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Archived questions from: July, 2010 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

Should I hook up with my cousin?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I have a cousin problem and it involves me a 17 year old having sex and messing around with my 14 year old cousin. We have spend a lot of time together and have fun together, when we start fighting for fun he accidentaly touches my boobs and ...

I am falling in love with my cousin, what should I do next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

30 July 2010 (?) - ok im 18 and i am falling in love with my cousin i want to be with her and dont know what to do.... she and i are close we tell each other stuff we wouldnt tell anyone else what do i do i want to be with her so could someone help me...

Is it wrong to like my cousin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - is it wrong to like my cousin? we are related by mariage...not by blood and i like him a lot. i can tell he has some kind of interest in me and i want us to have a relationship but at the same time i dont want ppl to judge i mean its not like we ...

He's married, but I love him! How can I handle this unrequited love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - Dear Agony Aunt I'm a single 24 year old living in the UK. My problem is that I think I'm in love with someone who is married and can never love me back. He is 29 and married with a kid. We used to work together and we got on brilliantly,...

My boyfriend slept with his brother's wife before he met me?? Please help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - Ok, so before my boyfriend and I started dating, he slept with his brothers wife supposedly just once. We started dating maybe about 5 months after this happened and he told me about 7 months into our relationship out of guilt. At first, I was ...

Tale of two men: which one do I go for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - I'm not sure what to do . I like two men, but i'm not sure which one to go for.One of them is married, but i really like him as he is confident and has a good sense of humour, and we have met up recently and known each other for a few years. The ...

How do we tell the family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - i have been seeing my cousin and we are in love. how do we tell the family?...

How do I walk away from this married man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - hey all. am madly in love with a married guy and hate myself but cant walk away. how do i walk away?...

It turns out I was in love with her... should I make a move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - Hey y'all. Sorry I haven't been giving advice too much lately, I just haven't been online too much this summer. Anyways, I'm having a little emotional dilemma. My best friend is a woman. Our relationship is closer than any relationship I'v...

I need help telling my cousin I like her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

24 July 2010 (M) - I have this problem I like my cousin more than family and I have for two years now, I think she likes me to but I don't know for sure I know what your thinking that's incest but you see I don't consider all of my family as family I care about but if ...

I believe this married man is attracted to me, too

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

24 July 2010 (F) - I am friends with a married man and have been for a couple of years. Our children are friends and we have socialised together once with his family at our place. We were to go to their place for dinner one night, but my friend told me his wife was ...

My life should be a lifetime story

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 July 2010 (F) - I don't know where to even start with this. I am falling for my boss. But first lets start with this: My boss introduced me to his best friend. Whom I dated for a year, then things started to go bad. He had a temper that I just couldn't get past. I ...

Asked out by three guys and they're all mates!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

23 July 2010 (F) - I've know this one guy ben for about half a year and we've become really good friends and i found out he fancies me but is moving to london in 2 months but wants to go out with me, and i don't know if i want a long distance relationship and i'm ...

How do I tell my sister about her daughter and this boy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

23 July 2010 (F) - i m in confuse situation , my sisiters daughter is involve with one boy ..but nobody knows only my kids know..ab,t it.. how should i tell my sister..i m worried because my neice is only 16 yr old.. and my sister live in small town with conservative ...

I want to make it work with this new guy but I still have feelings for this religious guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

22 July 2010 (F) - I have been seeing a guy before my current boyfriend. He is three years younger than me. We got on very well, and hung out often. His hugs were tight, affectionate and comforting. I felt good everytime. He is a devoted Christian and has been ...

I'm 17 and my mom's 42 year old friend has the hots for me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 July 2010 (M) - I'm 17 and my mothers best friend is a teacher she tough me as a privet tutor for some of my studies I took at school. She is always popping round to our house to see my mum however she confessed to me the other day that since I was 13 and she ...

My family is blackmailing me because they found out I'm dating my cousin!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

22 July 2010 (F) - Ok, so i've been dating my cousin for about almost 7 years an we've managed to keep it a secret until recently. My sister and my brother found out and they been blackmailing me so they won't tell my family. I can't be around him or go out with him ...

