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She's not sure if she wants to be in a relationship right now...

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Question - (8 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *ilveknifex writes:

Hi, I'm 18 so me and my partner have been jokingly playing around about sex, although I don't know if she's kidding or serious, I have never actually had sex before, but I know I do actually love her and she does as well the only thing is right now we're not going out, because she's not sure if she wants to be in a relationship, long story short she had an ex of 3 years 7 months ago, I've been talking to her for 5 months, we went out for 2 but she said right now the best thing I can do is be her friend, although the past few days she's been kissing me and holding me, so this shows she still does like me, she's just confused, I think I would be ready for sex, but when she's joking around I don't know if she wants to actually go farther or not, so what do you guys think I should do? I really do love this girl and I don't wanna do anything to **** up what we have.

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A female reader, didda123 United Kingdom +, writes (8 February 2009):

didda123 agony auntI am sure she likes you but i would just give her sometime and stay friendly as she has asked for the time being and gradually your relationship will grow.

Just let things happen naturally at her pace.

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