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Archived questions from: June, 2009 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

He told me he was divorced now I want him to leave his wife for me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I know your all gonna call me bad names but its so hard, i really like him and miss him loads, when i met him he told me he was divorced and i deserve a nice rich boyfriend and said he would fit that category, hes a lawyer and gets paid a fair ...

Any advice for a 16yr old dating a 37yr old married man?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I am 16 years old.. and my boyfriends is around 37 years old and he has 2 kids and he is also married.... He is my coach in table tennis when i was in high school, we bond together, we go out together as friends.... yet unfortunately, as the yime...

Should I have a lesbian affair?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I am a married, female, 40 years old with children. I've known I was gay since college, but have always hid it and have never been with a woman before. I recently met a woman who is also in a relationship with another man. I am almost positive ...

Can I ever get out of this tangled mess he created?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - Hello there. I'm a 29-year-old married man with 2 kids. I've been having an affair with my father-in-law for the past month in secret. He instigated this affair, and I agreed to it - we were both drunk at the time watching a game of socce...

My mom learned about problems with my b/f; I want my family to just let me make my own decisons

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - My mom is usually laid back, she doesn't let me get away with everything, but a fair amount of things, she would never tell me who i could and could not be friends or, or who i could or could not date.. until my boyfriend came along, i made a ...

I feel more for my younger boss than my husband!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I have been obsessed with another man who happens to be my boss and 12 years younger. He is funny, good looking and sexy. He doesn't feel the same way about me. He is married with 3 children. My husband is disabled and our marriage is having ...

Why can't I say no to my boss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - im seeing my boss.. we are very close first he kissed me i said stopped it cos he was gettin married he kissed me again and i went with it after a year i told him i fallen in love with him we had a heart to heart he said he would never leave his ...

I'm chinese and my bf is indian, parents would disown me if I married him. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I am Chinese and I've been dating my secret indian bf of nearly 2 years . I told my parents about two years ago (I'm 21 now) that I was in love with him and my dad threatened to disown me. So I said I would think about and deal with it myself and ...

Is it just the attention from another male that makes me feel well?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - This is going to sound horrible.. and I already feel like I know the responses I will recieve.. but here I go. Long story short, my friend and I went out drinking one nite.. met sum guys, talked for about 3 hours and the one guy and I made out for a ...

I fell in love with a guy who is my long lost brother and I had no idea about it! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - you might think this is a bit weird but i feel so down! about 14 months ago i was in a nighclub with my girl friends, we had a really good night, and i pulled lol, i met this really funny, drop dead gorgeous guy! and we got on really well. we went ...

Is it normal to be attracted to your boyfriend's friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - i have a boyfriend of 6 months whom i love and he loves me back , thing is lately i have found myself a bit attracted to a friend of mine , that friend i have known for 3 months only and we have hell alot in common and i understand him when we talk ...

I'm addicted to him so should I move in with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Iam 16 i have been sleeping wit this 34yr old.hes divorced and have no kids.to me only thing we have good wit eachother is sex but hes talkin bout me moving in wit him oncw i turn 18.mi body is addicted 2 him so i never tell him diffrent.but how can ...

How should I end my affair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I am at a cross road with this affair I've been involved in for the last seven months. He's married to a woman who lives in another country. He's with her now until he returns home next week. He's a very well known in many religious circles. I love ...

I'm hurt because the married man I'm seeing thinks I'm pressuring him into a relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been seeing this married guy for 6years and we were together all the time. we started out the best of friends and then it turned into love on my part, I love this guy so much, everytime I ask him about a permanent relationship he reminds ...

I hate it when he has to go to his wife! It's like he never has time for me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Im 18 and hes 40 and where having an affair, i hate it when he has to go to his wife, help? First of all he told me got divorced at christmas and he was 2 kids who are 3 and 7 who live with the mum, then he finally admited he was still married an...

Is it good to be friends with a married colleague?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I met a colleague at work, he was cute and cool to me he told me he lived alone and had a son who lived in another city. He flirted a bit with me and I thought he maybe was divorced or something so I did try to know him better, he looked really ...

I have deep feelings for my cousin...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - hi... I dont know where to start im in a really bad situation and its horrible and wrong and i dont know how to get this sorta thing out of my head and how to help make it better.... so The story... 4 years ago i met my 2nd cousin, I started ...

