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Archived questions from: 14 December, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Is he pushing my buttons too see how much I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I like this guy that is a Scorpio... I'm 22 and he's 18 and he does things that show he likes me, then when I actually get the courage to talk to him, he kind of pushes me away kind of acts rude, he was smiling while talking to me but acting ...

We were getting along so great, and now .... we are not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5240 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - i've seen that my crushes friend added me on myspace,so i added my crush he sent me a message say hey next thing led to another i gave him my number we started flrting and texting none stop for a week then he said we should hang out the weekent came ...

She took me home so fast! Does she really just want to be friends or is she looking for more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - I was at this new school, been there for about 3 days. I started talking to this girl in my last period cuz she was cute. we started talking about weed and she asked if i smoke. i said yes and she asked me if i wanted to smoke with her after school. ...

My friend has my jacket, she said she didn't, but then she wore it, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Why did she wear it? So my ex best friend has my jacket and I asked for it back a long time ago (we haven't been friends for 7 months on the 13th) and she said that she didn't have it, but she wore it to school today and for the past two weeks sh...

Should I tell her or let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - i am in this situation, a girl i had the biggest crush ever on for 6 months i asked her out we when on a date couple days later when i asked her out again she said she didnt feel for me in that kind of way but she loved our friendship and really ...

I love my boyfriend but I fancy his best friend!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - im in a relationship with a boy i really like but.... before i got with this boy i got to know his best friend first and now i think im falling him, i dont know why and i dont understand why i really want to stop liking his best friend but how d...

If he is just using me why does he text me every day and why come over that night and not even try anything on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I don't know whether I'm wasting my time with a guy I met a month ago but I can't seem to find the strength to walk away. The whole situation is making me feel down. I split up with my ex in July and met this guy about a month ago, him and my ex do...

Why does he always talk about sex to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Hi. I have an odd question to ask. My best guy friend and I have our free period together, when the teacher doesn't have a class. So basically it's just him and I and we talk the whole time. Anyway, he always brings up sex, especially me having sex ...

She can't remember if she had sex while drunk!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - My gf is currently studying abroad in Italy. She gets back in a week (it was just one semester so she will be back on campus here next semester). We were dating before she left and then I suggested we take a break while she's away. When she was in ...

I cheated on my girlfriend and cannot stop thinking about the other woman

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - I have been happily seeing my girlfriend for just over 3 years. We have never had any problems and she is now 2 months pregnant which is something we are both happy about. However, on a night out at work, i ended up spending most of the night tal...

Does she like me or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - So, i like this girl and ive liked her for a while (since late october). But recently like about 2 weeks ago, my good friend said he liked her and he flirts with her a lot and she kinda flirts back with him but not as much as him. And when we have ...

Does she really want to be with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - Theres this girl that I am real good friends with and I honestly love her and am willing to do anything for her. The reason I am righting this is because she has a boyfriend that she says she loves more than anything in the world, but every time I ...

Is it a coincidence that he keeps showing up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I have a history with this guy and I seem to have always loved him( even though there are times when I have hated him)We didnt really end in the best way- yet it wasnt the worst. Well I recently decided that Im done with the boys since they ...

Should I Let Him Go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - Okay, me and my boyfriend Jack* have been together for six months, I moved in with him four months ago when he found out my father was abusing me (my father said I could go live with Jack if I never went home again..I was fine with that) Anyway...

He's found out I like him and has gone strange around me... HELP!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Hi. Just wondering what other people thought; am I wasting my time waiting for this guy to ask me out. We have been close friends since September and I always got the impression he liked me back so my feelings grewbut I kept them to myself until la...

Help!!! Why is he acting this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Theres a guy in my year who i really like, we didnt used to talk much but recently he's been really (kinda over)friendly n spoke to me loads. but last time i was in a lesson with him he was with lots of his mates and he wouldnt look me in the eye. ...

Is it wrong to tease my female best friend when I only like her as a friend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - hello everyone, just a simple question, is it wrong to tease a female bestfriend? like hugging too much, acting romantic toward her a lot, being overly nice to her, holding her hand. i only want to be friends and only like her as a friend though...

If we are friends how come he doesn't message me like he does other friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - hey again :) ok... theres this guy in class. he's one of my best friends. the thing is we became best friends all of a sudden. i mean we've known each other for a year and a half, initially we hardly used to speak to each other. n in the past two...

I like this girl and am not sure if I should let her know I want to be more than friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - I have this friend, I liked her a lot for some time and I eventually told her, but she had already gotten a boyfriend and sort of friendzoned me. I stopped all kinds of contact with her for around five months. Two months ago we saw each other at a ...

She put me in the friend zone and then broke up with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - So I had been dating this girl for a year and a half and she started acting more distant. I pressed her on it and she said she no longer has romantic feelings for me. She said she has never felt so comfortable with a boyfriend before and she ...

He said he only liked me as a friend, so now I worry he will behave differently towards me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I have been hanging out with a guy for a while now. We get on well - flirt, hug and talk a lot. This gave me a positive view so recently I asked him whether he feels the same toward me. He said that he likes me as a friend, which disappointed me a ...

I'm starting to fancy my friend, but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - This is very complicated. Okay, so I'm single, and a friend of mine who I was never very close with has just moved ten hours away. He randomly starting talking to me on facebook a few weeks ago, and the conversation flows so perfectly. We talk about ...

I told him I love him and now he is backing off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Please someone give me some advice. I have been dating a man for about 6 months now. He has constantly been in my face telling me he loves me and I will be his wife. Well, I didn't say anything to him about this but a really good friend of his was ...

How can I deal with all of this stress and anxiety?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

14 December 2009 (?) - I'm stressing out and don't know how to deal with it. I issues of my own, like finding a job and dealing with a death in my family. But my friends are making me feel stressed- my best friend gets herself into stupid situations and puts the blame on ...

Major problem, that won't go out of my mind

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - Hi, I have a major problem. I work for a major national service, at a major location, I don't really want to say more than that though. Recently we took on some college students on work placement, they are there one day a week. Last week was th...

He only stayed a minute on the phone... why was he so cool with me tonight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - i cant sleep through worrying about this - I feel very stupid. I've developed strong feelings for a new guy i work with, I dont know how. hes going through his second divorce and I've been on my own 8 months. Anyway he's already seeing someone ...

How can I save this doomed friendship/relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Hi, two saturdays ago I met a guy I'll call him Marty. He was very forward, kissing on the dance floor, I thought I could trust him. Hmmmm... Two days later I told him I was in his area and he asked me if I wanted to go back to his place. ...