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Archived questions from: July, 2009 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

How can I make this not hurt?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - heyy. my name is C******, and i am 15. okay here's my question. -i like to masterbate the same as everone else does. i only like rubbing my clit though. well everone else can go inside the hole, i cant. well i can but it hurts, why? help me ... ...

I'm 14 is that to young to be in love?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - OK so im 14 and recently I've been wondering if I can truly be IN love, because I think I might be. There was this guy and I liked him for quite a few years but nothing happened between us and I was beginning to think I'd never get over him, but ...

Forbidden love - I'm in love with a Muslim but my parents won't accept it! Help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - hi well im a mess at the moment. im in love with a Muslim man and i am christian, we have been with each other for 2 years and still my dad does not know. we come from a very religious family and everything is about respect, my dad asked me ...

He just wants to cuddle because of my age, but I want more.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I like this lad but i'm not sure if he likes me. He says he does but hes 18 and i am 14. He says if i was older he would defiantly date me. He says he doesn't want sex he just wants a loving relationship where he can just be with me cuddling me and ...

I keep having fantasies about my cousin, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - For the past 2 years, i keep thinking about my cousin. I like him soo much!! i have fantasies from dating to sex. He's my 3rd cousin and he was adopted. And everytime i see him, i get nervous and i always want to be around him. Sometimes, i catch ...

Sadly, I am in love with a woman, who is not my wife, but who I do love, what should I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - I am a 29 yr old guy with problems (obviously). I have been married to my wife for just shy of 1 year, though we have been together for over 7 years (met in college, first 2 yrs were not really serious yet). She is about a year younger than me. Five ...

I reported my teacher for 4 years of sexual touching and abuse, why did my deputy head shun me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I don't know if anyone will be able to help me with this, but i hope so. I had a teacher (Who is head of department and on the governing board for the school) who was extensively innappropriate with me over a period of 4 years. He used to touch me...

Do I start an affair with my student or keep it stricly professional?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Hi aunty, I have been following your forums for a while..I am 25 yr old female-single teacher,I teach Computers for 12th grade boys school in USA..I often were tight dresses and mini skirts to school, i have a decent figure as I am fitness freak!!! ...

I'm 15. He's 24. Mom says she's going to throw him in jail! Is that possible?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Im a 15 year old girl, dating a 24 year old guy. We've been dating for about a year. I know there is a really big age gap there. But we've never had sex, he has never pressured me into anything and the furthest we've gone is kissing. My mother found ...

Is it wrong for me to be in love with my first cousins son?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I have recently started dating my aunts sons son. We have totally fallen in love with each other and have a connection like non other I have ever felt with any guy in my entire life. I cannot even imagine the thought of not having him in my life ...

How do I break the link with this married man?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I'm 40 something married for 14 years and very much hopelessly in love with another man. I noticed him for the first time 3 years ago. Before then he was completely invisible to me in social settings with my husband. We collided while traveling to a ...

I want to continue my friendship with my teacher but I want it to work romantically too!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I love a teacher of mine. I wasn't even sure what the feeling was until my mom identified it. (I talk about him with her; my age difference with my teacher is the same as my mom's with my dad.) He's 12- 13 years older than me, but even so, we conn...

How do I tell my teacher to back off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - Im concerned that my drama teacher likes me in a kinda wrong way. I like her too but it'd wrong to have a relationship with her. Shes about 24 and shes all ways making inuendo with me. Started off as some good ol' fashioned crudeness now its just ...

Does the priest like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - ok so i think our parish priest likes me, idk what to do! every time i turn to look in his general location he always turns his head fast! help me i don't know whether to talk with him about it or not. we have a 3 1/2 hour car ride coming up to a ...

I love my teacher and I accept that we can't be, but I've moved and I miss him too much

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I know you've all heard this one a million times before, and I've searched this site for a possible answer to my worries, but I just can't seem to find one for me. I'm 15 years old and I live in the UK. Plus, I'm deeply in love with my teacher....

Legally we're related, but genetically we're not! I fancy her... what shall I do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - First off I'm gonna have to give you a little bit of background info, so please bear with me. I was put into a care home when I was about 2 and then adopted by a couple who couldn't have children of their when I was 7, I call them mum and dad and ...

My sister's boyfriend tried it on with me, and my sister doesn't believe me! Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - hey guys and gals,Ive Got A Major Problem. I think my sisters boyfriend likes me because i was sitting in the living room with my sister and her boyfriend. I wasnt really paying attention to them because i was txtin my bf. And She said she was going ...

In love with another girl.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - I have quite a few problems I'd like to sort out. I'll try to present them cohernetly, but they may get a bit muddled as they are sort of joined... To start with, I fell in love with this female teacher. I know it wasn't a crush or obsessio...

How do I get him to leave his wife for me?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - How can i get him to leave his wife for me? im 17 and hes 40 and really need ideas? he sees me whenever he can get away from his wife, and promises to take me shopping, and he calls me princess and beautiful, we have sex alot in his car, he has 2 ch...

I'm falling for my first cousin and knowledge of this would tear our families apart!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) - Hi all, I am wondering if you can help me? Recently, I have found myself falling for my first cousin,he is ideally everything I could ask for in a man. Im sure he likes me also, as he is just asked me out on a dinner date. Nobody knows about th...

I'm 22. She's 14 and has a crush on me. Is it legal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - Hi, a girl had a crush on me and she would like to have a relationship. She's only 14 y.o. while I'm 22. I never had sex before and she's attracted to me. Would it be legal with her? Thx...

I'm 17, she's 14, and I think her mum has the wrong idea about my motives for being with her!

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - hey i just turned 17 and im going out with a 14 year old girl, have been for about a week, is that weird? 2 years 8 months difference. i really like her though, but shes grounded for a month and i cant have any contact with her even txting. ...