In love with my older cousin, what can I do to get over him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I am in love with my cousin after he broke up with me and started dating another girl. He's 3 years older than me. I love him. No matter what I try, I can't seem to get over him. What do I do?...

I need to keep the spark!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 149 days ago

26 June 2009 (M) - Im in love wit my bosses daughter we've been together for over 6 month now n were having problems I need help to keep our relationship from losing it spark, how can I do that?...

I'm lost and heartbroken that her parents are making her marry someone else!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

26 June 2009 (M) - We were in love for the past 10 years,we are from different religions and now my girlfriends parents are forcing her to get married to someone, she really cant go against her parents wish and wants us to call off our relationship.Its been 10 years ...

I want to do something for my teacher... but what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - I need help people!!! I'm in love with my special needs teacher, this has been going on for a while now. And I just graduated from high school, She is soooo incredibly sexy! And so nice to me. When we first met we didn't get along very well, but ...

Can this relationship work even though he slept with his sister?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together since the seventh grade. We will be entering tenth grade in the fall. When I first saw him, I was head over heels. I did everything to get his attention, and then one day, he sat beside me in class and passed...

We are both married but realize we are meant to be together! How should I proceed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - I am currently NOT HAPPILY married because we are not compatible...big mistake to get married too soon...Just recently I was contacted by someone that met me 15 years ago and thought I was THE ONE...and had tried to get to know me more but my ...

I am wanting opinions from people! Should our relationship be kept secret?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - I am 16 and my girlfriend is 13. We've been together for around 4 months but we've known each other for years. She's really mature for her age and I must say she's f*****g Beautiful! I've known that she's liked me quite a lot for a long time but ...

I'm bisexual and I'm not sure I want to have sex with my girlfriend. How can I overcome this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - I'm a female bisexual, currently dating a girl. We've been going out for around 4 months. I care about her alot, but I end up in some bad situations with an unavailable guy. I haven't done anythhing I would count as cheating (yet). I haven't had sex ...

My Land Lady is Flirting with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

24 June 2009 (M) - hi aunty, Well last few days have been a roller coaster for me.I am a mid 20's guy staying by my self in a small apartment. As per the rules and regulations of the apartments contract,alcohol is not allowed.. But I still do bring beer from...

Me and my obsessive adopted brother....

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

23 June 2009 (?) - me and my adopted brother are in love with each other. Is that weird? Is it considered as incest? last week, we had our first sex with each other. Its just that, i feel wrong and im scared if my parents found out. Its not easy to just end our ...

I wonder if he was a pedophile, or was it my fault...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I was 17 when it happened, I was lonely and a male teacher in his late 40s (who gave out many hugs to me and other students) started touching me a little too much. I felt a little uncomfortable at first, as his hands lingered on my waist each tim...

I am 19 I have been seeing my boss since I was 17

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - i am 19 i have been seeing my boss since i was 17..the first time he kissed me i stopped it and said you have a fiance he said sorry but done it again and it led to something else i told him i love him he said it straight he wont leave his wife but ...

My neighbor will finally settle down but with MY daughter!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I apologize in advance for this is a rather long message. I'm a forty-six year old, married mother of four adults. My family and I moved to this area eleven years ago when my youngest child was eight years old. Our next-door neighbor was twe...

I feel like moving away from all friends I've known and starting a life with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - I dunno what the hell to do. Me and my friends girlfriend have liked eachother for well over a year now and no one knows. Wev spoken about it in the past and brushed it to one side because it would be to messy and we dont want to hurt anyone. ...

Is this wrong of me to keep thinking of my coach?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

20 June 2009 (F) - So my team and I just finished up our season a couple weeks ago and I've had mixed emotions sense then about some things (mainly about my coach). I really enjoyed being on his team this year and he made it so much fun for me, personally. ...

I need some advice to be mature and sensible about this so that nobody gets hurt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

20 June 2009 (M) - Hi, I would really appreciate some help please. I've fallen for somebody who already has a boyfriend and a young son. I work with this girl and we get on great. I have spent a bit of time outside of work with her and her son and I love spending time ...

Should I hook up with my second cousin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

20 June 2009 (M) - ok so me and my second cousin have never really talked. ever. infact we berely ever used to see each other, only like once every other month at family reunions. and well recently me and my family and my second cousins family got together because...

