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Archived questions from: September, 2007 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

I'm 14 and in love with 2 women. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Im 14. I love my gf but my best mate fancies her and i fancy his gf but my gf would be heartbroken if i left her. I love 2 women, what do i do....

The man I'm seeing has a fiance and he's confused about his feelings. I don't want to wait, but don't want to lose him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I have been somewhat involved with a man who is engaged... We work together. I am 21 and he is 34. We started off as good friends.... im not going to get into it as everyone woman seems to have the same old boring story. Anyway, it has always be...

I want to make sure my teacher doesn't get into trouble before I make steps towards a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Will my teacher get into trouble if we have a relationship? I'm 18 and my teacher is right out of university he's 23. I'v always dated older men but this is different. He is a teacher at my school. I really like but i don't know how he feels I c...

Is a relationship with a priest wrong (if you're in love)?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - i had a relationship with a priest. is it wrong to have a relationship with a priest even if we love each other?...

Was my teacher flirting with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - could teachers hit on you and flirt with you? i had this in the past and they were female teachers i had had. they would touch me on the shoulders, arms, wrists, hands, etc. one of them tried to get very close body contact with me and mostly they ...

It's been a year, I still love him, but now he's with my so-called friend. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Ok so i went out with this one boy for about year and we deeply fell for each other i loved him alot and he "said" he loved me in which i belived so after a while of getting to know each other very well he decided the relationship was getting old so ...

She's 21 now, but when she was 15 she had sex with her teacher! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - I'm stuck for what to do. I've been with my girlfriend a few years now, and a few months ago we told each other's deepest secret (Here I was thinking it would be an interesting game to play, but really didn't expect anything like she told me). ...

I've slept w/ my friend's gf when he left. She was going to follow him, but now she loves me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - Her bf, a friend of mine as well, left promising she should join him. That is not what he told me. Since he left we started to phone and meet almost everyday. When I opened my heart and mentioned my deep feelings she answered we could only be good ...

What's wrong with me (other than being a pig for treating my wife this way)?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3545 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - Feels like I've fallen in Love for the first time in my life...but i've been married for over twenty years... It all started about five years ago (im 41 years old now)...my wife and I had been becoming too distant...it was more than the two of us ...

I think my husband is involved with his sister!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - I Think my husband is involved with his sister!! She was living with us and caused a lot of arguments between us such as butting in on our finances and everything. my baby son started callin her mama she would get happy! They would always be ...

I've re connected with someone from 20 yrs ago. He isnt single. The guilt is terrible. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - I am older than probably most people that post here but recently I reconnected with someone from my past that I haven't seen in over 20 years and I feel like I have come home in a sense. I cared for him back then and those feelings have not ...

Will crushing on my boyfriends cousin going to pass soon???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - He's still on my mind! My bf's cousin is on my mind ever since we keep seein each other at my BF's game. friday was mostly what i fell for him. when he actually treated me the way i wanted to be treated other than being treated like a princess by my ...

I like my drivers ed teacher!

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

23 September 2007 (F) - So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or ...

I know its wrong, (shes my teacher!)but I am going to win her back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

23 September 2007 (M) - I know we did wrong but please help me get her back, im 16 now! I cant stop thinking about this teacher. Me n my teacher got on really well then one day we kissed. From then on we kept seeing each other n planned to meet out of school but that ...

I know it's a common question... but I'm also in love with my teacher!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

22 September 2007 (F) - Yeah... its another ''im in love with my teacher'' question. The truth is i do love him :( and i think he may be interested or maybe attracted to me... thats what i would like to know off of everyone, if he is attracted to me or whatever im cool ...

I came on a bit romantic and scared her away. How can I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

20 September 2007 (M) - i like this girl i've been seeing who is my ex's friend. me and her have been keeping a secret relationship and we were happy together. i told her my feelings about her in a poem and she got scared and said she couldn't do it any more. how can i get ...

I think I have fallen for my wife's sister!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - i have fallen in love with my wife's sister. i think she feels the same way for me. should i tell her how i feel about her or just keep this to myself?...

I'm married. I've fallen in love with someone far away, but I don't know if I should up and go to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - I have been married for 4 years (started dating since '98). Things were good (not the greatest) with her from the beginning. Let's start from the beginning... I was previously engaged to a wonderful person, but she died of lukemia. Ever s...

