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writes:Right, Hello um...where do i begin...i am a recently turned 17 year old studying art in my second year at college. When I started my first year, theres this girl that was in my course but not in my that i found attractive but was to shy to approach her, so started talking to her on facebook after adding her. we got very well and i gave her my number and she pretty much texted my all the time for a couple of weeks, in which case we went on two dates. I however, was to shy and feared rejection and didn't ask her out, all of a sudden it changed, she started ignoring me. we didn't really speak then until the end of my first year at college. Now, we're good friends but I don't know whether its young love but i couldn't stop thinking about her. So, i asked her out, cowardly over by text, her reply was that we would go out on a date otherwise it would of been awkward meeting up and being in a relationship with one another, I was overjoyed to be honest. A couple of days past and my best mate told me that he had caught her out in town with a boy that she had never met, only through msn. Turned out she really liked him and never told me anything. I thought she was a good friend. I was furious, i sent her a text where she started to apologise but deep down i knew that wasn't good enough yet, i got along with her just as if nothing happened. i thought i had lost my feelings for her after that but i still hadn't. turns out the boy she liked didn't like her and they didn't see each other after that one date, so now i was slightly happier. Now however, she is beginning to see a boy who i don't like at all. And now my feelings are coming back again, what do i do? if you saw us, you would think we are a couple but we ain't. i want to go out with her but feel stupid talking about the 'relationship' subject to her between us for the third time. Mine and her friends keep saying to me to go out with her but i think its the fact she don't like me in that way. It's really hard to explain can someone help? thankyou, any answers will be very much appreciated x
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reader, Kirstyteenauntireland  +, writes (10 October 2009):
 I know you feel uncomfortable about talking to this girl about a relationship for a third time but if she still means a lot to you then go for it! Its very clear that her friends approve of you and this girl as a couple.You say " Mine and her friends keep saying to me to go out with her " mabye they are saying that to her as well and she is in the same dilemma as you.So someone has to make a move and I think mabye you should talk to her about this and see how it goes.
Good Luck and keep us posted :)
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reader, GuyWriter +, writes (9 October 2009):
 I think most people have been in this situation at some point in their lives, i think the best thing for you to do is maybe text her asking her if you could talk? i think you need to step out from being so shy and maybe speak to her about it to her face, Tell her that you like her and always have, and how youve been hiding you emotions and that you dont think this guy she likes is good for her, the worst that could happen is that she disagrees, but be very tactful of how you word it, try not to be nasty about anything or get angry, else this could jeperdise your friendship, but i think the best thing to do would be to speak to her face to face and simply explain how you feel :)
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