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Archived questions from: April, 2009 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

I kissed my cousin 3 time.....and I liked it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - right.. ermm restly i went back to zimbabwe to stay with some family who i hadn't seen in over 3yrs, and i wasn't really looking forward to going cos my counsin who i sow last and he didn' talk to me. well this time he did talk and we got really c...

Even though her ex has moved out I am still her secret lover and I want more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - I've been married twice and have four children two from each marrage, I see my children every weekend and share holidays. Seven months ago through the internet I met up with a girl that I had not seen in 23 years. She was in a form of relationship ...

I like my teacher... I just want to say hi to him but I'm too shy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - hey. i'm 14 and theres a teacher at my school that i really like, he doesnt teach me for any lessons, i just want to say hi to him but i'm really shy. will he think its weird because i havent really spoken to him before. sorry if this seems like ...

Get lover to leave his wife for you or get her to leave him so you can have him for yourself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I have found an ex lover after being apart for 8 and a half year.We have been in contact by phone and computer for the last 16 months. we are both married. I have been married for 9 years 10 months. He has been married around 4 or 5 years. he says ...

He will be my step-brother in August and we are in love...help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Ok - I understand that the general consensus is that is ok to date and even possibly marry your step-brother. But please here is my situation - and help me out. I am 21 - he is 23 - he is in the Navy and came home on leave for two weeks - and ...

He admitted to a bi-sexual experience on our anniversary!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I could be here all day writing...But I'll try to sum it up a little. My husband and I were celebrating our 5th wedding anniversary the other night and we got to talking pretty deeply. We are always very open with eachother(so I thought) and always ...

Feelings for my step-nephew!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - well this a real good one and its driving me crazy, my brother has two stepsons from a previous marriage and we had post ouch for near hand 20 years, my oldest step nephew and i began talking a lot and realised we had so much in common, there was a ...

I think I'm in love with my 10 year old step-sister

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - Lately, I have been having really troubling thoughts. I have come to terms with the fact that I have fallen in love with my 10 year old step sister (I'm 18). I just don't know what to do anymore. Before anyone asks or starts accusing, I am n...

Should I tell my straight best friend I'm in love with her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - I know this is a bit of a cliche but I could really use some advice. Here goes. I'm an 18 year old female. I met my best friend at school when we were in y7. I first realised I had feelings for her when we were about 13. I've tried to ignore m...

I want to sleep with my sister.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - My sister 6 year elder then me see is marred and see live her husband and see have a 6 year old baby. She only come my home only when her baby school close during summer. But see is so beautiful my question is I want to sex with my sister But ...

I'm in love with my b/f's uncle!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - Hi , well here's my situation ... I'm 14 years old, and I'm completely in love with a 24 year old. Believe it or not, I know its not an infatuation. If you, yourself, are in love- then you KNOW you are in love, you don't question it. Now, this...

Just looking for some good advice.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I know this just seems like another one of those cliche stories about a student liking a teacher, but that's the way I feel and I can't help that. I'm 18 and I think I have a crush on a teacher who is single and roughly 9 years older. I know that ...

I love my teacher who now lives on the other side of the world, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - Hey there, I'm 15 years of age and I'm in year 10, just for your information. Before I mustered the courage to research teacher and student relationships, I had no idea how common it was for a student to fall for a teacher and vice versa. I ...

Does my teacher have feelings for me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

25 April 2009 (F) - Hey guys, I know I've asked this question before but now with a few more leads. I think he has caught onto me used to liking him so he has been giving out the same signs aswell lately. I can't bare to look at him during class anymore because ...

I'm in love with my ex's best friend! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

25 April 2009 (F) - well me and my ex broke up last week [i broke up with him] were just friends but i met his best friend and the guy is great hes evrything that my ex was not. he really looks like he knows how to treat a lady. i even dreamt about him. and i never ...

Told my teacher I love him. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Today in math class my friend and I was to lazy to get up and get are paper to our math teacher. Then the other was in there so we asked him to give it to her and he said no you guys are always mean to me. He said we need to be nice then he will. So ...

