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Archived questions from: 4 July, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Is it too soon to tell her how much I like her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - I was on here a few days ago about a girl that wouldnt speak to me, anyway we talked it out and she's started speaking to me again, However is it too soon to tell her how much I like her? What's people opinions?...

I'm only 16 but I KNOW I want to marry my boyfriend. What can we do while we wait to be 18?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - We've been together for 9 months, and i know that doesn't seem like alot, and i know im too younge to think i know what love is. And i know many of you who are married or older are going to tell me i am naive and don't know what i'm getting into. ...

What can I do to make my skin clearer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - i dont ahve the best skin.i get acne but i have creams for that but i want beautiful smooth soft skin like alot of girls have.what do you do?..like drink alot of water and stuff..and i bearely use any cream for my body,im too lazy.i need 2 fix ...

Should I just tell her I don't want to be friends because of how shes changed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - Me and my friend have been really good friends for about 3 years now, you could say we are best friends. We've always had so much fun and have always talked about everything and it's been great. Lately however she has changed. She has become s...

Can tampons break my hymen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - can i break my hymen by inserting a tampon? i want to beak it. im a virgin and have never used tampons. but i dont know if its already broken......

I cry because I miss my teacher so much! How can I take my mind of it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - Hey. I've recently posted about a crush on a teacher. Well. He has gone to India a while ago and I really miss him. I won't see him for another eight weeks because of summer holidays and the remanded of when he is in India. So I'll only see hi...

Why can I not stop thinking about this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - Why can I not stop thinking of this guy? Ok but lets call him Erik. So Erik is a really cute and nice guy. But has his moments where he is really mean. He is one of my close friends and I can talk to him whenever. But lately he has been a jerk. Like ...

I'd like to ask my girlfriend for oral sex, but I don't want her to feel rushed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - ok well i am 14 and i want to ask my gf for a bj (blow job) idk i have give her some hints about it and stuff but idk i mean i love her and all i just kinda feel we can move on into more stuff then just kissing and hugging...idk am i rushing into ...

My best guy friend likes me, but I'm scared to risk our friendship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - I'm 16; My best guy friend Ben who i've known for just over 2 years, told me the other day that he really likes me, and thinks that we could have something special. But im so worried to go any further with him incase it ruins our friendship, and ...

Did I break his heart for no reason? I feel like a bad person...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - Am I a BAD person ? I know this might look long but pls take the time to read it. I am currently 19yrs old and I got with my ex bf when I was 14yrs we went out for 4 yrs and although we did have problems in our relationships we were kinda okay....

What can I do to sort out our friendship again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - hello :)Okay, so recently a friend of mine said that he really liked me, I, unfortunately, didn't feel the same way back as I like another guy. He said he was okay with this, although pretty upset. I asked him if we could still stay such good ...

My girlfriend is hanging out with a friend who is a bad influence! How can I stop this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - Well Ive been together with this girl for almost a year and I love her a lot. I always am there for her I always make her nice dinners, and take care of her when she's sick and stuff. She always tells me she loves me and would always listen to me. I ...

My situation with this boy has me depressed. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - Hey :) i am quite depressed and very confused about what I should do here. Please help if you can thanks. I have never had a serious boyfriend except for a few months last year going out with a guy, but that was very minor and relaxed. I'm not a ...

I need advice with my period

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - ok i have not satarted my period yet i am 13 but my chest are almost b cup and they are lopsided big time is this natrual...

I just want opinions....I'm in love with my teacher

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - Ok. Quickly summed up. I am a 14 year old student and I have fallen in Love with a teacher at my school. He doesn't teach me for anything because he teaches Spanish and I do French. Although I go to badminton after school and he does that. ...

I want to use a vibrator but it hurts so much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - Okay so im a virgin and i dont masterbait very often and when i do i just use my hands but today i disided to see how big my hole was (idk it was a random thaught). So i started to slide the vibrator in but about an inch in it began to hurt worse ...

How can I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - My gf has recently dumped me, i reali loved her.. but theres no point going back, trying to get bak is only straining things further, Ill stay friends with her because before we started dating, there was a strong foundation in commonality in ...

Do girls prefer the scruffy hair look or the clean cut short hair look, which do they think is sexier?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - do girls prefer scruffy hair look, or clean, cut short hair in guys? what is it they find sexy about it? im fairly short (174cm) and oval shaped head, blonde hair.. ...

I miss my teacher very much, he moved to Chicago, what can I do to stop crying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - I miss my favorite teacher. It is summer and I cry at night thinking about him. I always said bye to him after school. I had one dream about him,but I am not gay. He moved to Chicago I always wonder if he is okay. I need help because I feel like I ...

I'm not sure if I am ready...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - I just started dating this guy i have liked for 3 years and he lives 30 min. away fro me and so we can't see eachothe as often as we like and we are going to hange out on mon. and i am 13 and all my friends are having sex but not me and he asked if ...

How do I use tampons?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - hey im a girl and im a virgin. never even used tampons. i want to but im scared i'll faint cause i read that somewhere. im so afraid of passing out! so any pointers on inserting tampons? also how do i masturbate? like what do i do? what feels really ...

Is this normal... or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - Tell me if this is normal or not. I am a 14 year old girl who occasioally likes watching sex scenes from movies... Not real dirty ones just ones that make me " hot" if you will. Some of you may know how it feels ... How good it feels when you are ...