I fancy this married man and he fancies me too!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 July 2010 (F) - ok, i'm in a really tricky situation. i fancy this man, and he fancies me too, but the problem is he is married, and he is also a close friend of my uncle and knows some of my other family members. He got upset and in a mood last week on the day i ...

Will I get hurt having an affair with a married man?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

22 July 2010 (F) - A few months ago I met a man online just chatting he told me right off that he was married and that he and his wife love each other yet they do allow each other to do whatever they wish . Anyway we clicked and we met up we just had our sceond ...

Is it an affair if it's an LDR with a married man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

21 July 2010 (F) - Is it called an illicit affair if you are involved in a long distance relationship with a married man? I never met him but our relationship of 3 yrs are through online chats only. ...

I want to move in with my boyfriend, but my parents don't approve of us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

21 July 2010 (F) - Hi i am currently 17 almost 18 years old and i have secretly been dating by boyfriend for about 10 months now and in a few months i turn 18, and i want to move in with him but my parents dont want us to be together. i have tried talking to them but ...

I'm 18 and attracted to older men. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - [OP original title] Well i am 18 years old. I'm not attracted to guys my own age. I'm finding that i'm attracted to guys in their late 20's to mid 40's. the one guy who impacted me tremendously is 41 years old. he made me feel like no one has ever...

I feel guilty about having sex with my dead cousin's husband

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

18 July 2010 (F) - i had sex with my causins husband. i feel bad,cause i respect him and he is not over my causin. my causin past away last year june and he is still single. i help him by cleaning his house and do the washing every friday. he also gave me his spare ke...

I got my teacher pregnant, now she won't talk to me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

18 July 2010 (M) - UH Hi. Its been awhile since I've asked a question but here goes. The woman I was with last year was a FORMER teacher of mine and we were hiding our relationship because we didnt want to deal with anything that might damage her career. Well the ...

I love my best friend, but my dad has married his mom! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - Hey, im fifteen and my dad got married to on of my best friends mom.I used to date him when i was younger and we lost our connection.His mom and siblings moved in for a year but moved out because things werent working.My dad and her are still ...

I'm 15, he's 20, and my parents hate him...but we are in love! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - hi im fifteen and im living with a tweenty year old my familly hates him but we are in love what do i do?...

How do we tell my girlfriend's strict father about us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

16 July 2010 (M) - ok i have this mate (well best mate) who i have known all my life she is an indain (this is a imporant). i was home alone as my foks where on holiday and it was about 11:00pm when this knoock came at the door. i opend it to find her standing...

My older lover is very sick, should I marry him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

15 July 2010 (?) - I'm a successful, almost 22-year-old woman. The love of my life is 61. Please, no gasping. I met him when I was a child, in passing, when he was only 46, and I a mere seven or so. He quietly watched me grow and change through my childhood. He was ...

I can't have the girl I want without feeling like a dog for leaving

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - Here is a tough one for you guys. I grew up with a girl who became my foster sister when I was 15 . I have always been in love with her.I told her I loved her when we 16 then again 19 and the last time when we were 24 when she told me she didnt lo...

I'm in love with my teacher and I think he loves me as well!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - I am 15 years old and i am in love with my English teacher and i am certain he is into me. When i first meet him i thought he was a weird guy but as i got to now him i flirted. 1:on my birthday he got jealous when another guy said his birthday...

I'm 14 and like a 17 year old boy, but my parents think he's too old for me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - Okay, well i met this boy he just turned 17 and i really like him, im only 14 and my parents say hes to old. my mom has met him, but they dont know that i like him, i have no idea how to tell them. They just wont understand because they think all we ...

My family doesn't approve of my boyfriend because he's of a different race!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - i have met and fallen in love with a guy, we dream of a future together, but inside my heart is breaking. I am caucasion, he is black. The problem seems to be with my father and brothers. They are all racist, so i am to scared to introduce m...

Is sex between siblings bad?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - i would like to know if sex between siblings, is bad or actually a taboo? and why? is it just because of society norms? is it because we have been born and educated with the thought that it is bad, even though we have experimented when we were kids? ...

Completely in love with my married boss, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - it is a long story i didn't no how to make it short.. and here it is. i am in love with my boss for 7 years now, as a kid i was the fifth after 4 sisters and had one brother who got all the attention, i went to a girls school, and had no real ...

