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Archived questions from: November, 2008 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

Has your husband ever left you to be with his mistress?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (?) - Has your husband (or long term boyfriend) ever left you to be with her (the mistress)? Did they work out? Mine left me 18 months ago and has now brought a house with her. We were together for 10 years and have three children together but he ...

Why do you catch so much hell as a mistress?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - HELLO Ladies and Gents, I have a question when you are the mistress why do you catch so much hell. I have been involved with my friend for about two years now and i love him very much and will do anything for him. But this is my problem in the b...

I'm in love with my in-law, how can I get this out of my system??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I have a big problem, this is a taboo topic. for the last two or so years I have developed feelings for my sister in laws husband.I am now totally in love with him I cant stop thinking about him,I try my hardest to stay away from family functions...

How do I tell my boyfriend I'm in love with his brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I think I love my boyfriend's brother, and I don't know whether I should tell him or not?? I want to so bad, cuz I hate hiding my feelings, BUT I do not want to cause drama between family. Its getting to the point where I really dont care though... ...

Does my teacher have feelings for me? Is it wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Right, I completed secondary school back in June after finishing my exams and all that :). about a month after leaving I added this teacher on a networking site, and it was pretty cool. First we just chatted about movies and favourite bands et...

My attraction grows stronger every day and it's making my relationship hectic!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - So I've been in a relationship for 6 months now with my boyfriend who I love very much, But recently I started having second thoughts about us. I have been spending alot of time with his brother lately who I have known alot longer and have always ...

Is my teacher in love with me or am I just being paranoid??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I know that this may sound like a little ordinary “a little girl in love with her teacher”… But I think that the case is “an older teacher in love with his student”. Allow me please to say that I love him like a girl loves his father. So, for ...

Is it true that a man and a woman can't be close friends without sooner or later being sexual in the end?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - hi all,i got a problem that needs solving,i have a best friend who is a guy,he is also the best friend of my guy,thing is we were friends before my guy and i got together. i will call my best friend R. R and i are so close that i tell him ...

I'm attracted to my cousin and the thought of someone else being with her drives me crazy! What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - Im frm India im really attracted to my cousin and have sexual fantasies about her. she is med student in another city , weve rarely met , except for a few family reunions. but the last time we met ( years back) in delhi , it just set up some ...

Mom says if I choose to be with him now I can pack my things and leave with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Okay, so there's this boy.. he's amazing. A little age difference.. he's 19 and I'm 16. I've never had a boyfriend so it's no wonder why my mother is freaking out. She knows of other boys I've talked to and usually is a cool mom BUT now that me and ...

I need him back! It's platonic love...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - i'm 15yrs old totaly straight but i've fallen for my bestfriends lil bro(llyrs old) i know he loves me too and right now is just afraid because what we are doing should not be shown in public and has been forbidden by his parents we used to be ...

How do we keep our families intact and remain friends?

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28 November 2008 (M) - i am married since 7 yrs and has got happy family of three,we've a 2 yrs old son.i am a practicing gynaecologist and also work nearby govt hosp.a staff nurse from there and i have been friends since last 7 months.she is married has got 3yrs ...

He is so good-looking it makes me feel like a troll. Can he possibly like me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - There's this guy I like who's a friend of a friend, but he's too attractive. We get on really well and make each other laugh, but he is really really good-looking and although a fair few guys tell me I'm attractive, this guy is SO attractive that ...

My husband had an affair with his sister in law. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - HELP!!! I just found an email on my husband's account from his siter-in-law. It was refering to them having sex and loving each other. I asked my husband about it, and he told me everything. This affair went on before I was in the picture. We have ...

I love him, but he is married... should I tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Ok.. well.. I have known this guy for almost 3 years now. When I first met him he became like a dad to me. but for the last year I have been having stronger feelings for him. He is married, and I am 20 and he is 43. We talk and text often and even ...

My Mom's drunk BF harassed me and I'm afraid to tell her the truth!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - hi i'm 18 and life has never been better for me up until a week ago. i was staying with my mom because she hasn't seen me in a while and wednesday she had to work so i was at her house with her husband. it was his day off and with him being an ...

