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Archived questions from: 7 December, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I just found out my cousin was cheating with my boyfriend two years ago, and all my friends knew and didn't tell me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - i recently found out that my cousion who im very close with, was cheating with my boyfriend around two years ago. me and my cousion have been close more or less since we were born as we're around the same age. we've always done everythin together, ...

How do I come to terms with what they said about me behind my back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - How do you forgive somebody that has made fun of you in the past, someone that you like a lot and you weren't really surprised because they called you it to your face before. This time though they said it behind your back to like three friends and ...

Her parents getting divorced is ruining my chances at a relationship with her!

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7 December 2009 (M) - So I'm talking to this girl now that I've liked for awhile. She's beautiful, smart, funny, and just an amzing person. We both liekd each other didn't know it until recently. So after school today she found out her parents are getting a divorce, ...

Should I get him a Christmas present?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Ok so, this guy and I haven't been going out very long, but I've never felt like this about anyone before. Since christmas is coming up, I wanted to get him something, but I don't know if that would be awkward for him? I am only 13 and he's almost ...

They were on the verge of going out and suddenly he's screaming at her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - how does one deal with a situation where your heart is telling you one thing about a boy and your mind is tellign you another my friend has this guy she likes and they were on the verge of going out but suddenly hes mad at her and they are having s...

I'm torn between my crush on a girl and my crush on my best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - hey aunts im confused about whether im gay, bi, or straight can someone help? ok im 15 have this mega crush on this girl in my year i like her alot but she wont go out with me ive tryed everything with her but none of it has worked i sometimes get ...

My boyfriend's friends never let us be alone together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - my boyfriends friends piss me off they are always there when we want to hang out my friends give me and him alone time he wont leave his friends i don't know wat to do because they don't let me be with him and i don't think he has the guts to t...

Why does she act so weird around me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - ok, Pretty straightforward. There's a girl in one of my classes and I really like her. Problem is, I'm gay and she has a boyfriend. That suprised me, I was dead certain she was gay. The way she walks, talks, sits, dresses, speaks, her non-...

Why do my friends always get attention instead of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - hi aunts x, at dinner time me and my friends hang out but my friends lets call them lisa and fran always! get attention from all our male friends and it makes me feel really left out, i mean ill try to get noticed like taking my jumper off an ...

Torn in two

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - After meeting my fiancé at our former place of work, I thought we were meant for each other and were going to be together forever. We had the chemistry, both on a emotional and physical level but it's slowly evaporated over time. Then our mutual ...

Weird friend problem... how to get rid of her or help her stop being weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - has anyone else had a friend who follows you round everywhere! well i do she is really annoying i mean she is nice to me and everthing but she wont even let me talk to my other friend without thinking am talking about her and this might sound weird ...

Should I be friends with my ex who continues to hurt me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I was in a 5 year relationship. We were happy for those years. Odd argument. He was very devoted to me. But I guess we wanted different things so in the end split up. He split up with me for the most part but it was a little amicable. Nevertheless ...

Should I recommend her to divorce???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - My best friend suffered a lot cos her husband cheated on her and passed onto her a sexually transmitted disease. Now she's found somebody and they ocasionally have sex and she's thinking about divorce as her husband never apologised and doesn'r ...

I have mild feelings for people of the same sex...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - I've had mild feelings for people of the same sex over years, but maybe i'm taking it too seriously... a simple 'man crush' I think I'm having at the minute. How do I contrast a crush with full on feelings and is a crush harmful for our friendship ...

He says he loves me like a sister!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4124 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Sorry if this is just obvious and it sounds stupid but one of my best guy friends said to me he loves me like a sister. He's said in the past once when someone went and spread a load of lies that he loved me as a friend. But now he says he loves...

Girls - do you think this means she's falling for me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - I really need some sensible answers from the ladies out there as I have to be very careful how I handle this if I may be reading things correctly. My best friend is female, two years younger than me. I have always had close female friends s...

How can I tell if the guy I like is bi, or gay, or straight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - Hey I'm a tad confused - i know I'm bi - but at our school people will pretend to be gay, bi, straight for jokes but i cannot tell whether the guy i like is gay or bi or straight. Today i asked him if he was a friend of Dorothy's and he said that he ...

Can you fall back into love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Hi, Im starting to wonder if i am "in love" with my boyfriend anymore. We have been together for over a year and a half. In the beginning it started out really intense, my heart would beat really fast everytime i saw him and i would want to spend...

He's been a flirt recently, and we just cuddled on a long bus ride....what does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - so i am a freshman in high school, and he is senior... he has has been a little flirt lately, he will hug me, touch me, just be so sweet around me. well, i thought it was just him being like that. but he sat next to me on a 3 1/2 hour bus ride. and ...

I have two friends who generally are not very respectful.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - i have 2 friends who generally are not very respectful. they both think their amazing and a lot of people don't. but anyway we were having a conversation and one of them told me that she treats the upperclassmen in the drama department like ...

I'm not sure if he jsut likes me as a friend, or more than that.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Ok. i like this guy.He is five years younger than me, i'm 26 next may, and he is 21 in february. I'm not sure if he jsut likes me as a friend, or more than that.He asks to meet up with me alot. He once made a comment that he thinks i suit short ...

Do you think he wants to be more than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I am a freshman in high school, and this boy has been a little flirt lately, he will hug me, touch me, just be so sweet around me. Well, I thought it was just him but we had a 3 1/2 hour bus drive and he sat next to me and well we talked and I had ...

My husband and best friend text daily M-F, should I be worried?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I just found out that my husband and my best friend have been communicating via text message pretty much everyday Mon. - Fri.. I knew they texted a lot and I am O.K. with that. Sometimes he'll come home and tell me what they texted about that day, ...

Why does he listen to his mates so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I have been with my fella for 2 years now, and love him more than anything! it started off great, we were the perfect couple, everyone was jealous... as we saw eachother everyday for a whole year, n still missed eachother when we werent together, my ...

His mother introduces me as his 'acquaintance' (after 2 year together!) and speaks Albanian around me! Should I end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for over 2 years and last thanksgiving (11/26/09) my boyfriend's mom introduced me to her friends (who btw already knew me from previous meetings) as Ervin's aquaintence from school. 1) I'm his girlfriend, ...

How can I make him see that she is trying to break us up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - My problem is my boyfriends female friend who has tried everything possible to break us up. The first time I went out with them she got ontop of my boyfriend and tried to kiss him. The second time I went out with them she pecked him on the lips ...