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Archived questions from: December, 2011 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

I'm 19 years old, and my parents won't let me do anything!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hello. Thanks for having a great community like this. I hope you can help me with my problem. I'm 19, I go to college and still live at home with my parents. My parents are really strict. They treat me like I'm 5 when I'm clearly an adult. They w...

I met this girl but she has a boyfriend. Can we still hang out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

28 December 2011 (M) - Hey guys and girls. Happy holidays :D Hope you people had lots of fun. Alright here's the help I need. I meet this girl at a formal like around 1 week ago for like an Religious Catholic Organization. Alright I meet her, I don't wanna over board...

I've fallen in love with my sister's life-long mate

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - hi i am a hindu girl (17) and i am in a relationship with my sister's best and life long mate hes 20 and white we have fallen in love but the trouble is my sister (also 20) hates the idea of mixed race relationships. we have been going out for a ye...

How do I forget about this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4504 days ago

24 December 2011 (M) - so how do i forget about this girl? shes four years younger than me but i cant help my fealings. she even said if i was younger shed of asked me out. and she wants to meet me (as friends) her words were 'dont suppose we could meet up somtime?' this ...

What are my teacher's feelings towards me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Hi I know very well that I am having a crush on my school teacher... It's strange because I only sit and chat with him. (he's very fat and looks like a panda, but he's quite welcomed by students) However, ever since I turned 15, he loves rufflin...

If things don't work out with his girlfriend would I have a chance? Is it wrong to remain friends with him when I like him so much?

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20 December 2011 (F) - hi everybody, im a 16 years old girl..and ive developed feelings for this guy who is 21 years old, with me in volunteer working..ive always had something for him but always neglected it, because this would be just stupid..but my feeling are getting ...

Happily married, but I hold another guy close in my heart. Any thoughts on why I feel this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

19 December 2011 (F) - Dear friends, I'm happily married, 28f. Two years ago I realised that love doesnt have reins. I began to like a person very much quite secretly. Though it did not cause any of us any harm I still like him. I have also deduced from his eyes that he ...

I like my friend's ex boyfriend! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

19 December 2011 (F) - I really like this guy, he’s lovely, we get on so well and we really like each other. Problem is, he’s the ex boyfriend of one of my best friends. For months I’ve tried to ignore it thinking that it was just a crush that would go away but it hasn’t ...

I kissed my 1/2 brother. Is it illegal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

19 December 2011 (F) - Okay... I will admit and I feel EXTREMELY guilty for it... I kissed my half-brother and I KNOW its wrong.... but I wanna know out of curiousity sakes: is what I did illegal?...

Is this a normal relationship for a teacher and a former student, or could there possibly be something more at play?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4510 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - I have a small crush on this teacher I had back in high school. It's not too big of an issue-- I'm two years into college and in a long-term relationship and he's been married since I've known him. I'm certainly not expecting anything to come of it. ...

In love with my cousin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

17 December 2011 (M) - HI, I'm in love with my sister. Not my own sister, but she's is grandmom's sister's granddaughter. And our grandmom's had broken their relation long time back before we were born. I first meet her when I was 16 years old, and she is half year you...

I love my 40 year old teacher

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

15 December 2011 (F) - I am 19 years old..and I love my teacher how has 40 years old..I love him so much and I don't know if he loves me or not..what can I do?? help me please....

Attracted to my female teacher! What is wrong with me and what can be done?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

15 December 2011 (F) - Im 15 and i have a good life. But there's a problem, Im very attracted with my teacher which is a woman and me a girl. Every time she approaches me, i sweat and im very exited but she dont know. I never feel this way before, Im very worry about ...

Different religions, ages, countries, and cultures...should we even try?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - Hi guys, So i'm in a bit of a pickle, I'm 31 and have fallen in love with a wonderful man...only we can't be together. I'm a 31 year old female from London whom lives in the city and I'm from a middle class Jewish family. I am educated wit...

Is this a bridge worth mending?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

11 December 2011 (F) - I really need a pep talk here. ): Brace yourselves, it's a long story! btw, hi. Sorry if its hard to read, it's 2AM here. I was supposed to attend a college somewhere on the east coast to be with my boyfriend at the time. Let's say his...

Should I pursue a woman in an open relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

10 December 2011 (M) - I met this girl a few months ago and we really clicked. All the vibes were great and we are really close. So close that shes my neighbor! The only problem is, shes in an open relationship with this guy who is in the navy. He doesnt get discharg...

What should I say to a cute contractor? He flirts with me but what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4521 days ago

8 December 2011 (F) - We get these guys from an agency when work is busy. They can last anywhere from one day to alot more. There was this really cute guy today. He needed help with something and I helped him. He appeared to flirt with me later on. The problem is what do ...

My professor is hitting on me. What am I supposed to do? Is this normal in college today?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

7 December 2011 (F) - So I'm 18 years old and a freshman in college. One of my professors is always hitting on me. I'm not saying this to sound conceited, I'm saying it 'cause I know. The other day he told me I looked gorgeous. Also, in my college we have our teacher's ...

Finally found someone I connect with on an intellectual level, as well as an intimate level...but he just so happens to be my literature professor. How do I go about starting a relationship with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

7 December 2011 (F) - I've always been a hopeless romantic, but I love the feeling I get when I find someone that I enjoy talking to in an intellectual sense as well as on a more intimate level. Recently, I've met someone that has inspired me in so many ways I cant even ...

What should I do about this teacher, that I think has a crush on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - I am 16 and in grade 11. My school is a small school with 7 grades in it. I had this teacher in my grade 8-9 years. I still see him a lot because I help him with 2 of the activities at my school. Lately I have been getting these mixed signals from ...

How do I shake the lust I feel for a coworker?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - I cannot shake the lust I feel for a coworker. He is married and so am I. It's definitely reciprocated - we flirt all the time and have almost let things get out of control while away on business. I love my husband (of 20 years) and a big part of me ...

We have not consumated this relationship. He is married. But can I get over him while I have to see him twice a week?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - I have a major problem here and need help. I am in love with someone who is married. He is in love with me but we have not had an affair. We acknowledged that this was the case but that we would do nothing about this. The problem is is that I ...

I never want to cheat on my Bf. So how can I stop lusting after this boy I see at night school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

3 December 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for four years and I do love him loads, but have recently starting feeling lust for a boy who is goes to my night school. I would never cheat on my bf but I can't stop thinking about this boy in a sexual way. I don'...

Why is my old emotional affair now mean then nice to me after all this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

3 December 2011 (F) - A few years back I had an emotional affair with this guy at work, needless to say he flip flops back and forth, nice to me, them rude, stand offish, then nice. WELL, i tried real hard for peace before my transfer request, but I did not get transfer...

I've developed feelings for a friend's ex-boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

2 December 2011 (F) - I really like my friends ex-boyfriend. She broke up with him 6 months ago because he was kind of controlling. They had been going out for over a year. Two months ago, I harbored no feelings for him, only as a friend of course, but then we started ...