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Archived questions from: December, 2007 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

Still in love with my first love. Can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 206 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - Too make a long story short. I am still in love with my ex. We have a 5 yr history but our relationship only lasted 11 months because of his family and my church family not approving. He has a baby on the way but his girlfriend doesn't do anything ...

His parents aren't happy because our familes are from different backgrounds. What can we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - Hi, I am currently having problems with my boyfriend. Basically, im not sure if im over reacting on an issue that has come up. Me and my partner come from different backgrounds. Im white british and he is british asian. I knew when we started ...

Teachers and students. What is going on with mixed answers?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - Any students out there who are in love with their teachers. This one is for you. As I am one myself... I posted this question 5 days ago. In search of an answer as to why there seems to be different advice for male and female posters on many ...

I fancy my husband's nephew, and he reciprocates, nothings happened, what should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - My husband and I move in with his relatives and his nephew already caught my eye, like an instant casting spell. True this is not a good sign...but the plot thickens or the sexual tension or chemistry is there. Sure the nephew comes around more oft...

My husband has molested our daughter for years. What should I do now?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I would like your opinion on this serious issue. I was in bed with my husband over 20 years ago when my daughter, then aged about 2, climbed into be between us. After some time, I noticed my husband was getting aroused and I thought he was masturba...

Should I move on or follow my heart and wait??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Hey:) Heres whats up. I'm 15 and im in love with a guy 29, he's not a teacher or nothin either. I met him when I was 12 yrs old but I didnt think much of him I was just starting to get into boys my own age. When I turned 13 I started getting ...

He is twice my age and my brother made a huge buzz yelling at him and everybody at his work. Now I'm afraid to go near him but I miss him and can't stop thinking of him, what shallI do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - im a girl;; im not saying my name. I'm 14 years old and I have already fallen in love with a 24 year old. Yes, it's sick but i dont know.. there's something about him. He works at a restaraunt and my mom noticed I had been going there alot... she ...

I'm intrigued by my female teacher but I'm not gay, so what is going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 209 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - So heres the deal im 15 and my teachers 40. I dont know if its infatuation or developing into love but sometimes the way she looks at me or approaches me I could really have a chance with herbut then other times I know its impossible. Im thinking ...

I'm attracted to my colleague, what can I do to stop the feelings that I have towards him and keep our relationship strictly professional?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - I am currently a young, free and single female. I work in a job where I am paired up with one person at a time for long periods, ie 6 moths or often longer at a time. I have always had good relationships with my colleagues but for the past four ...

I'm seriously attracted to a married, female co-worker and she is constantly wanting my attention, how do I handle this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 91 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - I've got a huge problem. I find myself seriously attracted to a married,female co-worker. To say she is the woman of my dreams is an understatement. It would also appear that she has feelings for me. I am trying to do the right thing and just be her ...

I'm in love with my step brother. We didn't grow up up together and I didn't meet him till I was 20.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - This seems weird but I think I'm in love with my X stepbrother. We didn't grow up together and didn't meet him till I was 20 and we only talked, at first, once a year on Christmas. My step dad died 6 years ago and miss him dearly!! We just ...

Complete double standard. Guys get support, girls get lectured when in love with teachers, why is this??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - This is a general question really... I am in love with my teacher. I am female and he is male. But i have been on several sites looking for advice on this problem. and EVERY single time i have found a male student fancying a female teacher there se...

How to control an obsession and depression due to a forbidden love? Does any one understand what I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - I am married, total time together 10 years. We have a beautiful and sweet 9 months old daughter. Unfortunately, right after stoping the pills to get pregnant I fell madly in love with a younger guy from work, it was 2 years ago. We never touched. ...

I'm obsessed with my teacher, it's affecting everything, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - Hiya! Now i know i wrote about this not that long ago but now, its only gotten worse! Im now fully 600% in love with my female teacher, She ignores me, Tries her ultimate hardest not to talk to me, And if she has to - its quick and painful. ...

I am dating my step neice but scared about our family finding out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

26 December 2007 (M) - my step niece and i are very close in a relationship and we are so crazy about each other! i don't know what to do either because they will disown us if they find out. i've never been so happy in my life! what should I do?...

I am in love with my step niece. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

25 December 2007 (M) - My step niece and I are very close in a relationship and we are so crazy about each other! I don't know what to do because the families will disown us if they find out. I've never been so happy in my life! Please tell me what I can do it would ...

Should I continue having an affair or be sexually stressed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 209 days ago

25 December 2007 (M) - I have been married for 7 years. Both of us are 33. I love my wife a lot and she is very good wife to me. We have two kids. However, our sex life is almost dead. In most cases once in two or three months. I have high sexual derive and sexually ...