Should I just leave it in the past or take a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - Hi I need some advice. There is this guy that I think about constantly. I met him years ago, I was seeing this guy and he was their best friend. We had a connection and the guy I was seeing noticed and asked if I liked him. Basically they t...

Should I tell my wife's friend that I love her so I know whether or not to stay w/ my wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - I love my wife but I am also in love with her friend. I would give everything i have to be with her friend and don't know whether i should tell her that i have fallen for her. Will she tell my wife, would i be better to tell her to clear my thoug...

How did a girl like me manage to muck things up and get involved with a married guy?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - Ok...so bare with me. I met his guy, a band guy, and fell head over heels in love with him while I was married. After talking to this guy for about three months it comes out he's still married also but that he and his wife have the most Jerry ...

The attached woman I'm seeing doesn't seem to make any decisions! Should I let her go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

17 September 2007 (M) - Hello a lil advice needed. I have broke off loads of contact wiv my affair after it started getting to heavy on my part wantin her to leave her fella. I know she does care stacks for me too but has no balls and i wish the sex had been crap cos we ...

His family don't approve of us and if I had someone else I would be happier! We are in our sixties.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - Please someone help...........the man that i have been dating 2yrs 9 months is 68 yrs old. i am 64. he broke up with me in july but we have started seeing each other again. he is afraid to tell his selfish family. when i go over to his house in his ...

I've been married for 17 yrs. Am I in love with a young girl at the church?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

17 September 2007 (M) - I am 40 and my wife 39 and we have been married for 17 years, about a year ago a 21 year old girl came to my church and i can,t get her out of my head. am i in love with her? it is driving me crazy....

I'm over 18 but I'm worried about dateing my teacher who's 4 yeasr older. Could he get in trouble?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - I need some advice please guys. I'm 19 and my math teacher was 21 and straight out of uni when he started at my college when I was 17. He has taught me for all of my four double math lessons most days for the past two years. He is and was single w...

I like this guy, he says he likes me... But we have SO many problems revolving around our relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

15 September 2007 (F) - i am 15 and will be 16 in oct but he is 22 and will turn 23 in nov and i love him but we have many differences age differnce, religion differnce, country, lifestyle and time i cant hurt my parents but i cant hurt him either i am muslim and he is a ...

Married for all the wrong reasons. Met a soul mate in someone else. Pls help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

15 September 2007 (M) - Married for all the wrong reasons. Met my soulmate in someone else. Please help....

I want to tell my wife's sister that I love her, but I keep chickening out!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

13 September 2007 (M) - i am in love with my wife's sister, i think she feels the same way about me. i am not in love with my wife and considering divorcing her. i love and care about my wife but i am not in love with her, and not sure if i have ever been. i want to tell ...

I know its wrong, but I am attraced to my best friend's fiance. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - I am a happily married 37 year old female and I am attraced to my best friend's fiance. I think he is attracted to me also. We always give a hug and a kiss when we see each other and I feel attracted to him. He always kisses me straight on the ...

I'm divorcing my husband and dating his brother. How can avoid the guilt?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5982 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - My husband and I are going thru a divorce and I have started dating his brother there is alot of guilt involved and I want to know if there is any way to help us all not feel guilty?...

Me and my girlfriend have nothing in common. I've met someone new, should I persue it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

10 September 2007 (M) - i have been dating the same girl for 5 years now. the relationship is very unhealthy. we only have dinner and have sex about once a week (typical date night for us) we live seperate lives and have nothing in common. however we love each other very ...

Old flame continues to burn my butt, how can I extinguish the heat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6066 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - Hoping someone can help here...I am pretty confused. Six months ago now one thing led to another with a guy I really liked. He had been flirting with me for about a year and then he told me the next day that he had a girlfriend. We only went so far ...

I know he wants to be with me but he can't risk losing his daughter.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - I have fallen in love with a guy and we really like each other, we were seeing each other and things were great but because he has got a little girl and his ex girlfriend is causing trouble for him so he has stopped seeing me, it has broken my ...

I'm 14 and in love with my 23 yr old married cousin! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

8 September 2007 (M) - Im 14 and in love with a 23 year old. Im 14 and in love with my 23 year old cousin. She is married, has two kids and is my cousin by law.We tell each other we love each other and flirt constantly. I know I should try to forget about her but i t...