I can't be with him, but I can't stop thinking about him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5479 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Like I'm totally like this guy I can't be with. He is my soon to be stepbrother. He's 17 and so wonderful and cute! I know we can't be together but I can't seem to get over him. He (and I) flirt, usually unintentionally which doesn't make things any ...

My friend's ex boyfriend has a crush on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Okay, I have a problem. There's this guy that I really like, and he's also one of my closer friends. But he dated my friend Cindy. See, I didn't have a problem with them being together, he didn't even know I liked him. But I thought that the...

Secret gay friends in school

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

22 April 2009 (M) - I'm 16 and I've been in a relationship with another boy for a year now, he is nearly 13. We keep it secret (well that's obvious!), not least of all because we are at the same school but in different years. We meet outside of school and spend time ...

In love with my brother-in-law -- should I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - I think I am in love with my brother in law, I can't wait to see him, talk to him, dream about sex and relationships with him, but I don't think he feels same way about me although we do get on very well. I just don't know what to do, or to mention ...

Why do I get excited when I hear from him? What does this all mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - Hi, something really weird is happening to me. I am 25 years old. I had my very first sexual encounter at 19 years old. It was with my high school boyfriend. We went our separate ways after this and now 6 years later we are in contact again. During ...

Students Falling In Love With Their Teachers.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - Students look up to teachers because they're smart. They are mature. They're possibly good looking. They've had interesting lives. All the things all people look for in a character. But students can't do anything about it. So their own passion...

Her parent's don't approve of interracial love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

19 April 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have known each other for 4 years and have been dating for a year now..Were happy with each other but the problem is her parents don't approve of it..The problem is she is kurdish and im black so the problem they have is that ...

What am I suppose to do when I've got all this happening

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - i dnt no what to do anymore im really f**k up rite now..from the age of 7 ive jus been a mess...my step brother who is 18 now. he did thing to me and i thought i was normal but it wasnt and i love him but he knows how to play with my mind so it an ...

I believe some teachers are, intentionally or not, flirty.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I believe some teachers are, intentionally or not, flirty. In their mannerisms, their choice of words and the way they say those words. I completely understand that a lot of teachers are just like that in nature; friendly, funny and outgoing. And I ...

Teacher has hots for me? or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - MOD NOTE: I don't believe the poster is the age stated... can someone plz tell me if this person has the hots for me or not. well there is this teacher, and my frineds and i think that she has the hots for me. u see everymorning we see each other in...

Fallen head over heels for a girl I can never be with!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - I don't know where to begin. Im in my 20s and currently studying. I never really had a childhood or even anything during my teens. I've spent my entire life alone and isolated. However rescently my life is beginning to pick up. I made the most am...

I resisted temptation. Now how do I get over it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

14 April 2009 (M) - I am a married man with 2 kids and a good person. I have been married for 9 years and love my family. I also have a great job and CANNOT lose it. I am having a real problem at work...I have a married co worker with whom I have harmlessy flirte...

I am attracted to my younger step brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Okay.. I am 24 years old. I have a step brother who is 16. I have known him since he was 5. Honestly I never really cared much for him when he was younger.. he was aggravatting. lol. My dad married his mom. anyways it was him and two other siblings...

In love with hubby's best friend..now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - OK so Im probably a bad person bit I am in love with my husbands friend. It happen 4 years ago. But before this I always had this attraction to him and we play flirted but I never thought he would let it go as far as it did or that I would. One ...

Married..but seperated..but now seeing each other in secret!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - i'm married for ten years and we have been separated for more than five years.But this year we realised that we love each other and we are having sex twise a week and we are doing it in secret.becouse is involved with another women....

Follow up: In love with 2 teachers.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-gosh---struggling-under-the-pressure.html Please please please help! I am completely head over heels in love with 2 of my teachers! I have no idea what to do....these feelings are so strong. Can someone help...

Why Is My Former Teacher Behaving So Strangely?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Why Is My Former Teacher Behaving So Strangely? I Contacted My Former High School Teacher After 5 Years To Catch Up. He Initially Answered My Email And Said That He'd Love To See Me Again But Then when I wrote back to him to set up a date and time ...

