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Archived questions from: 22 July, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I'm 15. He's 24. Mom says she's going to throw him in jail! Is that possible?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Im a 15 year old girl, dating a 24 year old guy. We've been dating for about a year. I know there is a really big age gap there. But we've never had sex, he has never pressured me into anything and the furthest we've gone is kissing. My mother found ...

The skype lies

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5396 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - Hello guys and girls.Im writing a question about one thing that bothers me.When im chatting with the girls they say that they are going offline,but they are still online in the skype? I send hugs to them and they reply to me with hugs WTF is go...

I know I like him and I think he likes me, but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Well, there's this boy who I really really like. He goes to my school, and ironically we never really talked in school, but then I went to summer camp and surprisingly he was there and we started talking and now we're really close. Anyway, he ...

I just don't know why no one likes me. Can you help me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - Why am i so lonely? I mean, I am 14 and I have never been kissed and have only ever had one gf but I dont understand because I think Im a nice guy and im quite sensitive but I just dont know why no one likes me! can u help me please??...

My love for my bestfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - okay, well i have this girl bestfriend that ive known for about two years now. when i first met her, i was dating this other girl i thought i was in love with. during that time, i never really payed attention to my bestfriend yet. i never pai...

Why does it hurt during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - When i have sex with my boyfriend sometimes it hurts internaly. Why does it hurt? But again often times it feel ok....

I'm hopelessly Jealous

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and everything's great aside from one thing - I'm ridiculously jealous. Of course everyone gets that way sometimes, but, I get jealous too many times a day. I can't go to movies with my b/f ...

Should I leave home to be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Two questions in one day, I'm on a roll. Okay, if you haven't read my earlier post, then you probably don't know that i had a misarriage. I had it a week and 1 day ago. My boyfriend's life isn't that great right now, his fathers an alocholi and ...

I'm 14, he's almost 18, and I'm nervous about his 'needs'

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I am 14 years old and I fell in love with a 17 year old boy. We met at school and we even kissed once. We are considering being together. I know my friend's views but I'd like to hear from people who aren't biased. He is about to turn 18, which ...

Should I call the maths teacher I'm in love with?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I am 17 and in college. I am in love with my Maths teacher, we talk all the time, I feel so much love for him its untrue. I think he has feelings for me too. We have finished college for the summer and he gave me his mobile number and home address...

Do I have a problem with cocaine?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - If someone spends £230 on cocaine a week would you say they have a problem? It started off as trying it on a night out and im spending atleast £230 a week on it, and i mainly do by myself. I dont really have a family to turn to, all i have is fr...

I fell madly in love with her, but I'm too tongue tied to tell her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - hey well theres this girl in school that i fell madly in love with at 1st sight but i know that i have no chanse what so ever with her she soo beautiful i dont know what to do. what should i do whenever i try to tell her i get tongue tide and ...

I like him only as a friend. How do I let him down easy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Okay, I have a friend who likes me. I don't like him at all in that way. We're just friends. He has a girlfriend anyways. The other night, I was hanging out with him and two other people. He kept trying to sit closer to me. When he was as clos...

I want to turn this from a good relationship into an amazing one!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend still really loves me because he tells me all the time, but how do i get him to show it? i want to make an amazing relationship out of a really good one, any suggesions please ? xx thanks!! ...

I'm having stronger feelings for my girl friend... am I bi?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - heyah everybody! im getting really confused lately if i am straight or bi or even just bi curious.. i know my best friend for years and i am begining to have feelings for her.. i had an awful hard time with guys they treated me really bad and s...

What's with a guy when....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Ok would like opinions from both guys and girl here please! :) Whats with a guy when... 1) he talks to your friends and starts converstaions with them on msn but doesnt with you! He only talks to you if you talk to him. 2) when he chose to s...

Sex and masturbation questions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - how often do guys want to have sex? how often do they masturbate? is that all they think about in a relationship? and also, i know a single guy in his 20s. he's been single for a while. does he masturbate? and is it a lot different than bein...