It's my cousin! What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

7 September 2007 (M) - Please, can somone help me? I am in love with my 1st cousin and she has feelings for me but I don't have a problem with her being my cousin but she has been told she would be cut out of familys life if it ever was to happen so i think she's scared ...

How can I make my mom accept the age difference between me and my girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

5 September 2007 (M) - I'm 16 and I'm dating a 25 year old girl and we love each other very much. My mom thinks she is 18 but on my g/f's myspace it says 25. My mom said that if she is 25 she will have my g/f sent to jail. I don't want to break up with her. What can I do ...

My boss and I are involved, and he is separated. Is this wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

5 September 2007 (F) - Is this wrong? I am a single woman living somewhere in Florida. I started working at a consulting firm a year and half ago. Since that time I gotten a long with quite a few colleagues very well. Specifically, a few colleagues one of which is a pa...

Her family forbids her to see me, but we make each other so happy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

5 September 2007 (M) - what do i do? DONT JUDGE ME BASED ON MY AGE! shes 16 btw yeah im gonna try to keep this short to avoid any confusion basically ive been with a girl now for around 6 months and it was unofficail until about 4 weeks ago her parents h...

I'm in love with someone in prison. Please advise!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I am 16 years of age... my mum and dad found out I have been writing to a lad in young offenders prison. I was going out with him while he was out, but my mum and dad sat me down and said they ask one thing of me, that is to stay away from him. But ...

I was going to tell my teacher how much I liked him, but now he is going to have a baby!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - Please please help! I have avoided posting to this site for a while now about my problem because people were gettin a little sick of the situation! But now, things have got a alot worse. I like this teacher, so much! I've had troubles in the ...

Ive cheated on my boyfriend for 7 yrs. I love him but feel like i'm in love with 2 people? How can I get the other guy out my mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - Hi I am a 27 year old woman who is totally heartbroken. Ive been in love with this guy for 11 years, we met young and started a sexual relationship. We never really dated officially, but our connection was really strong. After a year of hooking up ...

Does my ex from a year ago still love me even though she has a new boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - I don't know what to think. I am completley devastated. the situation is this, I dated my girlfriend for 5 years, and have been broken up with her for just over a year now.I am still completley in love with her, but am confused to wether she still ...

I've been having an affair for 5 yrs but we argued and now we're not talking. Does she love me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6068 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - Hi I am with love with her, we were together for last five years, we bothe were married but some how got into love but it was very difficult to manage this relationship as she wanted me to adject lots of things, because of love I was trying to do ...

I'm 13 and fancy my foster sister who is 5 yrs older than me. Should I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - Hi, im 13 and i really fancy my foster sister, she doesnt live with us anymore, but she is around 5 years older than me, but we get on really well. i cant stop thinking about her. should i tell her my feelings and then if she says no get over her, ...

I'm in a relationship and we have a child but I'm in love with someone else! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - Hi. Ok, my question. I'm in love with someone who also feels the same way about me. There is no age problem. We are both adults. One problem is that we live in two different states. The second problem is, is that i'm already involed in a relation...

My parents are blaming my bisexuallity on my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - hey.... ive recently just told my parents i am bisexual, and that i have a boy friend. and i think it is best to say all was n ot taken very well!! im 16 and live in the uk, my b/f is 15 buh turns 16 in february, i no the age of consent over her...

I am 23 and have fallen for a 14 year old!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

3 September 2007 (M) - i am a 23 year old male, and i have a 14 year old friend i have meet and known for a while, we get on really well, and her parents seem to trust me and her. but i think i maybe fallin in love with her, and i think she feels the same way, im not...

I have a huge crush on my softball coach. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - I have a HUGE crush on my softball coach. He is 12 years older than me. Last time I saw him (which was at the end of the season) he was single. My friends say that he flirts with me, but I can never tell whether he (or anyone else for that mat...

I'm in love with someone I cant have and its starting to affect me. I'm drinking more alcohol now and crying. Help..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - Hi, Q.I have found my soul mate but i can't have him!what do i do? I have never written on one of these sites, but I am completely lost as I met my soul mate 4 years ago, but he is together with a good friend. The connection we have is incredi...

I've met somebody else who makes me feel things my fiance doesnt!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

2 September 2007 (F) - I'm in my late 20s and I have a problem. I have a fiance and he stresses me out a lot and I've been engaged for 4 years going on 5, I don't know why I don't want to get married yet, the thing is I've fallen in love with someone else who lives nearer ...