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Archived questions from: September, 2013 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

Will he wait for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

30 September 2013 (?) - I really like this guy at work, I am on a contract that ends in the next 8 months but the work policy does not allow employees to form relationships as it creates conflict of interests. We flirt a lot and he responds very well, I have a feeling he ...

I think he's gay but he has a girlfriend. I want to tell him I am gay.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

23 September 2013 (M) - Hello there. I have a problem. recently I've really started to like this guy at work but hes going of to uni till December. The problem is I'm gay and I and lots of other people think he is but he has a girl friend. I'm ok with that because...

It's a success story regarding my relationship with a divorced teacher, now my friend wants to do the same.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

21 September 2013 (F) - In 2009, I posted a question on dearcupid regarding my relationship with a married high school teacher of mine. We had an affair, broke it off when I moved east for university from my hometown in the Midwest, and he then filed for divorce and moved ...

She rejected me because of the distance, but is still texting me, even after she is dating someone else, why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

20 September 2013 (M) - Hi, I was wondering what people make of this. About two years ago I met someone when out at a bar. There was immediate attraction, and I thought she was too good for me. Then I found out she felt exactly the same about me. So much so we went ...

Do I pursue this girl who has a boyfriend living faraway?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

20 September 2013 (M) - So there's this girl... She's 17 about to turn 18 and I'm 21...not that this is an age related question, I just thought I'd throw that info in. We went to school together but we never really talked, she was shy then. We started talking like two week...

I'm in love with my friend, who's in an unhappy marriage. Should I tell her my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

15 September 2013 (M) - Hello, I have a female friend who seems to be in an unhappy marriage. Her husband constantly loses his temper for no reason whatsoever, causing her to cry. He's never hit her, just shouted at her. The other night, she phoned me in tears after he'd...

Due to religious differences, our friendship can go no further. Do I bring it up with her or let it remain unspoken?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3852 days ago

15 September 2013 (M) - OK, I am wondering if you can help me. To make it short and simple, there is this young woman at my job who I have become friends with. I like her very much, as she is very smart, reflective, and has strong values, and we have a lot in common. ...

Would you give him another chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

14 September 2013 (F) - At work this man use to look after me, he was older and use to flirt etc. At first I liked him. But i told him i didn't fancy him because people were talking and i get shy. At that point, this kind helpful man became two-faced and nasty. He trie...

Having a crush and flirting while in a relationship with someone else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

13 September 2013 (F) - I am in a relationship with my boyfriend who I DO love from the bottom of my heart. Just thinking about him gets my heart fluttering! I'm always wondering what I can do to make our relationship grow. However, and it's difficult to admit this even ...

Does he really care for her if me and him have something that good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

8 September 2013 (F) - I know what i did was wrong but if someone can try and answer my question without the lecture I would be so grateful! I started seeing a guy from work and totally fell for him. Despite being in two serious relationships for over 3 years each time,...

Friendship turned sour after our forbidden secret got out.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

8 September 2013 (F) - I have a load of regrets. I do a lot of things that I think'll beay.So here we go, problem one: I had/have this friend (let's call him O) who I have gotten pretty close with, and he isn't really the most trustworthy person. But I trusted him. Now if ...

I'm dating my half brother's half brother. Are we related? Is this wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

7 September 2013 (F) - I am dating my half brothers half brother.my half brother and I have the same mother but different fathers but now him and my boyfriend have the same father... is it wrong? are we related? please help. however, my mom will never accept it!...

Friends with benefits, but he has a girl-friend and he doesn't care about her. Any opinion on these signs that he may like me?Thank you

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

7 September 2013 (F) - HI, there is this guy i used to like and i told him he didn't pay attention and so on, this was like 5 years ago. And he was a major womaniser. Anyway, so i started dating this guy and he started dating this girl, and this guy who i liked his name ...

Is it a red flag when a 55 year old man has lots of female friends young enough to be his daughters?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

2 September 2013 (F) - Hello. I am 35yrs female (single). I am dating a guy who is 55yrs old (divorced). I like him very much and we are taking our time knowing each other. There is not intimacy between us yet and I like the way he respect it and we share quality time and...