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writes:This started yesterday. My best friend slept over at my house. We were just lying around and he just started acting weird (e.g. staring at me). Then he said something really weird, he's like, "You know I love you, right?" I wasn't sure how to reply so I just nodded my head.Then today, he's been a bit over protective. I'm not sure if he's joking or not. For example, one of my friends poked me and he flipped. He would hug me a lot longer too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2009): he's thinking more than friends and he thinks that he made it clear by saying 'you know i love you, right?" in his eyes when you nodded, he took it as confirmation that you feel the same. be clear about one thing here and that is guys do not communicate in the same manner as girls...so while you are trying to figure out what is going on, he thinks you are a couple. talk to him about it and take a hard look and decide if you are interested. also be clear that this friendship will never be the same regardless of the path you chose. goodluck, mal
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2009): Do you think you could ever like him as more than a friend ?
If no ... tell him what you think!
If yes ... go for it!
If your not sure confer with friends
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2009): I agree with her, all except that getting over part, do you really think time will help someone to get over someone?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 December 2009):
Oh, he fancies you all right. If you don't fancy him, then you need to stop the behaviour by saying you're uncomfortable about it. But he fancies you, which is why he's acting as he is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2009): Fancies you.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 December 2009):
He likes you and he's trying to tell you.
If you don't like him back then you have to tell him NOW. Don't drag this out as you'll hurt him really badly.
Tell him how you feel and let him have time away from you to get over you.
Good Luck!! xx
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