Am I really in love with him or his cousin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Ok, so I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and it's been pretty serious. But recently he had a family reunion and I met his younger cousin and we just hit it off. Ever since I met him I can't stop thinking about him, we exchanged cell phone ...

He's not as rich or young as my family would like!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I'm in a relationship with a significate age difference (legal) and a very noticable class difference. If anyone has been in or is in either of these types of relationships, I'd would love any advice on making this easier. Being on the upperclass ...

What if teachers had crushes on their students?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

10 July 2009 (M) - Hello, all! I'm looking to hear from any teachers (female/male) out there or anyone.... Anyway... I've noticed that there are countless posts on this website of students declaring their love for teachers. What about if it was the other way ro...

I've been having an affair with my friend's 16 year old daughter, and now she may be pregnant!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

10 July 2009 (M) - Iam a married 40yr old who has been having an affair with my friends 16yr old daughter. She may now be pregnant and I think I love her. What should I do?...

Mistresses we need to stop!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - When are we going learn? I must of read about 50 stories about mistresses hoping their married lovers leave their wives, or why they are not calling. I was just someone's mistress myself for almost two years. One thing we all have in common is we ...

What can I tell my depressed friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - So yesterday i got a call from a friend she needed to see me at wrk. She shows up and said i did it. With a guy lets call Jake. He is lke 17 and she is 14. He has slept around a lil and so i ust put my hands over my face.Then she told me where on ...

How do I know if my teacher is flirting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - Hey, im 16 and i have a situation with my teacher.this year i had a teacher who sends me those same mixed signals and i dont know how to take that. in the beginning he treated me badly. i would come late and sleep alot but so did other students...

Help me get the strength to walk away from this ...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - Never in a million years would I thought I found myself in this situation. I've been divorced 2 years and although I've been dating here and there, never found anyone who found a connection with. On my birthday 4 months ago, i got crazy drunk ...

We have to see each other behind my parent's back. How can we make them accept us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - I'm am 16 years old and have a confusing relationship with a 21 year old. When our strange relationship started we talked about what we would do because of the age difference. We both wanted to let our parents know about us however we were scared ...

I don't want to be asking myself ten years later "What if?.." I want to know.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) - In 2005, I was fourteen when I met a man who soon became my everything, basically my whole world. He was forty-two, engaged to be married, and was also my history teacher. So you see, he was out of reach in more ways than one! Well, we've gr...

Is my teacher sending signs or is it just my imagination??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - 1) He was sitting down with his legs wide open and I couldn't pass. He looked up and smiled. Then, after a few seconds, he moved his legs and let me pass. 2) Very often, he keeps eye contact; once he was gazing at me so much that he lost concentr...

My life is a wreck! I'm in love with my husband's brother...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - Not sure what to do or how to move on from this? I've been married to a wonderful man for almost 3 years, together for 6. We have 3 beautiful kids. Problem is, I've been in love with his brother for a long time now. He is also married and we have ...

Please help...I don't have the strength to leave my married man.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I am having a relationship with a married man and have been seeing over 11 years now. i have made up my mind to leave him but he is the source of my family and i up keep. what should i do cause i dont have the strenght to leave, i am feeling ...

Is there anyone that can explain my dream to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

5 July 2009 (M) - I had a weird dream the other day. See i have just finished school, and i am sad that we have left it, the thing im most sad about is leaving my form tutor she was amazing and im going to miss her deaply. Anyway in this dream last nigh...

My cousin and I want a baby, what is the next step?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - me and my causin had sex withot comdoms and sometimes we use them but we love so mush each other and we want to be together doing our lifes together and we have thinking about having a baby but we are worried that the baby its going to have bad ...

I cry because I miss my teacher so much! How can I take my mind of it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - Hey. I've recently posted about a crush on a teacher. Well. He has gone to India a while ago and I really miss him. I won't see him for another eight weeks because of summer holidays and the remanded of when he is in India. So I'll only see hi...

I'm pregnant, but I don't want him to get in trouble.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - I am 15 and I'm pregnant with my boyfriend that is four years older than me i need help i don't want him to go to jail i live in florida he wants to be there for me and the baby and he plans to marry me i love him to death is there anything i can ...

I think my cousin remembers but is afraid to admit it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - Well... Where to start? My cousin and I had sexual encounters when we were young. We gave each other back rubs or as we called it fratching. I stole 2 pairs of her panties in high school. Then was caught with them. 3 times I felt and fingered her ...

My teacher moved to Chicago and I miss him...I think I love him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - I need help,I think I might love my teacher, but he is the same gender as I am. I thaought at first I didn't because I liked this girl,but now were just good friends. Since summer is over,I miss him a lot since he move to chicago and he is my ...

Does my cousin care about me or did she just want sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - hey I am 16teen years of age an i need to hear what you think.i have this cousin .She and i are well close friends.here's the story.we had to go to our uncles wedding and me and her were at the back of her mom's car and we were talking.she asked me ...

Free shot: What's wrong with me? Am I a dirty secret?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - We met, talked, fell in love - (happens when you're not looking for love). I was 39 (divorced, kids not with me) she was 23. I lived on the other side of the country. Long distance was a pain, but we made it work and saw each other as often as ...

I'm attracted to my b/f's father -- would it be wierd for me to date him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I am 19 years old, in college, and I've been in a relationship with a boy I met about 4 months ago. Recently (a month ago) I met his single father and he's really attractive to say the least. We had a discussion while my boyfriend was in the shower ...

I have to forget about my counselor...how can i?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I'm fifteen and last week I attended this church camp that I've been going to every summer for 7 years. But, this year, I met this new counselor who's 20 and I really liked him. Now that I'm home I really really miss him. Like, I just can't stop ...