Females: How do you react when a guy is hugging you and he gets an erection?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - Females: How do you react when a guy is hugging you and he gets an erection? Do you act flattered? Are you usually disgusted? I hug this girl from time to time and I always get an erection whilst hugging her. I used to find it embarassing unti...

How come I always pick guys that are like my father?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I need help my boyfriend is just like my father. He is immature, a drug addict, and alcoholic. I didn't notice at first but then in the middle of the relationship I had noticed that they were exactly alike in so many ways. My boyfriend is the same ...

Been together 5 months, and he still hasn't told me he loves me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost five months now, and he still hasnt told me that he loves me. when we are together our relationship seems great but when apart he seems a bit distant and as if he doesnt appreciate me. Im not sure if he really ...

I'm in love with my best friend, is there a chance he feels the same way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I'm in love with my bestfriend and I don't know if he feels the same way. We text each other everyday and he would find time to hang out with me even though his busy schedule. He said that he will never leave me and I am the most important person. ...

My boyfriend told me he gets bored of kissing me for too long!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, but recently he told me that he 'gets bored' of kissing me for too long? We rarely snog anymore and when we kiss its maybe only for a couple of seconds, maybe less. also he's been reluctant to hav...

Why do guys stop making an effort after being in a relationship for a while?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Can someone tell me why over time guys stop giving you compliments and other things like that? I've been with my boyfriend for over 9 months and I know he loves me but he's stop giving me compliments and never does x's on his texts when I tex...

Sometimes I don't feel the same way as my boyfriend is feeling, so I assume he has fallen out of love with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Okay maybe it will be hard for you to understand, but I have this question and I hope it makes sense when it comes out. So I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months. He treats me so good, takes me out, sends me cute text messages every morning....

We have decided to lose our virginity to each other....but I'm scared and uncomfortable with my body

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Hey... Well ive been dating this guy for around 3 almost 4 years and like latley hes been like beenig wayyyy to much of a sweetheart :) and i love it! :] We are both 18 and agree that we are ready to loose are virginitys to each other... It will soo...

Confused about my teachers behaviour

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - hey guys I really need help. Earlier on the month I posted a question about me feeling like my teacher was flirting and I really didn't get a lot of feed back on it and I'm still hung up about the whole thing. I think about it a lot and every time...

He hasn't texted me back, it's been 6 days!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Well there's this guy that wont text me back. I have no clue what I did for him to stop texting me. Yeah I know there's many questions like this one, but I need help for mine. Ok so I told this guy that I liked him...the last few days of school. ...

I get jealous easily and my boyfriend doesn't like it...Please help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfirned have been going out for a year and five months now, I love him and I trust him with all my heart but someone please help me get rid of my jealousy. He has many more and makes more friends with girls, and without meaning to, I get ...

With him, it's constant kisses and hugs and "I love yous" and it's really starting to annoy me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 months now and hes become totally obsessed with me. I constantly get txts asking "wuu2" or "ily so much babe x" and its like really freaking me out....at first it was like aww now i find myself i...

I'm scared I might be bi!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Im scared i might be bi. I mean ive always questioned it but im scared to admit it to myself. I mean i have a boyfriend and i love him but i still have feelings towards girls not really sexual just like i like them. i mean i think i have a crush o...

When we found out we had an 8 year age gap, we stopped dating! But is it really that bad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - well i met this guy a few months back. hes absolutly gorgeous! and i never in a million years thought he'd be interested in me, but he was! i met him through a friend who told me he was 21, but the thing i didnt know is that she told him i wss 18 ...

We need a song, but haven't said "I love you" yet. Ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - i just resently started dating this guy and he said we need a song but i cant find one that fits lol. most songs are about love but we havent said i love you so i dont want a song like that. he hates country and rap music and prefers rock. a...

We never go out anywhere! I don't know what to do anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5303 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - i love my boyfriend to bits, but im having trouble believing he has "real" feeling for me, we spend everyday in his house, watching t.v or having sex, what kind of a relationship is that? i even had to ask him to take me out for our years anaversa...