My boyfriend proposed to me, but I have feelings for someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - I am committed since last 5 years, but just realized i was just fulfilling a commitment and am now in love with the other guy.Please help! I have always stick to the belief that i love the person in my life and i as a girl wanted to give him happ...

My boyfriend won't tell anyone I'm his girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

11 July 2010 (F) - My Turkish Boyfriend Keeps Me A Secret - What Should I Do? We've been together for 2years now and he wont tell anybody about me. He says he had fights with his family over his ex and thats why he wont. He is 30years old. I think if he loves ...

Found my faery tale but trying to live a dream

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 July 2010 (M) - The Situation: I found my friend from about 5-7 years ago. We were talking but nothing serious just catching up but i somehow caught feelings for him.(When i found him i was in washington and he is in new mexico) I am now in new mexico and we hung ...

How can I find out why this married man is ignoring me without seeming like a stalker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - I have had some emotional "issues" with a married man who has been my friend for 10 years, and because I felt i was falling for him hard I broke off our friendship (via e-mail). I told him I would not contact him anymore. The day after I e-mailed ...

How can I tell if my cousin likes me too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

9 July 2010 (M) - I have a crush on my cousin who is 16. Which is 3 years older than me. She is really beautiful and good in personality. I want to get closer to her but she has a brother at ny age who is a total maniac. Not the kind which burns himself but he is a ...

Am I doing wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - hi i m 16 n i hve a bf, say his name is John.We hve been dating for 3 mnths.I know that he loves me a lot and even i love him a lot but neither does my nor his parents know that we are dating .I m sure my parents wont allow me to see him anymore if ...

I want an affair with my sister-in-law and am in need of help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

7 July 2010 (M) - i m in affair with my sister in law (brithers wife) two year back we had sex togeather and we have been caught by our family after that i get married. We all family still live togeather. Now my problem is that after 2 years of my happily marriage ...

What to do when the person you're attracted to is already taken.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - Run the hell away. I've seen several questions of this nature on the site. It seems like a simple problem, although in reality it's not. It's complicated and messy, and almost always leaves one person's emotions in ruins while the other enjoys hav...

I left my husband, but now the guy I had feelings for won't see me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - I'm married (now separated). While still with my husband, I met a guy online who I knew years ago. We flirted with each other off and on for months. We didn't meet up because of my marriage. We still flirted and fantasized about being together. I ...

How do I start a relationship with my cousin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

6 July 2010 (M) - I have a cute cousin, I think she's sending messages. She likes to get close to me when we watch movies, she always dancing really hot when I visit and always likes to share what she does with her boyfriends( how they kiss etc...). Think I can at ...

Another girl's boyfriend is turning my head from my own boyfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - Im in a relationship but cant stop thinking about someone else! Ok so Ive been in a relationship for 8 months, its quite serious, and i believed he was 'the one' although now we are over the 'honemmon period' i can see cracks. he's very negati...

I want to know how my best friend's husband feels about me. What should I do?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

6 July 2010 (?) - I am currently married, and only have been for six months. My husband is loving and supportive, and we treat each other very well. Although we have a strong emotional relationship, I have never been interested in him sexually [we have sex, it's ...

Big crush on my husband's brother!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - My situation is really messed up. I am married and I do love my life but I am bored. I have a big crush on my brother in law and I think he feels the same about me. I told him my feelings but he hasn't told me in words whether he feels the same or ...

False Security In A Facebook Love Letter

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - Ok so there is a guy that I've liked for a while who is about 5 years older than me. I've been crushing on him for over a year now and he has already graduated and is going to a grad school elsewhere. since he is no longer attending the same uni...

Is this a good gift for a woman I care about but can't be with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

6 July 2010 (M) - Very soon it will be the birthday of someone who is really special to my heart. The story is extremely complicated so I will cut it short and say that it is almost impossible we'd ever be together, and however we hang out sometimes and I have good ...

I just want to know what to think....does he care?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - This Question is regarding an affair i am having with a married man,no judgements please.This affair has gone on for over 10yrs,we are both in our 60's now all children are grown up and married. What i am trying to work out is does this man have any...