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Archived questions from: 23 July, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

How do I get my psycho boyfriend to come back? And then when he does how do I make him work for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - hi, ive been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and i have recently lost my virginity to him. I love him more than anything and want to be with him for the rest of my life. However, we have manyyyy fights and basically fight over ...

How can I get him to want me the way he used to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5394 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - I met this lad about 6 months ago, and we automatically clicked. We rushed into a relationship, and although I knew he cared, I wouldn't have sex with him. We ended up giving up on the relationship. A few weeks later, however, we started ...

I'll bet you've never read a more messed up story than this one!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - Right then there is a girl who i can say honestly isnt a hotty but she is beautiful i mean truly beautiful an angel among men and her personality is to die for. I love her to the ends of time i would go through hell and stay there for 1 million ...

His ex can't get over him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - so my boyfriend broke up with his girlfriend and now we are together. she still calls him, emails him, shows up at his house. she even goes past boundaries and calls me! she still acts like they are together. she will go from acting like they are...

17 and only find men over 40 attractive

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - As you have probably seen from my last post I am in love with my teacher. But I only seem to be attracted to older men, I dont know why. I have never felt any affection to boys my age. Im 17 years old, im quite friendly to one guy who kissed me th...

If he likes me why isn't he speaking to me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - So me and this boy like each other We used to talk or actually text everyday Now it all stopped We would talk like once or maybe twice a week Recently I was talking to him through text and he asked me " I know this sounds wierd but do u still...

How can I make my penis bigger without pills?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - is there any way to make your dick bigger without pills or nothin that costs alot of money? like naturally really im fourteen and my dick is a litte over five inches hard two inches wide. is that normal size? if not how do you make it bigger? ...

14 years old and seeking girl advice

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - What do girls like in a guy? And what do they like to be told? How do you just go talk to them? What are you supposed to dress like? I gotta over one hundred dollar bottle of diesel and they go crazy over it and are attracted to me like a pack of ...

Should I break up with him? If so, where, when and how?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - I'm going out with a boy from the year above who really likes me and I kinda like him. He kept asking me out for months and has liked me for a year I think. The only problem is he gets jelous easily, but tries to hide it, coz I have lots of guy...

If I get pregnant, he says he'll do a runner! What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - i'm 16 and my boyfriend keeps telling me he thinks i'm pregnant. first time was when i felt sick, he said i was pregnant. second was when i started my period a day before, he went mental saying i'm pregnant etc, and loads more sh*t like that. ...

Why are we so shy around each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - I like this boy and he likes me back We talk or actually text everyday but all of a sudden stopped, no I idea why Anyways.. the thing that bothers me is that when we see each other, we act like we don't like each other ( crush like) When we ...

Should I continue my chase, or is she just not that into me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - Hey I really could do with a second opinion on this please; I’m even more ‘lost’ now. Here’s the background to my situation: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/shes-invited-me-to-her-party-and-id.html Basically I went to the party last...

14 and pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - Im 14 and possibly pregnant. I just want to know how most dads react? My dad is violent and im scarred he wuld hit me. ...

Her mom and brothers are against us dating!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - i'm 17 and my girlfriend is 13 we are 4 years apart. what makes it worse is my friend little sister her mums took away her phone and made it clear not to try to talk to her daughter again and her bros are pissed off". this might led to fighting....

I can't find girls my age outside of school. Should I go for older woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5395 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - I go to a conservative christian school, I am an Atheist however and I want to know where I can find girls my age 17, outside of school. I go to the city every day and hang out in book shops and coffee shops but, I can never see a girl my age there, ...

Is there something wrong with me? Girls never seem attracted to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5396 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - hi. is there anything wrong with me? I can't never seem to attract any girls. everywhere I go its girls and whenever I try to approach them it seems like they don't want me near them. I know there's gonna be plenty girls down the road but it seems ...

What can I say to my best friend? I don't want her to get hurt anymore by these confusing relationships

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5396 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - my best friend is bi sexual. and she loves another one of my friends and they both like eachother. but the girl she likes has a boyfriend and likes a couple other people. what do i tell my best friend so she wont get hurt anymore?...

My ex hates me and hurts my feelings, but I really want us to be frineds

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - What should I do I want to be friends with my ex but he calls me a bitch and says just give up i don't want to be friends. He really hates me and he hurts my feelings sometimes but i know deep inside he wants to be friends hes just to afraid to ...

She likes multiple guys, including me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - ok ok theres a girl i really like. alot! she said that she likes me too, but im not the only guy she likes. today she broke up with her bf and everyone thought bc of me, but idk. she told her cousin that we were "talkin" but she isnt looking for ...

I'm letting hims play mind games with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5396 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - i used to go out wit this guy..i called it quits cuz it just didnt go anywhere.then for a champioship in la we went in the same plane and we had fun and flirted.then when we got in california he told me that i've changed since i got to cali and i ...

Please help! Only 15 and I think I'm pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - Help please I think I might be pregnant and Im only 15. Im on the pill and last month I had sex with my bofriend (didnt use a condom) I was on the pill but about a week ago my period was late then came and when I stopped taking the pill, I started ...

I like chatting and dating online...Anything wrong with online dating or LDR as a result?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - hi I'm a 14 year old boy. I like to go online into chat rooms and talk to girls around my age. when I'm talking to them I always ask of their features such as if they have a big butt or big breast. I love dating girls online. can anybody tell me if ...

Our new LDR is about to gain more distance! How do I keep the spark going?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5396 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 17. we just gel! its amazing! but he lives about 3 hours away and we are both still at school so we dont see that much of eachother. its particularly tough at the moment because he is going on holiday for two weeks and ...

Always depressed, lonely, distant...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - I feel crap and I have tried talking to some adults about it. Just feel depressed all the time when I'm at home, but when I get to school or wherever then i'm usually really happy. I know you are probably thinking it's hormones, but it got so bad ...