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Archived questions from: 13 July, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I'm too old for this, I thought?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Lately whenever i watch a sexy scene on tv or a cute guy i get a funny feeling inside my stomach. Now when i dream and fantasise in bed i'm starting to leak pee. I woke up after a sexy dream and my panties were damp,i'm going to a sleep over and i...

I have a crush on my nextdoor neighbor? Could this get awkward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - I have a crush on my next door neighbour (same age). How can we date without having an awkward life if we break up (i.e seeing her and her parents often etc) To top things off, she's good friends with my sister (who told me she's ok with me going ...

Do you think my sexual past is a bad thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Im 17 and ive slept with 9 guys and 1 girl, would you say its bad? Youngest guy has been 13 when i was 13, and oldest has been 40 when i was 17. Alot of people say its bad, but im not sure, personally i dont think its bad, the only thing that bothe...

What is "smart casual"?? What do I wear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5405 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Hi guys. Well basically me and this guy that I like (we went out before and broke up) are seeing each other a few times while his parents are away (dont worry- we will be sensible) and we have been dicussing it tonight. He has asked for the first ...

I like him..... but I don't know

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5405 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - There is this lad at school and we have already been together. He has been getting really close to me recently. We were talking over facebook and he brung up the question of do you like anyone at the moment? this carried on until he said that he was ...

My boyfriend has been having sex with me whilst I'm asleep

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

13 July 2009 (?) - i really need help! my boyfriend has been having sex with me whilst im asleep. i should explain that i have a medical heart condition that makes me faint quite a lot it also makes me very tired so i have extra naps during the day to prevent b...

First time sex. Underage but how do I come across it with my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Im ready to have sex with my boyfriend. I know am 'underage' but I have spoken to my bf about it and we are both ready for this kind of commitment. I didnt come on here to be told am to young and i shouldnt be doing it because I KNOW this okay. ...

I start bleeding during sex and its starting to scare me. Help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - ok im 19 and im goin out wit this guy he 17 and for some reason i started bleeding during sex is something wrong wit me or is it normal please help its startin to scarre me please...

When I get close to him I get frightened! How do I have sex with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - ok well i am goin out wit this guy and yes i wanna have sex so dose he but Idk how to go about it im in my childhood i was bein touch unwillingly and now it seems if i get so close to him i start to breath heavy and get frightened please help me a ...

I've never had sex so why is my period late?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - right. i'm 1 week late for my period if my cycle was to be every 28 days. but im usually every 30 days and always on time basically since i started 3/4 years ago. i just wanted to know why i might be late. its really bugging me. and we can deffo ru...

I come across very confident sexualy but in reality I'm bricking it! Help me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I'm nervous. I've been seeing this guy and i'm really worried that i'm not going to be enough, sexually. It's embarrassing to admit... You see, he has 8 inches down there, and I'm worried that I won't be able to give him decent oral sex. He told me ...

I like this boy but mum doesn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - i need some advice, i like some boyy like loads, but my mum is not very keen on him, but i dont know what to do, i want him to be mine, but i also dont wanna loose talking to my mum .. so what will i do :S ? x...

How can I be around him without feeling anxious and worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - I am gay and have just left college and have never had the courage to talk to a boy who I have seen for the 2 years I've been there! We have made brief eye contact a couple of times but I don't think it has meant anything, and now every time it ...

Did I do the wrong thing by leaving so fast? I don't know if he likes me, or if it's just me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5405 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Hello there, I have a big problem that i can't seem to sort out. Well there's is this guy who i've like on and off for a few years although only this year have we actually started to get to know each other a bit. But i find it really difficul...

I keep thinking I'll never see him again, but I can't stop liking him. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I kinda like this guy in my class. The thing is, I'm in China right now. I'm going back to America, but I dont know when. I keep telling myself that I'll nver see him agian in my life, but I can't help liking him. I keep thinking about him before I ...

I had sex with my boyfriend's best friend!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Heyyah Every1 I dont no what to do it was my party on sataday and me and my boyfriend had an arguement and 1 of his best friends jordan, told me to come up stairs so he could talk to me ( we were both drunk ) and he were telling me to talk to da...

I think I love my best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - Ok to cut to the point... i think im in love with my best friend and dont know what to do about it... ok short(ish) version: it didnt start like that but her mom and dad absolutly adore me and want me to date their daughter and my parents want the ...

How can I tell if I like this guy in my class?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5406 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - There's this guy is my class. Everyone says he likes me, but i don't know if it's true. Everytime he sticks his tounge at me, I kinda smile. I don't know if I really like him. I'm not sure. How can I tell if I like him? If I do have a crush on him, ...