Should I tell my forbidden love how I feel??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

24 December 2007 (M) - I'm a 17(soon to be 18)year old guy and i'm in love with a 16 year old girl i have been in love with her for three years not a day has gone by that i havent thought about her i have recently been talking to her through the computer and she has a bf ...

We are in love but my parents won't agree to our relationship. What should I do, marry him anyway or forget him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - i love a guy and he too loves me a lot,but my parents wont agree for our relationship, due the circumstances he is telling let us forget and marry the person our parents like. how should i react and wat should i do. should i marry him or forget...

I have a crush on my teacher and I think he knows...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 63 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - Hiiii xx First off, I'm a 15 year old chick. I kind of have a crush on my grade nine math teacher (I'm in grade ten now.)I won't go into details, but at the beginning of this year he was fine with me, and nowadays he seems to be avoiding me and ...

We're just friends. She wants us to be more, but I don't. She's coming to a dinner party tomorrow, what can I do to show her I'm just a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 215 days ago

23 December 2007 (M) - Hi everybody, it's Andy. I'm in a slightly uncomfortable situation. I know in the past I have posted questions regarding my ex-girlfriend, and how I feel like love will not come my way for a long time, but it's questions like this one that will pr...

Me and my cousin are in love and thinking of moving out of state.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - I've fallen in love with one of my cousin, and we are thinkin about moving out of state so we can really be together,what should we do?...

I stopped seeing my cousin but now he's back and I'm feeling that sexual connection again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - Ok..I love/like my cousin..but he has a girlfriend(she look like a boy but still she's cute.) I am 16, and he's like 18. We had a secret relationship umm I believe I was 14 then..We never had sexual intercourse but we have done alot of other se...

Progressing a student/teacher relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - when I was in 8th grade, 13 years old, I became extremely close with my teacher. He was always there for me and I spent a lot of free time with him. I truly admired/still admire him and I have very strong feelings for him. It's years later and I ...

I feel I'm betraying my best friend because I fell in love with her bf. If I distance myself, they will be suspicious, so which is teh best solution?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - hey..im kind of new here but there is a question i gotta ask to solve cause i feel so painful.. I fell in love with a guy and that guy happened to be my "Bestest sister in the world"'s boyfriend. Can someone help me? Tell me what to do?! Im...

I can't see why my parents won't accept my boyfriend only because he used to go out with my sister. She has gone away to have their child with another man anyway, so what's the problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - I'm 15 and am currently dating an 18yr old boy. But my family wont accept him because he is going to be the father of my sisters baby. I started sleeping with him when she was with him but then she caught us and dumped him. She's also moved away to ...

I have pretty big feelings for my guidance counselor. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

21 December 2007 (F) - Okay so i really like my guidance counselor, ALOT im 14 and he is somewhere in his thirties. i talk to him the most, and he as said before im his favorite. i find him so sexy, but no one else does. today he gave me a hug, which basically made my ...

We were supposed to meet up for sex and she never showed. But I have her purse and important papers. Whats going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

20 December 2007 (M) - dear cupid i met this woman that approached me named brook. we talked for about a week then we spent the night together (no sex). the next night we had sex. after that she told me that she was married but seperated and geting a divorce. anyway, she ...

Yes, I love my teacher.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - I'm in love with a teacher at my school. I don't know what to do, because I've told too many people and he's probably going to find out. I don't want to get over him. He's so nice and... I just don't know what to do. His wife is my French teache...

I have a crush on my TA. Should I email him and tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - Over fall quarter, I developed a major crush on one of my TAs. Winter break has just started and I'm debating on whether or not I should email him and tell him that I have a crush on him. We got along pretty well throughout the quarter, but would it ...

I'm in love with a married man!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - I am a 17 year old and I'm in love with one of my 30 year old managers...We've been seeing each other for a while...we've even had sex. But there is one problem he is married and has 2 kids of his own. I really want our relationship and love to ...

Student and teacher flirtations...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - Hey! Well im slightly puzzled and annoyed at the fact that so many people on the site always say us girlies - omg! u will mkae him loose his job this that and the next thing, or that we are totally imaginin things that are there and there is no wa...

I love my God brother, is this wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 209 days ago

16 December 2007 (F) - i loved my god brother. i know we cannot have any relationship but i don't know to stop my feeling toward him. is it a mistake for loving our own god brother? i kept thinking of him day and night. i even sometimes thought him as my bf. what shou...

My teacher said "there are things inside he cannot mention during classes" and I think he referred to having a crush on me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

16 December 2007 (F) - well one year ago i noticed that my teacher at college is having a crush on me and i noticed that from his way of looking at me and smiles and sometimes he says things during the course which hint to me like once he said "there are things inside ...

