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I can't get hard like I used to!

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Question - (8 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2009)
A male Cyprus age 30-35, *ice writes:

Ok so this is kinda long am sorry but its really a frustrating thing..it hurts me inside

my ego is like dead

ok so here it goes..ill tell u everything coz i really need ya peoples help and encouragment in a way

it was on november when i tried to have sex for the first time in my life..i am 16 years old..i dont have any health problems nor i had

i dance (breakdance) and i think my fitness is ok

so i tried to have sex with a woman..we went to the beach..remember it was winter and it was cold

so we started taking off our clothes

i was really hard at the start but when i got inside

her i started thinkin this

in my mind i was asking my self "is this what sex is?" coz i really wanted to have sex..i thought it would be great and stuff but it turned out otherway

am afraid i got the wrong idea about what sex is coz i really didnt have any feelings for teh girl

nor i had that "pleasure" i honestly can tell u id like to masturbate than have with her sex Whilst i was inside her.

anyway i was inside her and i started getting soft

i knew it was coz it was cold

after that i couldnt go back inside her nor i could get as hard again

It hurts my ego

and now the problem is that i cant get really hard

even when i masturbate

i dont knwo whats wrong with me coz since that day i cant get hard as i used to..even when i watch porn

and i am now with a new girlfriend and when we make out it gets hard but again i think its not hard enough..when am at the hardest point..i soemtiems can bend it in like half..whys that wats wrong

every 2-1 days at the morning i get hard but then when i just start thinking "am i hard enough" i loose the hardness..i masturbate once everyday

i sometimes think that its my mind that plays these games but again sometimes i think somethings wrong with me..

why cant i get hard as i used to

when am hard sometimes i think that i wont be able to penetrate with that hardness

Whats wrong please people help me

i really need it

-By a frustrated Guy with a dead ego

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A male reader, dice Cyprus +, writes (9 February 2009):

dice is verified as being by the original poster of the question

dice agony auntanyone else?

i really dnt wanna see a doctor..it is so embarassing for my family to know pls help

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A female reader, carlalalee United States +, writes (9 February 2009):

THe best advice is to see a doctor... somtimes guys have circulation problems. They can give you meds. Im not sure....

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