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Archived questions from: 3 July, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I want a boyfriend... I seriously do!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - hey cupid, i'm 14 years old and i have had one boyfriend and he was my 3 year crush. we went out for 3 months and we broke up. blah blah blah but now its been about 5 months since we broke up.. i see everyone with a boyfriend and ...

Summer makeover tips to be less ugly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Hey,I'm 14 years old I'm getting my braces off in less than ten days. I'm scared that it's gonna look gross cuz i actually liked wearing braces. Plus I'm gonna use crest white strips for whiter teeth and stuff but im still nervous.. I'm not u...

I am going CRAZY. I don't want to just let go and regret it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - I know this is probably a common question but I haven't been able to pinpoint a situation that I feel I can completely relate to. I have been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months now (I'm 19 and she's 24). The first half of our relation...

Period problems and "spotting"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I need help! i recently i had been spotting for about four days, then it stopped for about three days, and now i am bleeding heavily! I dont know what is wrong with me. :( can anybody help me?...

I don't know what to make of all this, can you shed some light on it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I don't understand what's going on. My boyfriend has a few issues with confidence and things of this nature. Recently they have become a massive problem and he said that he may need a break, but he doesn't even know if it would help him. So at the ...

I've never made out before and I'm really nervous for my first time... any way to practise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - ive never made out before and im really nervous for my first time...does anyone know a good way for me to practice?...

Are his feelings still true?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - a few months ago my boyfriend ended our relationship. Hes in the army and he was away for 8 months. He came back and within a few days he text me after me returning home from his with a text "i dont feel like its working out, it feels awkward"... ...

I really hope I'm not pregnant...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I'm really worried, and hope i am not pregnant! I have been with my boyfriend for a year, and we are regularly sexually active. I am not on he pill, but he uses condoms every time. Last month when i was due on, i came on, the day expected, but st...

Friends' gossip ruined our chances to be together...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Well I am a 17 year old girl and in March of 2009 I Met this wonderful guy. Everything was great. He told me that he wanted me to be the mother of his children and he liked me more than any other girl. Then he started listening to his friends who ...

Was he playing me all along?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Hi I met this guy while on a school trip together, and we kept in contact since then. I developed a little crush on him, and when I told him he said he did like me back too, but wasn't looking for a gf since he was so close to moving away to u...

How can I let him down gently?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I really need help I got myself into a really stupid situation by trying to rush into something even though I wasn't sure if it would work. Basically this guy i went out with likes me again and was asking my friends to find out if I liked him and i ...

Are his feelings for me genuine?

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3 July 2009 (F) - I like this guy from past 5 years... I got to know that he is in relationship with someone else and after that i dont how but even i commited myself in a relationship but my feelings for this person remain unchanged. Whenever I used to talk with som...

Do guys think it's sexy or good looking for girls to have six packs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - hey i have a question and am looking for teenage guys to answer. im 15 years old 5'5" and 110 pounds. im quite thin compared to people around me. Do guys think it's sexy or good looking for girls to have six packs? just in general give your opinion ...

What does his eagerness to keep contact mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5405 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for a year and we made the huge mistake of living together to early and about a month ago we started fighting and i moved out. After i moved out things got a bit rough but we still managed to talk a and see each other ...

I love my boyfriend, but I have strong feelings for another girl...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - MY name is Alice and I am 18. I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months and its going okay, I do love him despite his struggle to stop taking ketamine on a regular basis. The drugs do get in the way because he has become quite selfish,...

I can't bare to think about them together or even see them together because it hurts to much...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Hi, hope some of you could help me here. This is kinda 2 questions in one so sorry its long I know im probably being very stupid and yes i havent gotta get over it but i need some help and someone else opinion on what has happened. Obviously i won't ...

Is it okay to have sex on your period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (?) - so i`m on my period and me and my boyfriend want to have sex but i`m not sure if i should. is it okay to have sex when on your period? what should we do, like lay down a towel?...

17 and asked to move! How do I get out and onto my own 2 feet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I hate living with my family and they dislike living with me, because I don't contribute to anything in the house and just sit in my bedroom or go out, I've been wanting to move out for over a year now but only ever played with the idea, my Dad has ...

My boyfriend is mad about my past...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Hello, my boyfriend and I recently broke up. I know I still love him and I know he still cares about me, but he is extremly mad at me for my past. I gave him my msn password because I honestly didn't care if he went on. But before I met him there ...

I keep dreaming of my boyfriend cheating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I have had three dreams in a row where my boyfriend is cheating on my with my best friend. The first one - my best friend was trying to hook up with him, and I told her to stay out of our relationship and I kept screaming at her. The seco...

They talk about other girls but never ask me out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - It seems like everyone my age is going out. My best friend went out with one of my guy friends. And my other best friend is going out with my best guy friend. I have more guy friends then i have girl friends. I think about sports and I act like one ...

He's moving away, and I'm worried he might fall for someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my perfect match for about 4 and a half years now. Im totally head over heels in love with the guy and i could imagine a future with him no problem. The only thing stopping me is Fate ;His parents have decided to move and live in...

Why do I make this sound during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - My vagina has been making this queefing(fart) sound and im just wondering if this is caused because my vagina is loose? The sound is very embarassing and i hate it. My boyfriend said that my vagina is the tightest vagina that he has ever had and i ...

She says she's tired and doesn't feel sexy. What does she mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - I am a little concerned about my girlfriend, because a few times when we've been laying on the bed we both know we can feel the sexual tension building up and all of a sudden she will say im tired, or something and then 10 minutes later we might ...

She's going out with a guy she says is The One...but I think I could be her One!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - I'm Falling for this girl i know, the problem is she is going out with a guy she says is the one. Should i tell her how im feeling about her? or try to move on? I think i could be her one....

