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writes:okay... i masturbate quite alot. but i guess its just something us girls dont admit to lol! anyway ive been with this guy now for a little under 7 months, and im not stupid i know sex will happen pretty soon! but we've not rushed anything..my question is, if i can fit 2 fingers in me, with just a tiny bit of discomfort, and approximately 4 inches.. (not my fingers hah!, something else) inside me, will i bleed the first time i have sex? can anyone tell x Reply to this Question
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reader, Livelife  +, writes (21 July 2009):
Girls don't always admit to that, and somehow guys never have to, it's just assumed haha.
It's not easy to tell if you will bleed, there's not just a definitive way to tell sometimes. If you do bleed, it won't be a lot, but you defintely do need to work up to sex, not just do everything all at once like other posters have said.
I hope this helps some, and of course I'm going to tell you that when you do have sex, use a condom, be safe about it, and make sure it's what you really want to do. Other than that, have fun, it's your choice and I know we can't decide anything for you :). If you need anything else you can always message me or anyone else on here and we'll be glad to help, good luck with everything!
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reader, betty_black +, writes (21 July 2009):
 Yeah Emilyanswers is right! You need to build it up, stretch it out a bit, get used to it, else it will absolutely murder!! I had my first time after an hour of foreplay and no previous foreplay, ever, and trust me it absolutely murdered and i bled! You may still bleed yeah, the bleeding is breaking the hymen, which you may have already done with using tampons, sitting on a horse etc.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 July 2009):
Sweetie, if you haven't even done fingering with him yet then you can't be planning to have sex.
You need to do lots and lots of bits of foreplay. Work up to sex over the next few months. Don't do it all new all in one go or it will be horrible.
There is no way of saying if you will definitely bleed, but it'll only be a tiny bit anyway so just don't worry about it!!
Good Luck!! xx
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