At first my boyfriend was sweet and respectful, but now he seems to just want sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - ok well i jus started goin out wit my boyfriend at first he seemed really sweet and respectedful but when i finaly said i would go out wit him he changed he started say he was ganna f*** me so hard in my ass and jus made me start to really feel ...

Thinking about having sex for the first time and need advice!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - ok will im 15 and im thinking really hard about havin sex for the first time but im really scarred that its ganna hurt and im not ganna know what to do please help me...

I just found out my boyfriend cheated on me....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I just found out my boyfriend cheated on me, and I feel like going to his house right now and just wailing on him. I feel so hurt as I have been played for a fool for these last couple of weeks and everybody knew and didn't tell me!!! I feel so...

Can you catch STD's from oral sex even when neither person has one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5405 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - Ok, this is a very simple question but I don't know it. Well my girlfriend gave me a blowjob and she was worried she mite get something we are both 15 yo. n have been dating for 3 yrs. I wanted to know can she get a disease even if I don't have ...

Pregnant and betrayed by my porn loving boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 15 months. I am 8 and a half months pregnant with his baby. We are both young (i am 16 and hes 22) and He has told me, not just told me but promised me and looked me in the eye and said "babe i dont need ...

My boyfriend is too selfish to tend to my needs!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Hm, where do I begin? I've currently been in a LDR with my boyfriend for the past six months, we are not in a LDR any longer as he moved back to my hometown. I feel like he is the most selfish boy on the planet yet I instantly can forgive him with...

How can I be sure my internet boyfriend loves me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Well i am dating this guy online.... i'm 14 almost 15 and he's 19. We've been dating for 9 months now. He says he loves me.. I've seen tons of pics and him even on webcam so i know he's not lying... he seems like he's rlly in love... but how can i ...

Two guys are chasing me for sex, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Well i'm a 14 year old girl, and um Lately i've been gettin alot of attention from the guy's i'm a Virgin and Just got out of a long bad Relationship, I know 2 Guy's That like me right now but They mostly want to have sex, tHat's not the bad Part, ...

Should I keep our friendship or throw it away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Well i'm a Fourteen Year old girl and i just got out of a 9 month RelationShip, i guess u can say i was in puppy Love, Apparently he's turning 17 and i We're Still friend's And talk but he Still has hard feeling's for me since I'm the one who ...

I think I am in love, am I, and can I make this work despite of the age gap?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - hey i need help asap i met this guy and he is perfect i work in theater so i hav alot of gay friends (im bi so is this guy) but all of them think we r perfect and i totally agree i hav had many crushes and not to many boyfriends but not once hav i ...

When does puberty start?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - hey ppl. okay so what i really wanna know is when/what age the body starts developing/puberty, and when does penis size start to increase????...

I know what is right, but I'm still confused on what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - So I am newly engaged to an MP in the army and he is stationed at Guantanamo Bay, I live near an air force base so naturally i have alot of air force friends well one of my friends which is a guy has been hitting on me knowing i am engaged and sends ...

My daughter is showing her body to some guy via her phone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - hey i'm in big problem. My daughter is 16. I saw his mobile phone with some wrong messages. she was sharing with her school mate..those message r kind of sexual pleasure. Its seems they r showing their body to each other . i know the boy well. he ...

Girlfriend was raped when she was a child, and does not like me to hold or touch her, what can I do to change this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend was raped when she was a kid, and now it affects her. She hates been touched in any form. I really like to hold her but she nevers allow me to hold her. What should i do?...

Is it any big deal if I masturbate 2 or 3 times a day, are there any side effects?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Okay so im a 17 yr old female n i am just wondeting is it weird that I mas turbate 2 or3 times a day ? And does it have any side effects or something ?...

I want to see him, but afraid of getting in trouble with my parents, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - hey well im kind of involved with this guy.. were friends with benefits i guess and welove eachother. the thing is i dont get to see him alot. i want to sneak out to his house tonight( its in walking distance) just to see him. seriously im so sad ...

I feel he has ruined my life, my parents kicked me out, he dropped ne but keeps calling me, how can I get rid of him forever??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - okay so im sorry for the poinless detail here, but i just cant understand whats going on anymore, im a total mess and im so confused! back in september 08, i met a guy, i was out in town one night (not out drinking or anything, just generally out) ...

We talk every night, how do I take this to another level?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - i met this girl at school and we talk every night on msn but i want to get closer to her and begin a relationship with her, what should i do?...

My girlfriend says she loves me, I think she's cheating and I'm insecure, any suggestions to help us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - two days before me and my gf started dateing she was talking dirty to another guy through internet on myspace and i think she lies to me alot i love her and she says she loves me but i think she cheats on me and talks to other guys she dnt want me ...