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Archived questions from: September, 2010 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

Is my mind playing tricks on me? I think my teacher is flirting with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I have had a little crush on one of my teachers for quite a while. He is quite young for a teacher, and i was his first ever class to teach when i was in second year of high school (im in scotland so i was 13/14 at the time) i didnt have him as a ...

My teacher acts like he likes me but doesn't directly say it! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I have an issue. I went to religious school and found my self with a teacher I hadn't seen in a few years. He's very nice and knows me. He started flirting with me. I liked him before and was sad when he didn't come back to teach. So now he's back ...

I'm in love with my sister-in-law's brother and everyone in my family is against it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - hey, i am 17 and i am HEAD OVER HEELS in love with this guy thats 24 and he tells me that he is MADLY in love with me but....my ENTIRE family is against him he is my brothers wifes brother and omg he is amazing...he has a gf that is a couple months ...

He's been in juvi, but we really care about each other!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Hi, well I dont really know what to do. My boyfriend is what you would call a "juvinille delinquent" I guess. But i love him soo much! My parents dont approve because now he is in juvi. We've had sex alot and I really care about him. I know he would ...

Caught between my father and my boyfriend who are both strong willed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I and my boyfriend seeing eachother from last 3 years. i am 25 and he is 26. my parents wanted me to marry now as its my right age to get married. so i told them about my boyfriend, who is from culture. as i am north indian and he is a south indian, ...

My family adopted an 11 year old boy who is attracted to me and won't leave me alone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - hi everyone, I'm feeling really awkward right now, and it's been going on for quite some time. My family adopted an eleven year old boy (who resembles Dominic Scott Kay to me) and he's just gotten into 6th grade. He's sweet and smart, and definitely ...

Gay teacher in love with a student.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

26 September 2010 (M) - I'm a 27 year old male teacher. I work in a Catholic school. I have been looking for love for quite some time. The problem is that I always end up with the wrong person. The people I choose are either straight, deep into the closet, or simply way ...

Still obsessed after 13 years

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - i am 24 years or age and i really need help and advice. i have been in love with a teacher i had in my junior school since i was 11. he left the school the same year i moved to high school but even so i cannot shift my feelings for him and the pain ...

Is he guilty or in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

25 September 2010 (F) - hello , My friend was telling me a story, that he wanted to marry a girl of a different race, but her parents are against it because they had a very bad experience with another sister so her dad even got sick .So she told him lets just be together...

Why does my teacher act so weird around me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - So there is this relief teacher who has just been accepted into my school and i know for a fact that she is only 19. I'm 16, a girl, and i'm the senior in my school. When i first saw her, i was blown away because she was really quite attractive. She ...

I'm 14 my friends think I'm absolutely nuts Is it actually normal to love a 46 yr old teacher ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - I'm 14 and head for heels for this 46 yr old teacher and i've never felt this way about any guy before and hes the head teacher of science so i love going to science haha :P i had him for yr8 science last year and thats how i develope...

I think I'm bi..and I have feelings for my cousins wife!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - I'm 18 and in college..I'm a Muslim so being bi is frowned upon by everyone..it's hard enough having to keep sucha big secret from my friends and family but now I'm having feelings for my cousins wife, they've been married for 3 years now no ...

Tell me to be sensible! College professor likes me and I like him too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - I just found out my uni professer likes me and I'm in turmoil. I am a mature student and I like him too. I don't know what to do, so far I have just been avoiding him. It is driving me nuts. I want to be sensible about the whole thing. He is ...

Can I at least try to get my teacher to like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - I think I'm in love with my teacher. He's handsome, funny, nice.. everything anyone would want. He doesn't exactly flirt with me, but he's usually very friendly with me and has been so nice to me ever since I started that school, I know there's ...

Confused about my brother's feelings for me.....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

22 September 2010 (M) - I told my brother that I'm in love with him 5 months ago. and that I wanted to make love with him. he get very angry and didn't even want to see me again. and we had no communication at all, till yesterday. he came in my room and we were ...

My 1st cousin and I want to be together. How do we tell the family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4939 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - I am 26 years old with 2 children from previous abusive and abandoning relationships. I have recently got back in touch with my 1st cousin. Someone I use to be very close to. We loved each other and cared so much for each other during our younger ...