I am a married woman falling in love with my lover, what should my next move be?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

16 December 2007 (F) - i have been married for 12 years there has been nothing between my husband and i for about 2 years and I have been having an affair for the past 12 months with a man who is also in a relationship. Iam falling in love with my lover and think he has ...

I still have feelings for my first love, and I've heard she has feelings for me too, but she has a boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

16 December 2007 (M) - hey i been thinkin alot recently and its about an old girlfriend of mine that i broke up with bout a year ago now n she has a new boyfriend now but i hav heard from my best mate.. hu is also her best mate that she still has strong feelings for me n ...

I feel so depressed and I have feelings for my teacher, and I can't tell my Mum

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

15 December 2007 (F) - hi i have depression and used to hurt myself bit i dont anymore. im on medication for my depression but it still doesnt seem to be getting much better, i think it has made my anxiety worse aswell. my mum knows about it but i cant bring myself to ...

I have feelings for my TA and he seems to reciprocate them, but he is in a relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

15 December 2007 (F) - First of all, he's my TA. We are both in our early to mid 20s, so age isn't too much of a factor. I've also been getting very high A's in the class, so grades don't make a difference either. I've always thought he was cute, but didn't start getting ...

I feel like my teacher is flirting with me, I've had a crush on him for a while now

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

15 December 2007 (F) - I'm a junior in high school and I've had a crush on a teacher since my freshman year. He's always looked at me and been nice to me, but now he seems like he's going out of his way to see me and talk to me. During his prep period and my off period he ...

I was in love with my teacher when I kissed my classmate as a result of Truth or Dare, now I am confused about how I feel. Do I tell my mate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

14 December 2007 (F) - hi i really need help as im so confused. it all started on tuesday in physics i was bored so i said randomly lets play truth or dare it went around the table then someone ask me truth or dare and i said dare and my friend said kiss (lets call him ...

I want to end the attraction for my own mother. Please help, I'm ashamed of myself.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

13 December 2007 (F) - hi guys i'm a guy and just turned 16 last month i live with my mom after my parents divorced i have a problem which i can't tell anyone, i'm attracted to my mom sexually. it's been 2 years now i love going through her underwear, smilling, playing...

My best friend (16) is pregnant with my Maths teacher's baby... What should I do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

13 December 2007 (F) - omg! iv just found out that my best friend is pregnant with my maths teachers baby. this has come as a complete shock to me because i had no idea theyd even slept together! shes really worried cos her parents will just freak out n shes also really ...

Could my french teacher fancy me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

13 December 2007 (M) - I'm 15 and I have a crush on my french teacher. A friend of mine told her and she went red in the face. Now she knows everytime I look at her she quickly looks in the opposite direction but she stares at me constantly when I don't look at her. Do ...

Her Grandma is trying to break us up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

13 December 2007 (M) - I m in love with lady who is having my sweet son, the problem is her both parents are passed away and her grandmother she don't like me without a reason, I am afraid if i lose her she will suffer as she is unemployed what do do?...

Desperate for Answers!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 73 days ago

12 December 2007 (F) - I'm facing huge dilema, although it may not seem so huge to some, but I can't figure out how to get over it. It all started out as innocent fling/crush type of thing. My friends and I were always talking about how great our teacher is, an...

I'm in love with my first cousin.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

11 December 2007 (M) - Im an 18 year old South Asian male. Cousin marriages are legal (traditionally and religiously) and quite common in my country and even in my family. I love my 16 year old first cousin (daughter of my father's sister), I had a crush on her around 3 ...

I've got a crush on my boss--really need help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

9 December 2007 (F) - Hello Am looking for advice. I have a major crush on my boss and am alienating others cos of it. I keep making a fool out of myself even though i know he is gay and even if he wasn't he wouldn;t want me. What can I do to get him out of my head? ...

"I can't get over my teacher" question...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

9 December 2007 (M) - Hello I'm writing to you because I have a huge crush on my teacher. I also think she has a crush on me. She's always staring at me even when i don't speak and she always drops her pencil in front of me and bends down to get it. I don't know if she ...

We love each other and I know she is not happy where she is, but can I really ask her to brake up a 7 year relationship to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 229 days ago

9 December 2007 (M) - i really like this girl and hav recently foind out she feels the same she is engaged and has 3 children so it would mean breaking up a 7 year relationship but i no she's not happy what do i do?...

What can I do about my love for my boss??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

9 December 2007 (F) - Hi everyone. Im very depressed and hurting. I am in love with a guy I mostly likely stand no chance with. You see he is one of my bosses at the place where I work. He is a few years older than me and im pretty sure he single. I dont know him well...