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writes:this might take long so please bare with me. 3 days ago i just found out my ex who lives down south is wanting me back and my mate told me cause she was talking to her on msn. my mate told me that my ex wanted me back and is missing me badly and wants to move back up north to be with me. when i found out i said to my mates oh no but deep down i was really happy because i really still do love her. but my mate thought i didnt like her so she told my ex that i had a girlfriend even though i didnt and my ex was like oh right but thats what my mate told me. but the next day which was tuesday i told my mate the truth that i still have feelings for her and asked her if she can talk to my ex about me wanting her back as well. but i couldnt talk to my ex because she had blocked me on msn 2 months and wont accept my friend request on facebook. but when my mate was talking to my ex on tuesday night she asked my ex if she still wanted me back but my ex replied saying no i dont love him anymore ive got a boyfriend. when i found out i knew she was telling fibs from the start because how could she find a boyfriend so quickly even though the day before that she just told my mate that she wanted me back which was on monday. i could not believe what i was hearing but i think the reason why she said that was because i told everyone about my ex wanting me back and i think my ex didnt want anyone to notice including me. but in the end she was lying because one of my other mates had her on facebook and my ex admitted to my mate that she lied and doesnt want anyone else to know. before when i found out that she lied i text my exs mum to see if she really had a boyfriend but she replied she didnt know cause she doesnt speak to her that much because she lives up north as well. and i also told my exs mum that she is ignoring me even though she said she wants me back and her mum said that she will talk to her to see whats happening. then when i was on facebook my ex told me to leave her alone and told me she does have a boyfriend even though she does not she made up a name for her pretend boyfriend but the guys name was one of her friends on facebook. is my ex hiding her feelings and why would she lie about having a boyfriend and did she get angry with me because i got her mum involved i just dont understand why she is not admitting about her being in love with me. will she ever talk to me again i need answers please help i still love her.
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reader, Shan25  +, writes (3 December 2009):
you seem to be focusing on your ex what about your mate. i know she is feeling bad to find out that you are so persistent to find out how your ex feels about you. lets talk about you ex if she still has you blocked it sounds like she does not want you. when your with someone you will always have feelings for that person even when their still not in your life but that does not mean she wants you back. and it sounds like you are kind of pursing her to say she wants you. do your mate still wants you. good luck
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