I don't understand this teacher's behaviour towards me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

20 June 2009 (F) - I'm a 21 years old female College student, and it's been years since I've entered College. A teacher, who's about in his early 40s? who I thought was friendly, and would greet everyone a "hello" has got me curious recently about his behavior tow...

Same-sex rape: a real and important issue

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

20 June 2009 (F) - This story is my experiences as a same-sex rape victim. Female on female rape statistics are very hard to find. The overwhelming number of rapists are men, and so most rape and sexual assault information on the internet is geared to the victim of...

What can I do to get this infatuation out of my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 158 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - I'm a female, and I have liked one of the female teachers at my school for quite a few years. I don't think it's love, it's more a strong infatuation. I understand that I will never get anywhere with her; that was never what I wanted. People have ...

24 year old teacher touches me and wants to hang out. I love him!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - I am in love with my 24 year old teacher. I am 15 so there is only 9 years apart, and if i wasnt a student it wouldnt be a big deal. This is his first year teaching at the high school and he is a amazing man. When he isnt teaching, he is just ...

How do I ask my cousin out without ruining our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 June 2009 (M) - i have an eye for my cousin who i have been attracted to for 2 years. she is beautiful and i am 1 year older than her. I dont see her often because she lives 4 hours from me. how do i ask her out without making a fool of myself and ruining our ...

I have feelings for a 15 year old boy...is this wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - I'm very confused about something but I'm scared that if I tell someone they'll think a lot less of me, so I'm seeking advice online. I've realized I've developed feelings for a 15 year old child. 3 years ago when I was 18, there was a 15 year boy...

I said I loved him back but hes still with his babys mum! Am I leading him on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - i have been hooking up with a older boy who has a kid and a baby mama wich is fine but i do have to deal with her from time to time. for the first time in the history of me and this boy he was sober and called me to hang out with him so i was like ...

I seen my dad having sex with my sister

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 June 2009 (M) - My dad is screwing my sister. I am 14 and my sister is 15. Lately I have noticed my dad all over her, holding her, rubbing her back, kissing her forehead. The other day I walk into the living room and see my dad laying on top of my sister. My sister ...

Best friends fallen out of love with her husband.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - My best friend and her husband are going through a rocky time. Married for over twenty years and she is not in love with her husband anymore. But they have been in an open relationship for the last few years. Both of them seeing other people ...

Stuck in this triangle competing for my husband!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - I have trust issues with my husband. i resently found out the he has been secretly contacting his ex girlfriend calling and texting her up to 5 times a day.i feel insecure that he dont even communicate with me on that level and i am his wife. I have ...

Told my teacher-crush that I wouldn't meet him, and now regret it

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) - I have been in love with my teacher for years, he is perfect. he asked me to meet up and iv said no.. im regretting it so bad - i dont know why i said no, i was scared i guess that my crush was actully becoming real. now im never going to see him ...

How much should you spend on a first birthday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - This is not a relationship question or anything but im kind of stuck as i never had to do this before. My son is turning 1 on July 6 th , his birthday party is going to be thrown on July 11th due to the 4th of july weekend. My question is for all ...

He's not my teacher anymore but I cannot stop thinking about him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Hey ... I wrote on here about a year ago that I was leaving my school and couldn't imagine being without my class teacher who was my rock during my last 2 years of high school. I went through a huge depression and he was absolutly fantastic - supp...

WHY are relationships between students and teachers forbidden?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I'm sorry for asking such a question, you're all probably going: Isn't it OBVIOUS? Unfortunately, it isn't to me. So WHY are relationships between students and teachers forbidden exactly?! I just can't justify it. I've tried so many times and...

Want to hire my teacher as a tutor, but I have a bit of a crush on him

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Should i ask my former teacher to tutor me? i'm planning on taking a standardized test in his subject next year, and i'm having some difficulty. i'd like him to tutor me because he's a very good teacher; i also developed a wee bit of a crush over ...

Are teachers now days giving off wrong ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - Something you hear alot now days from teeagers.( Mostly girls). That they think their teacher is flirting with them or is being a pervert. I am a teenager myself. I know by first hand what their going threw. They need to know the difference of being ...