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Archived questions from: 14 July, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

How am I going to find a BF if I can't talk to boys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I'm 16, a virgin, and really lonley. Ive never had a boyfriend, yet all my friends have, and have had way more experience with guys than me. Lots of them aren't virgins, they are all more experienced than me, and can talk to guys really easily. ...

I treat him so badly. How do I stop it and tell him how sorry I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend about a year now but its suddenly hit me how bad i treat him. We are in a long distance relationship and see each other at the weekends but i have realised i take everything out on him and start stupid arguments for no...

Why did my girlfriend break up with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - I had been dating Hannah for about two months, and I thought things were going pretty well. A few weeks into summer she went to her friend's cottage and she didn't tell me how long for. She got back and I tried messaging her and calling her, but she ...

He wants to spice things up in our sex life should I go along with it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - i am 16 and have been having sex with my boyfriend for ages but he wants to change it and try tying me up and adding spice to it but i feel like it means that normal sex with me is boring and thats why he want to spice it up. am i just being stupid ...

My habit really embarrasses me and I need help to stop doing it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Ummm, ok, first, to get things straight, this is habit ALONE. Right, it's quite embarassing, because at school, guys tease me and say stuff about *it* (if you know what I mean...) I have a bad habit of shaking my legs up and down and up and down, ...

300 cals, hour on the treadmill. Will this result in minus calories?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - will i lose weight if i burn off everything i eat? for example,i eat 300 cals then burn it off by walking an hour on the treadmill? will this mean i end the day with minus calories?...

Guy is 27 and she is 15, is this really going to work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - one of my best friends is 15 and a guy that's 27 likes her, do you think she should go out with him ? yes or no and why ? help me by the way he has two kids. ...

I can't orgasm from masturbation

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - ok well I started having sex with my boyfriend and he seems like he knows what he's doing we've had sex at least 15 times it feels good somtimes but I don't ever orgasm so I tryed masturbating and I still can't have an orgasm and when I do masurbate ...

My girlfriend wants to break up to ease off any difficulty in the future

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - well i have been in a relationship for 2 years now and i love my girl friend alot!!and she loves me alot too.But our high school is about to get over and its time for college..:( We both might seperate in the coming future. she says we should b...

I'm 17, she's 14, and I think her mum has the wrong idea about my motives for being with her!

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - hey i just turned 17 and im going out with a 14 year old girl, have been for about a week, is that weird? 2 years 8 months difference. i really like her though, but shes grounded for a month and i cant have any contact with her even txting. ...

I'm not sure whether to go on the pill or not. What do you think about it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - At the moment, me and my boyfriend use condoms and I have no problem with them, they just ruin the mood sometimes. So I'm thinking about going on the pill. The problem is, I've heard alot of different stories about the pill. Some say it's good, ot...

I want to be there for him, but I don't know how if he won't tell me what's wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Please help,I don't know what to do. Me n my bf,have been together for nearly a year now, my parents broke up last night of a 13 year relationship and a 4 year marrage. Im 15, and its my mum and step dad are the ones who have broken up. My bf, ha...

I helped my friend get over her ex, but now I like him and I feel like a hypocrite!

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14 July 2009 (F) - OK, So there's this guy I know and I liked him loads at the beginning of the year until I found out he'd been with one of my best friends. I love my friend to bits but they're not seeing each other anymore and she now has a boyfriend, someone she's ...

I've got a new boyfriend, but I still think and dream about my ex. Why can't I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, i keep dreamin and thinkin aut my ex. I think about him a lot more than i do my current boyfriend. I dont know why though, my ex treated me like shit and is a horibble person but iwas in love wit him. It ended about two months ago and...

I'm 13 and sex is on my mind! I have so many questions!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I'm 13 years old, and I'm having the urges to have sex. What do I do? I know, I am Way to young. and I want to wait for the right guy, and be a saint. but, The orgasims. It very tempting. And the boys my age, Offer it all the time. Its my ...

I get really jealous, how do I stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I'm a super jealous person when it comes to my boyfriend. How do I stop? I'm extremely upset my boyfriend is talking to his ex-girlfriends little sister. We all went to the same high school. It's hurting me....

We were together for 3 and a half years. Why did he break up with me out of the blue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me randomly out of the blue 2 days ago. I came home from work and I was going to spend some quality time with him. He made me some tea and took it upstairs, i followed and once i was upstairs he told me he didn't love me ...

My girlfriend wants to give me a handjob, and I'm a bit unsure of what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - Hey, I've been seeing this girl for not too long now. we've just been kissing and thats about it. I've been out with loads of girls before, but have not done anything but kissing and rubbing. She said she is going to give me a handjob next week. Bu...

I think he doesn't love me anymore, and his comments about my weight hurt

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - i have been with my botfriend now for almost 3 years. we have been through alot of bad times, but good times as well. i have stayed with him all summer long so far..things are great..but i feel like he isnt showing me enough attention anmore. he ...

My best friends BF has been cracking onto me, what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend. I love my bff as well, but her boyfriend kissed me. He also flirts with me when my bff and my boyfriend aren't around. He's always touching me and trying to hug me. I want to tell my boyfriend, but I'm too afraid that he'll ...

I'm thinking of giving my boyfriend a hand job...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Im thinking of giving my boyfriend a hand job or head can i get pregnat from this? And if i were to have sex with him and we use protection how big of a chance is it that i could get pregnat?...

Should a virgins first time be with a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Hi, this question has been floating around a lot and I wanted to know what your guys opinion is about it. Most people imagine their first time to be special and wonderful, but can it still be special and wonderful if the guy or girl your having...

I'm a 19 year old virgin, is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 19 and I am still a virgin. Is this normal? All of my friends have had sex. there is one girl I like but she is 14. Should I wait for her or just go for it?...

There is no proof he is attracted to her, but I don't like her being in his life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been broke up but went back out. The first time we broke up, one of the reasons was another girl in the picture. He didn't cheat. They were becoming good friends as were getting worse. It annoyed me to the point I couldn't ...

He cheated, we haven't discussed it, he hasn't called.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I recently discovered that my boyfriend cheated on me. I found last night and me and him haven't really discussed it yet. I can't help but wonder if we ever will. I'm hurt and completely disgusted that he would do this to me. This is the lowest of...

How can I get my online GF to lose weight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - I'm 13, I have a 12 year old girlfriend. She's wonderful. I love her very very much. The strange thing is she's a bit (not a lot), a bit overweight. I'm not a shallow boy that'll dump her because of this, but is there any way I could get her to lose ...

What are these?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5405 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I got a bump on the edge inside my outter lip of my vagina and im not sure what it was. i squeezed it and stuff came out and it went away. kinda like acne. well i just got two more like by the crack of my thigh and where my vag lip starts ones ...