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writes:I have this problem I like my cousin more than family and I have for two years now, I think she likes me to but I don't know for sure I know what your thinking that's incest but you see I don't consider all of my family as family I care about but if I had to say I care about five people in my family. Her being one of the five and no matter what I try I cant stop thinking about her I don't know why but when ever I'm around her or thinking of her I'm happy for no reason at all its just from being with her or if I think of her so I don't know what else to do besides tell her I like her to get it out of my mind I don't care if she likes me back or not I just want to get it off my chest so I need advice on how to tell her any advice is helpful so please help me out thanks. p.s. shes two years younger than me
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reader, Altair1124 +, writes (3 August 2010):
I'm in the same situation except my cousin asked me to marry her. She makes my happy and we are very deeply in love with each other. I say go for it let me know how this goes if you ever need to talk about this again just ask me I understand completely :)
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reader, krunkqueen  +, writes (30 July 2010):
there are so many women in this world why would you even consider your cousin?? honestly its kind of gross but if you feel the need to tell her then go for it but dont be hurt if she to thinks this is strange
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2010): Well, I think most people have felt the lure of attraction to cousins close in age. Because you're cousins, that settles an automatic feeling of bonding which (coupled with hormones) can cause you think that it's love or something. Now, if you're second cousins, that's more accepted as the genetic link is less. But first cousins...if you were to get in relationship, your family would be devasted, you'd be breaking the law, and you'd be taking a HUGE gamble in having children as you share a lot of the same genes so they're more likely to inherit various family diseases and ailments. If you feel you have to tell her, consider how awkward it might get between you two if she doesn't like you back. Think this through, is your friendship with her worth putting in peril? Take some time away from her, date other girls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2010): I think your hormones are very high and your way in over your head.I know you thought somewhere deep down in your heart, that you know that it is wrong to have thoughts or want your cousin like that. In reallity i cant stop or convince you to not do it so the best thing for me to say is to find someone that is like your cousin.
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