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Should I tell more people I am bi? Do guys like girls who are bi?

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Question - (21 July 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 27 July 2009)
A age 26-29, * writes:

hi well im bi and my girl friend is my best friend at school people know she is bi but only like 5 people know i am should ilet more people know that i am? and do guys like bi girls just wondering plz help

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A female reader, latitudeover18  +, writes (27 July 2009):

latitudeover18 agony auntschool is bad enough dont trust school kids there crule. i was bullyed for years by this girl who called me a lesbein and now 2 years later shes dating another girl from our year. its a school thing. there is nothing wrong with being bi. just date who you like, be happy, you need to learn to protect yourself, but it gets better after school.

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A female reader, CuriousMe United States +, writes (25 July 2009):

The post says you are between 13 and 15. Im going out on limb and guessing you are closer to 15. You are still so young girl. If your not sure dont go telling everyone, seriously. Its a cruel world out there. Trust me Im a lesbian so I know, but Im also 30. Give yourself some time to grow more. Date if you feel you need to, but dont go telling your school just yet. The friends you think are your closest could turn on you and get info out that your not ready to face. You will know when the time is right!

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A male reader, GrimmReality United States +, writes (21 July 2009):

GrimmReality agony auntGo with what you you feel, It is perfectly alright, Guys like girls if they like girls, and if they like guys. It's no body's business but yours.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009):

I think you are trying to give yourself a label. People have worked hard in society to move away from labelling people or discriminating (black, white, gay straight etc) - I say does it matter what you are?? and if it doesn't matter then why do you feel the need to tell everyone??? I think you have a hang up and need confirmation its ok. Just live your life and as the other post recommends concentrate on your studying not your sexuality while you are at school.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009):

Guys usually believe they would like bi girlfriend because they think "MFF threesomes!"

But if being bi means that you're liable to leave them for a girl who has different physical equipment that they can't even hope to offer you, then guys aren't so hot about that.

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