Id rather talk with a 46 yr old man instead of my 21 yr old boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5486 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Well i'm 21 and i am attracted to this older man he's 46 any how i love talking to him about interesting things he's very intelligent. The problem is i have a boyfriend which is 21 and they live together. I don't know what to think anymore me and ...

I'm 19, he's 15..we want to be together but its not legal for another 2 years

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I am 19yrs old and this person I want to be with is 15yrs old. The law is what's keeping us apart. We have known eachother for 11yrs or so and have had a connection for 5yrs. I have always thought I was sick in the head for feeling this way about ...

Male Teacher, Female Student and a Father-Daughter Relationship

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1654 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - I'm sorry for another one of these questions.. My philosophy/religion teacher is middle aged, and a very handsome man; but what has won me over most has been his confidence, down-to-earth demeanor and corky sense of humour. He has led an admir...

I want to marry two women and they both know about it, is there any way this can be legal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - If I marry two women and they both know and they approve of it is it legal if they both agree? And if not, is there a way that if they both sign legal documents through the courts through the laws can they both marry me then?...

I'm utterly confused about my feelings towards my teacher and his feelings for me! Help me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I'm 16 and I'm going to graduate at the end of the year. Today, I felt this strange sensation in my stomach today, nothing I've ever felt before. There were actual butterflies in my stomach today when I saw my teacher, and I just said, "wow" to ...

What's the deal with the student/ teacher fantasies?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - This may seem a but random, but please bear with me: what's the deal with student/ teacher fantasies? i've been hearing a lot of talk lately about how it's a man's "greatest fantasy" (and how they even go as far as watching porn on the subject) ...

I want to be able to tell my teacher that I love him again, but I can't,

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

7 April 2009 (?) - My teacher and i have become insanely close, it's even gotten to the point where we are saying i love you. over my whole spring break we spent every day together. every time he would drop me off at my house i would kiss him on the cheek, hug him,...

I'm in love with my 2nd cousin...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - i love my 2nd cousin.i dont know what to do i dont see him much at all and i know he feels the same we both want to have sex is it wrong i am scared the family would findout...

I'm 15...He's 26. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - I need help very badly, so please stay with me. About more than a year ago i just turned 14 before i went away to israel for vacation. i met a guy who worked there who worked at the pool deck who was 11 years older than me. i did not know this tho...

My parents don't even know I'm dating and I might be pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Well I'm 15 and I have a 15 year old boyfriend that is about to turn 16. We have been together for 9 months and We have had protected sex a few times and had no worries about it. But lately I have been getting pregnancy signs and I missed my ...

I'm in love with my college professor!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I'm an 18 year old catholic girl living in England, which means i can't have sex before marriage and nor should i agree with extra marital affairs. Usually i would stick to this because i am quite devout, but i have found myself falling for my Poli...

I am in love with my english teacher.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I am in love with my english teacher. There is a fourteen year age gap between us, so I know honestly that nothing can ever happen. I've felt like this for so long, and sometimes I just want to get over it, but othertimes it feels like I don't want...

How to tell my husband

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - About 6 months ago me and my husband were having problems with money and we have a daughter 9 months old. He works long hours working, I was feeling lonley one night as my daughter woulnd't stop crying so I contacted my ex just for company he made ...

I'm a married woman with a huge crush on my married boss

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Im a married woman who has a huge crush on my boss who is also married I know its wrong but I can't stop I think about him all day now im even picturing him while im "with" my husband I feel like if I tell him I will get it off my chest and get over...

He isnt acting like just a teacher

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Hello there. Thank you so much for deciding to help me! Sometimes I actually think I like this guy, do you think he likes me??? First of all, I am in eighth grade. The teacher, we will refer to him as {}, is 46 years old, married, and has tw...

How do I avoid tempting my ex to cheat on his current g/f?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - so im 15[[sophomore]] and my ex is 18[[senior]];;he has a girlfriend, which is also my friend[[were fake with each other]]. well today during 3rd period i went to visit him. i knew we would at least kiss but i didnt know that we'd do more..he told ...

I love them both

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - I've been going out with this guy for over six months and i love him loads but at the same time i've fallen in love with this guy that's a year younger than me, i don't care about the age difference i just don't know what to do because i love them ...