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Archived questions from: May, 2011 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

Is it ok for my ex-bf, who is married now, to help me find a job?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

31 May 2011 (F - My ex boyfriend, who is a married man now, is helping me to find a job abroad. He lives in another country. Sometimes he has written to me that he feels sorry for me not living there. He said I hope you and your family are doing well in these ...

Why did my friend go ballistic on me after we slept together and I asked if we could more than friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

26 May 2011 (M - I slept with my very close friend of 7 years, and wondered if it was a start point to go further. I got the courage to ask and was expecting a sad no, hoping for an excited yes. I wasn't expecting the complete embarrassing rejection that i...

The girl my cousin is dating likes me! What do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

26 May 2011 (F - Today I found out my cousin's fling likes me and my cousin is really depressed and I want to talk to her about it, but I don't know how. I feel really bad because my girlfriend told me she liked me but I thought she was being paranoid. I also want ...

I am still in love with my adopted cousin 25 years later

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

25 May 2011 (M - When I was 17 I had an affair with my 15 yearold addopted cousin. Before anything happened between us I was always excited to learn my family was going to visit with hers as I always had a crush on her. I obvisouly could not tell her or anyone for ...

After years of a sexless marriage my eye is beginning to wander

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

24 May 2011 (M - OK, here's my situation. I have a good marriage of 12 years and a nine year old son. In the last 9 years my wife has not made love to me except for two times, even though every other part of the marriage works. Even after surviving SERIOUS cancer ...

In love with my cousin, but I have a boyfriend too

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

24 May 2011 (F - i had a crush on my cousin since i was a child..until he told me he loved me..we had sex two days after he told me how he felt.i really ,really love him.but i also have a boyfrend..nd besides both our families will not approve if we decide to ...

We had the discussion about my feelings for him, but I still wonder if he cares. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

23 May 2011 (F - I'm in love with my teacher. Yes, yes, i know what you will tell me... But let me tell you my own story frankly. I'm not English first of all, got an excuse for my bad english haha. i live in a far away country. i'm 22 years old and it's my first ye...

I love my brother in law!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

23 May 2011 (F - I am in love with my brother-in-low but he dont know, i text him and i told him about my feeling but he say that am fooling him .and on the other hand my husband is kind and lovely and my brother-in-low told me how can i fall in love with him and ...

I love my first cousin. is this wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

22 May 2011 (F - what am i going to do, im madly in love with my first cousin..we first felt this special connection when he went home on the Philippines when we were just 14, one night when we were both sleeping on the same bed, he just kissed me and i got so ...

Is my teacher flirting with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

20 May 2011 (F - I'm just curious but...is my teacher just a big flirt? I've been in his class for two years, I always stop by his room before school starts to say hi, chat or to study. He poked my arm at times and jokes with me. I know a lot about him and he knows ...

I''m falling for my boyfriends friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

18 May 2011 (F - I'm falling for my boyfriends friend, what do I do? He gives me more attention then my boyfriend does!...

What are the rules about second cousins getting married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 May 2011 (F - So my 2nd cousin and I finally admitted our feelings for each other. I fell completely for him. we both love each other and we plan on getting married here soon in the next couple years. I truly love him but I'm afaird what other people will say i ...

Did my married lover ever really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4697 days ago

17 May 2011 (F - Does my married man really love me? I also involved with a married man for almost over a year. we were ex-coworkers. At the very beginning we are just friends, I have no feelings for him at all. however, I had problem with my own marriage, was th...

What should I do? Her mother and my father are second cousins. So that makes us third cousins? Where is it ok to draw the line?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 May 2011 (M - I have a dilemma. One of my cousins lives about 45 minutes away from my home town. We see each other every now and then at family reunions, (maybe 2 or 3 times a year), and have always gotten along great.  About a week ago, she emailed me sayin...

How do you end an affair when you are "the other guy"?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

15 May 2011 (M - I posted a question similar to this one a while back, but I can't seem to motivate myself to end this, even though my mind is saying enough is enough! I've been involved with a married woman for a couple of years now, and I don't feel like I live in ...

Are the things she says hints that she really likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

15 May 2011 (F - so i'm trying to get a read on this girl who i've been the best of friends with for years. she's living with and dating someone else, but i still believe there may be some hidden meaning behind the things she says to me. and let me go ahead and say ...

Why am I still so attracted to him when I know he is a cheat and a liar?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

13 May 2011 (? - I have completely fallen for the wrong guy. He is a liar and a cheat. How do I know this? Because he sent my best friend to the other side of the world. She, like i, had a crush on him. When they were going out, she said he was amazing. But it ...

I can't tell if my boss likes me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

13 May 2011 (F - I can't tell if my boss likes me or not. Sometimes he'll stare into my eyes and hold long contact (I usually break). He stands very close to me, but I notice he stands close to others at work but maybe a little closer to me. He's very helpful (I ...