Am I wrong for wanting this relationship with my cousin to continue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - ok - i met a woman one night and we intantly clicked. i fell in love with her, i have unbelieveable feelings for her and when im with her. when we would lay in bed i felt like nothing in the world could touch me. i am 28 she is 41. well i just ...

I've fallen in love with my brother's wife

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

19 September 2010 (M) - I am totally confused right now. My brother and I have always been great friends, but I seem to have fallen in love with his wife. All three of us have been good friends for more than 7 years now and I have always liked her a lot, both as a friend ...

I don't want to make his parents angry but we love eachother!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

17 September 2010 (F) - There's this guy I've known mainly on Facebook for about 6 months. He's 17 and i'm 18.His parents saw me talking to him and scolded him badly for it and forbade him to talk to me again. i don't understand why. however, he still keeps in touch with ...

Gym teacher and "gazes"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

17 September 2010 (F) - So it's about my gym trainer. We don't talk or anything,not really and some may go ''well why are u asking this question '' but....he gives me gazes. I consider myself a pretty girl and the odd thing is he doesn't talk to me at all ( he talks to ...

I'm in love with my almost step-brother.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

17 September 2010 (F) - I have lived with my Mum's boyfriends family for about one year and a half now. Before that they were going out for ages and before that we knew his family just as friends. He has 3 sons and I have twin little brother and sisters. His sons are 17 16 ...

Is it possible to combine being gay with being a catholic?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

15 September 2010 (M) - I've been raised in a catholic family and have always believed in god, but lately I have become more agnostic. I'm gay and feel like a bit of an outcast in the church. I'm not out, and don't think my family will accept it. As far I know, bein...

The love of my life...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

14 September 2010 (M) - hi, the names brian, im 17, turning 18 in 3 months, and this is my story of the love I have for a teacher I havent known for to long. I warn you this story is very long but it is interesting once you get into it.It is more of a story than a question ...

My heart says not to end this buy my head says I should? interracial relationship

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

13 September 2010 (M) - I am a white male, live and have lived in a mainly white suburb all my life, and most of my associations have been with others of my race. We are a pretty liberal family and I have always been raised that everyone is equal, but that being said our ...

We need to meet secretly because of my strict family upbringing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

13 September 2010 (F) - i am in love with a guy. we both love each other very much. am still a student in my undergrads while he is just fresh out of college into a job. my parents are really of the strictest sort. they consider falling in love sort of somethng really ...

I want to be with my cousin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

13 September 2010 (M) - first off me and my cousin both go to the same college this year. OK well last week me and my first female cousin got in a fight because i asked her not to say she loved me around school because i hate it when girls say they love you to everyone...

Is my sensei hitting on me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - hey it's probably nothing, but i'd like to hear your opinion all the same. i train in aikido, a not very well known martial art, and i have been for about 4/5 months. i help my sensei (teacher) around the dojo(school) as it pays for half of my t...

I got caught by my manager kissing a co-worker!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - I need help I just got caught by my manager kissing a work mate of mine we been together for just under 3months omg I have no idea what to do! i'm so embarrassed. does anyone know any laws or anything that state we can't do this? I don't know... He ...

Should I add my cousin on facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - I'm not sure if my cousin fancies me or not. I know it would sort of be wrong if he did, since we're related, but i'm from the U.K and it is legal to go out with, and even marry a cousin , here. We were at a family party last night, and we danced ...

How can I make my teacher aware of my feelings without others knowing?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - Ok So I live in the UK and the the law on having sex is 16 here. So im 18 in December 2010 and i have this major crush on my college teacher, ive been having like 'wet dreams' about him and ive NEVER crushed on a teacher before but hes 26 and hes ...

I love them both! Best friend? Or his lady?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

11 September 2010 (M) - ive falling in love with my best friends partner i have know her for 9 years and we have always been very close with unspoken feelings a few year ago we kissed and we never spoke about it but we grew closer 9months ago we started a relationship . ...

Teacher nice? Or he has feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - I've had feelings towards a teacher for a long time, im 15 and he is 24. I didn't realise he liked me back but here are some of the things that have happened He has asked me if i have a boyfriend and when i said no he said 'that's good' He star...