Do girls enjoy anal sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - I know this is a really weird question but, do girls enjoy anal sex and anal play?...

Ready to dump jealous boyfriend and go back to ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I am 17 and i recently i started going out one of my close friends and it was ok but now he has changed and everytime that i talk to any of my boy friends he gets really jealous and always comes up and puts his arm around me even when i dont want ...

I love him, I told him, but I don't know if he gets it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Okay, I love this guy and have since the first day we met. But every time we go out (date) i always end up breaking up with him,. We both tell each other we still have feelings for one another. But recently he asked me if it was okay if he asked...

My teacher moved to Chicago and I miss him...I think I love him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - I need help,I think I might love my teacher, but he is the same gender as I am. I thaought at first I didn't because I liked this girl,but now were just good friends. Since summer is over,I miss him a lot since he move to chicago and he is my ...

Did I do the right thing to say goodbye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Ok so me and my ex were going out for about 4 months and i have been feeling a little captivated in our relationship. Like he expected more out of me than i can give, he also did little things like tell me what i couldnt wear (cloths, make up, ...

Were they talking about me, or am I being paranoid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Well... I've admired this guy for about a year and a half now he's always sat infront of me in japanese class. But there was one thing kind of hindering my feelings for him, his now ex-girlfriend (who looks like a sex goddess compared to me.) and it ...

Should I be worried about the guys she hangs around with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5416 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - One week after the girl i really liked broke up with me i met this other girl, ( at this point i didnt care about anything i had lost a very special person and just didnt care) she was a gangster girl a bit crazy and when i met her i was kinda one ...

Do you think my boobs are tiny compared to my body?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Im 16 years old and Im going to admit it im down right fat. I weigh just a little over 200 lbs, and I feel like I have the smallest boobs on earth for a fat chick, I wear a C40 what do you think?...

His insecurity is killing our connection with each other

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - well im 17 and i've been in a relationship w/ my boyfriend for 2 years now and he's still insecure..i don't know what to do.I love him and i want to spend the rest of my life with him..but i feel like i can't have any friends casue he's insecure..i ...

I kind of pushed him away, but I really want him to be mine

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I have liked this guy for 4 years now. The reason I first started to like him was bc I thought he liked me and I fell so hard and havent stopped liking him since. Im pretty sure he actually did but then I stupidly told him I liked somebody else over ...

My guy is more conservative and this is driving me nuts

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been on and off constantly for 2 years now. we keep breaking up because he's not 'touchy'...he wont even hold my hand or kiss me or put his arm around me or anything. we text each other like nonstop and he always tells me ...

I have massive trust issues and can't tell what love really is

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - i am just wondering how can you tell if a guy really loves his girlfriend. i have trust issues so i'm just wondering if there are any signs to tell if guys really love there girlfriends or if there just trying to get laid. i have been in 4 different ...

My parents won't let me date anyone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - im 17 and my mom and dad wont let me date any guys i have told them that there afrad to let me go well im not there baby gal any moer i need some help big time ...

He had issues with an exclusive relationship and wanted to play around

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - We were together for a few months and did everything like a real couple but he wouldnt call himself my boyfriend. He said he thought of us as dating but not in a relationship. I asked him if I was his girlfriend and he started freaking out. He said ...

My guy is under a lot of stress and I want to comfort him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is having a big birthday coming up on July 12th. He has had a lot of pressure lately and he has been really down. I know I help to bring his spirits up usually but I just really want to do something incredibly special for him. I've ...

My self-esteem issues is making me hang onto this boy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - So I was crazy about this guy a few months ago- like the very smell of him caused me pain' kind of crazy. We would flirt and heavily make out drunkenly/passionalty at parties, and hang out on a weekly basis, but always with a third wheeler friend to ...

I'm a sporty girl who wants to be a bit more feminine but also be one of the guys

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I am so confused. I am really sporty and tomboy. I have more guy friends than I have girl friends. I can hang with the guys more easier than I can with most of my girl friends. I am 13 and I wear no makeup. I'm not fat but yet this one guy lets call ...

I want to orgasm too, but she finishes before me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

3 July 2009 (?) - Dear Cupid, Ok well i have been with my girlfriend for about a year now, and we have been having sex for about 6 months...my question is that now since we have been having sex a lot more lately, she finishes before i do, and for about like the l...

I think I deserve to be treated much better. Your opinions, please!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - just need opinions! Heres what its about. Well i have a boyfriend and ive been going out with him for ten months now, but the big problem is that he treats me like his little B**ch. See he sais its all because his ex girlfriend cheate...

Is it normal to get turned on thinking about attractive guys I don't know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Okay I have kind of a weird question for you… So lately I have noticed that when I am turned on and I start to pleasure myself it takes a long time for me to hit my high because out of habit I start to thing about my ex boyfriends or guys I know w...

I'm a silly big girl who's in trouble with boys

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Hi.. I'm a 17 years old girl.. and i'm not as all the girls my age because i've never been in a relationship and i've never kissed a boy. Sometimes i talk with boys but because of my insecure i don't know what to say. And i think that if i have a ...

I'm not gay but watching gay porn turns me on...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - I'm straight i know that, i mean, girls turn me on so much you wouldnt believe it, i've had my fair share of girls and i've slept with one. Anyway, My problem is that gay porn arouses me, and not just gay porn, the smell of a penis turns me on, as ...

What can I cook her that's fairly simple for our romantic night in together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - So basically i am planning to have a romantic evening in with my girlfriend, in a couple weeks time. The plan is: Dinner, maybe a film and then whatever entails. However the problem is i'm not a very good cook. I'd rather not cook her a micro...