I think my best friend is mad that I'm dating her ex! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

13 May 2011 (F - My friend and I have known each other since we were like 7 or 8. I started to really like one of her ex-boyfriends. I asked her how mad she would be, on a scale from 1 to 10, if I liked him. She said about a 2, and told me she wouldn’t care if I ...

I love my wife but I am attracted to her sister too...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

12 May 2011 (M - Hi, I have been married for 13 years and have a wonderful wife and 3 kids. During this time I have always loved my wife, but have always loved her sister as well, but kept this info to myself. On a scale from one to ten, I would say that they ar...

My co-workers flirting is driving me crazy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4705 days ago

10 May 2011 (F - I'm falling for a mate of mine , we both flir with each other a fair bit and like to have a joke around .. Thing is I've just found out from another collegue that he's got a girlfriend , but thing is hes still really flirty and continues to be re...

My family won't approve of my bf, who is of a different race than me. Should I continue hiding it from them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

8 May 2011 (F - So iv been dating this guy for a while now , we are truly happy with each other but we not the same race !! To him and I race is definitely NOT a issue - His coloured and I'm white! My dad doesnt know that we seeing each other, the rest of my f...

Torn between husband who is good provider but cold, & poor but affectionate bf. Help!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

8 May 2011 (F - I live with my sons dad and I have another boyfriend on the side, but I'll explain..my sons dad is 55 and he never--I mean never--touches me, hugs kisses or has sex with me and it's been 2 years. However he thinks we should be together for the sake ...

I think my married teacher is having an affair with another teacher! Can I intervene??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

8 May 2011 (F - So I am madly crushing on my teacher. Don't worry this isn't one of those stupid "should I tell him!?" questions. I know he'll never reciprocate my feelings and I never plan to tell him and I am perfectly comfy with him not knowing and liking him ...

The guy I have finally fallen in love with...has a girlfriend! How do I deal with this??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

8 May 2011 (F - This situation is tearing me up inside, and I am probably going to be judged for my words but I don't have anyone here I can talk to about it! What do you do when you have been in unrequited love a series of times, finally find someone, fall fo...

Will the man I had an affair with ever forgive me for breaking his heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

7 May 2011 (? - Ok I made a mistake, had an affair and fell in love. I realised my mistake and made a final decision to end all contact for the sake of my partner and daughter whom I love deeply. The thing is I keep dreaming about the ex dreams where I am ...

My bf still chats with his exes, even though it makes me upset. Am I right in letting this bother me so much?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

6 May 2011 (F - Hi, I'm in a troubled spot. I'm dating a great guy and we're perfect except... He still talks to his exes. Once or twice things got slightly inappropriate... with one ex, he made a few comments that were sexual--not directed at them having sex, ...

My neighbour kissed me. We're both married. What do I do now??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

6 May 2011 (F - My neighbour kissed me tonight. We are both married and I am scared to death. It was just a flirty teasing relationship, but now I'm just freaked out. We both find each other very attractive and it's difficult to "act normal". I can see this ...

I don't want to be interested in my professor.... but I am! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

5 May 2011 (F - I recently have been working very closely with a professor at my University. During our long research periods, we have become very close and flirt like crazy. There are two problems here: 1) The obvious teacher/student thing could get him in troub...

I need a solution. I'm having an affair with my sister-in-law and don't know how to stop.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

5 May 2011 (M - So here it goes. I am a married man and have a beautiful loving and caring wife and six months old son too. She loves me a lot and usually we talk over phone for hours in the night before going to bed (Since from last three months I am out of town). ...

I cannot stop this horrible feeling that he only wants me for sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

4 May 2011 (F - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year and we both come from a strict religion where dating and sex outside of marriage is forbidden. My siblings and his know that we are seeing each other and so do our friends but I haven't met his and ...

Have you ever been in a secret relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

4 May 2011 (? - had been in a secret relationship with my current boyfriend for a year now we announced our relationship in september 2010 so people think we are approachign 6 months together when it is just over a year. we are expecting our first child together ...

I am in love with my psychiatrist. Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

3 May 2011 (F - Hi I am in love with my psychiatrist and I dont know what to do. I am tired of waiting but he smiled so much at me last time and looked so flirty. When I tell him i want to leave country he tells me to stay etc. On the other side I want to give u...

I have never had a BF because I always fall for married men. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

3 May 2011 (F - i'm 25 years of age, a girl. no boyfriend since birth and i don't know why. every guy i met told me that i'm beautiful and a bit shocked that i haven't got any boyfriends at all, but i don't know why i am always attracted to "attached guys" ...

I love my English teacher so much.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4697 days ago

2 May 2011 (F - I'm only 15 years old and he is 26. Seriously i can't stop thinking about him. I miss him so much. I'm pretty confused as to how to make him love me. I always wear short skirt and tiny clothes in dress up when i come to his class. please help me?...

Should I forget this flame and stick to my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

2 May 2011 (F - Me and a certain very shy guy had a thing for eachother for a couple years. More of an unspoken spark for eachother. Finally last summer he spoke up and asked why we had never dated. We talked about the whole relationship and we agreed we wouldn't ...

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