Does my teacher have feelings for me or is he joking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - I've had strong feelings for one of my teachers for a long time...lets call him Mr.W and i didn't think he was even slightly interested in me but now i'm really not sure. Im 15 and he's 24, he teaches me Science. Since he started a couple of year...

I have feelings for my science teacher...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4970 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - okay so this is my sisters account but i really need help okay well i am 2 years younger than my sister i am in the U.K i am at the legal age of consent .. okay so dont say it is just in my head because i know it's not okay so i have feelings ...

I know I should just stay away, but I'm finding that very hard to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

10 September 2010 (M) - I don't know what to do about this. One of my former students (we had a very close relationship) is now a teacher at the same school. I thought it would be awkward, because we haven't seen each other in a few years, but we fell right back into our ...

Untitled and Undefined: The Way it Should Be

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, My name is Rebecca. I am a 20-year old aspiring journalist. Oh god, what a dreadful introduction. Is that supposed to summarize who I am? How god-awful is that! More so, how god-awful is it that that's how I would naturally begin ...

How Do I Tell Him?...or Should I?...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - I'm a 28 year old female who finds herself attracted to her 25 year old male cousin. Yes, I said it my cousin. I want him to know it too, but I'm sooo afraid. We are first cousins, my father and his father are brothers and we were raised together, ...

I want to know his feelings towards me...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - My teacher is 43 and well don't know too much about his private life as i don't really tend to take notice, but since i've started his class which i've been in for a year and a month or something, there was sort of something there, its hard to ...

Fell in love with a married woman who says that God wants her to work on her marriage!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

9 September 2010 (M) - My story started about 6 months back when I met this girl at my work. I felt an immediate attraction to her. It wasn't just a physical one either, I mean she had the perfect personality type to me. We started talking and flirting back and forth at ...

I'm a Pollice Officer, and in Love with my Partner, My Police Officer Partner!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

8 September 2010 (M) - falling in love with my partner. i am a police officer. just recently, since july, i partnered up with a female partner. she is the nicest, most beautiful woman. i have always like her as a person but since we have been partners i have grown to love ...

How can I stop this infatuation for my Co-Worker

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - I'm not really sure where to start. I've never been in this situation before and I don't really have anyone I can talk to about it either. I've been working at my current job for about six months now, and I've become increasingly more and more ...

My parents don't like my girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

8 September 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have a very serious problem and it just happens to be my parents. The issue is that everyone i know in my family hate my girlfriend and even people i don't know do because my family goes around and talks about her. Before i just ...

Why do I feel like this about teachers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - Ok, so when i was in year 8 i had this thing for my p.e teacher, yes she was a woman. I dont think it was a crush i just looked up to her, because she was nice and caring. I never told anyone and it wasn't too bad and it soon faded away. But in year ...

Can I stop this before it gets to deep?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - can i stop this before it gets tooo deep???? i have recently been back in touch with my uncle after my great grandmother died... he recently told me he has feelings for me he knows its worng we both do but for some reason it feels so right its hard ...

Is it normal that this turns me on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for several months now on the DL; we're just friends with benefits and have agreed that there's no strings attached. I'm 19 and he's 34. Well, today is my birthday and last night I went by his place for some fun and end...

Teacher/pupil shenanigans!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4975 days ago

5 September 2010 (F) - hey last year me and my teacher were in a relationship and he is my form tutor now but my friends know, i told them but now one of them wont speak to me coz of it. what should i do, should i break up with him but he is only 5 years older than...

Is it wrong to date my former teacher?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - I am 19 years old, I graduated high school last year. There has always been a very strong attraction between a teacher at my school (30 years old) and me. My friends would always bug me about how he liked me, but I never told them that I was in ...

He says one day he'll marry me but has a wife and child. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - Am separated from my husband and I am currently seeing this guy who is 10 years older than me we do not do a lot of things together. We hardly go out or do any fun things together. This guy is a medical doctor and is married with 1 adopted daughter. ...

He doesn't love me enough to leave his children

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - If your married lover says that he doesn't love you enough to walk out on his children,does that mean he never will?...

He is married now but wont leave me alone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - He's married now, why wont he leave me alone? ive tried and tried but i give in, i love him sooooooo much and know that he has a wife now, but he keeps coming and coming, i keep letting him, what do i do when the love is so strong for a married man, ...