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writes:how do i get the guy i like to come up with the idea to make a plan with me? is this even possible? (i heard that guys don't do so well with subtle hints many times.)i really like this guy. i want him to come over next week when my parents are going to an all day bbq to chill out, watch a movie, etc.or have him take me out of the house. loleither way, i want this plan to be his idea. (don;t ask why; it's complicated.) how do i get him to ask me to do something or suggest he come over? make up some excuse about being scared? how do i even approach him to do so? Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (25 July 2009):
 Well, you won't get far if you don't take a chance on him. If you want to start something with this guy, why not let him know that you're interested? Sometimes you've got to grit your teeth or go for it. GOOD LUCK!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut he can;t know that i'm attracted to him
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (22 July 2009):
 Even so, you will still need to approach him and suggest you get together and ask him if he would like to plan something. You could tell him that your parents are out and you don't want to be alone and that it would be fun to get together anyway and if he had any ideas.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbtw, he's not my boyfriend! whoever titled this is mistaken.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (21 July 2009):
He can't read your mind, and as you've said - a lot of guys aren't good picking up subtle hints. But when I want my guy to plan a day out, I just tell him. I say, "hey - I've got Saturday free and would love a hot date with my guy. My fam is out of the house, so let's go out and do something.".
Nothing like getting straight to the point. And I think that slightly dense guys like your fella appreciate the straightforwardness. Go for it, sweetness!!
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reader, Your friend +, writes (21 July 2009):
You are being unrealistic about this, if you don't draw a very clear picture of what you want it probably won't happen. Men arn't good at reading minds and need all the help they can get to do things like this.
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