bleeded,,, i can't seek a doctor over my country,,,,so anyadvice ???...

How can I protect my baby sister from my step dad?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - My mum has just had a little baby girl she's only 6 months, im really worried about her future and safety. My step father used to touch my other younger sister (17) when she was only 5.He told her he would kill her if she told my mum. But she did...

Problems with the people in my life! And now there's a guy I like!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I feel really unhappy latley , all my friends are being horrible to me exept one , all the people in my year , and the year above call me , it feels like no one likes me and i like this guy , but my parents and auntie have told me i have to have ...

What should I do if I find flirtacious comments by my boyfriend dated almost a year ago?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I went through some of my boyfriend's forum posts for some gaming tips and found something I didn't like. I found flirtacious comments to 2 virtual females a few months after we started our relationship in 2008. Now, this was almost a year ago and I ...

I don't know if I'm ready ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I'm 13 and there's this guy that likes me. Lets call him J. So j and me were IMing and he said he to have sex with me and i said i wanted to too. But then i thought about it and i really wasnt ready because i was molested and i dont think im ready. ...

We want to start our family. What are the chances of her being pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - Ok so me and my girlfriend have decided that we want a family so we had sex. Well she is suppose to start her period in about a week, so what are the chances of her being pregnant if we had sex on the 4th of july and the 5th and she is suppose to ...

Should I be worried about my weight?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - i have one question. i am 5"0 and i weigh about 79 my family and friends are worryed bout me but i don't make myself thow up i eat normaly i am a vegatarian so idk if this is bad. any help?...

Should I really believe my father after all he has put me through?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Hey, i was wondering if anyone can help as this is kind of very important and disturbing. Ok i was talking with my father one night and he started asking about my boyfriend, as he asked more questions he said he is related to a family with the ...

We have to see each other behind my parent's back. How can we make them accept us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I'm am 16 years old and have a confusing relationship with a 21 year old. When our strange relationship started we talked about what we would do because of the age difference. We both wanted to let our parents know about us however we were scared ...

My boyfriend has put me through so much, yet still I remain at his side. Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I need to tell somebody - anybody who is willing to listen. I have things bottled up that I need to get out in the open, so I can really spend some time and think about it. Thanks to all those who take the time to read this. My boyfriend is r...

My friend was upset over the death of her mom. I tried to comfort her with a joke...and I think I made her feel worse! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

7 July 2009 (?) - My friend's mom died recently(6days ago)and she been upset lately. The other day she was at my place crying her eyes out. I wasnt really sure how to calm her down so I made a joke thinking that would help. The joke was a bit mean now that I think ...

Do you think he'll care if I'm completely horrible at making out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Ok so im 13 and im going out with a guy thats already had sex 4 time and ive never made out but i want to and i will with him but do you think he will care if im just completely horrible at making out and does it come natural? help me please:)...

I don't want sex, but she's had sex once before. Should I start a relationship with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - Should i start to invest in a relationship with a girl i like who has had sex once before?? She's told me that she's fine with not doing any of that stuff with me....i'm not like that. i want to stay abstinent....

I don't want to be asking myself ten years later "What if?.." I want to know.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - In 2005, I was fourteen when I met a man who soon became my everything, basically my whole world. He was forty-two, engaged to be married, and was also my history teacher. So you see, he was out of reach in more ways than one! Well, we've gr...

Why do I love the smell of him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Why is it that I love the smell of my boyfriend? Any other guy I just don't like how they smell, but when I smell my boyfriend or smell his scent faintly near by it just puts me on cloud nine. I have never been like this with any other boyfriend or ...

I still love and miss him but does he feel the same way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5413 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I lost my virginity to this guy and at first had a "casual" relationship, I guess. He told me that he would ask me out but he needs to get into law school and he is on the verge of failing. After a few months, I told him I cant do it anymore with ...

Lost my virginity. Now I have a concern about my body...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Two days ago I lost my virginity. I'm almost 99% sure he doesn't have an STD but yesterday I was uh feeling around down there to see if anything changed and I felt what seems like an air bubble on the left side of my vagina and I dont know what it ...

I like the girl who dated my brother. Is that wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5413 days ago

7 July 2009 (M) - ok so i went to this fair in my home town and i met this girl i already sorta knew her cuz she dated my little brother well recently me and her have been hanging out alot and i really like her would it be wrong to go out with her if she already ...