What do we call the male version of mistress?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - What do we call the male version of mistress? If a girl is seeing a guy who has a partner - what is the official name for the guy?...

Am I just another student or am I special to her? Do I tell her how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Hey I really love my teacher. Have always but i am very shy and never spoke to her really. I was always her favourite student. Recently we have been IM each other and i've even visited her. Im leaving school now and i'm gonna miss her. She said she ...

I love a married man! I don't expect him to leave his wife, but I suffer so much when not being with him, what can I do??

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - hello, i dont want any hurtful or rude comments, iam writing to everyone here because i think this is a site for evryone to write about their problems and feeling's. Well, iam seeing a married man. i have ben seeing him for 2 1/2 years now. i got ...

Can someone please help me to untangle my love life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Ahhhh I suck at relationships! It's pissing me off! I'm 19 and I love my ex boyfriend more than anything, and he's in love with me. But he moved away a while back, so we're not together. I don't fancy a long-distance relationship. So that's Guy #1. ...

I miss him and love him, but my parents don't approve...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - I so am sad all the time and miss my ex-boyfriend of almost 5 years. We've been together through out high school college and just recently broke up in march, but we still talk sometimes until it gets too hard on one of us. Our relationship was only ...

I'm having an affair with my sons HS basketball coach and now I'm pregnant, help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3604 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - My name is Ashlee my husband and I been married 18 years and we have 3 beautiful kids a son and two daughters, but I am having an affair with my son's high school basketball coach. My son is 16. The trouble is, we're both married. I had noticed how ...

Is it wrong for a 13 yr old to date a 19 yr old?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

23 November 2008 (?) - Is it wrong for a 13yo girl to be dating a 19yo guy that lives over seas? I love him to death, but i want other peoples point of view. No my parents dont know about him-im not supposed to date. I have been with some one that was 14....it didnt work ...

I'm getting mixed signals from my teacher!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - Alright well..I really need an opinion on something that happen just this week. I get so many mixed signals from a former teacher of mine... I recently saw him after classes and we were just talking and then I had him help me with Math..I told, Ohh ...

If I have a baby with my cousin, will the baby be healthy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - i have a boyfriend and hes my cousin. i want to have a baby with him but my question is if the baby is going to come out healthy?...

My wifes Dad is sexually harassing me and and it's stressing me out!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - Normally you'd get a woman asking this question, but no, it's also happened from a male perspective as well. I'm 31, and my wife's 28. We've been married for a month now. For the past few weeks my new father-in-law's been sexually harassing me. ...

How do I get over this teacher of mine?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I've just transfered to a new school, because my school closed down. I am still very upset about it, and there's not a day that goes by when I am dressing in my uniform thinking about what school I am going to, and how the uniform I'm wearing isn't ...

My F-I-L harrassed me, and said he won't stop until he gets what he wants.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I am 32 years old and married my husband 5 months ago. My husband's father had been very close to me, really helping me be accepted in the family. Its a big family with 5 kids, all of whom are married, my husband being the youngest of the children. ...

Find myself obsessed with my female ex-teacher...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Okay so. I have this infatuation with my woman ex-teacher. I am a bisexual, and I'm only in middle school. I'm in 8th grade, and I had her in 6th grade. She's amazing to me, she isn't very good looking, but I think she's beautiful. Anyway, I always ...

I'm dating an older man but falling for his son who's my age.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a few months who's alot older than me. Recently I've been spending alot of time with his son who is my age. I've found myself developing feelings for him but don't know what to do....

Can a married man have 'butterflies in his stomach?'

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - There is the man about 40, a married one- married with 2 children. The couple are not well matched but they have been together for about 14 years now. I have always fancied him but I never suspected he may be in love with me. Recently he has told ...

Is it normal for a girl of that age to be like that? What made her do it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend walked into my room without knocking and I was caught doing sexual activity's. After 3 seconds she came directly onto me she started to take off her clothes and I asked her what are you doing because I was scared, I wasn't ready to...

I would like advice about how to go about my teacher being attracted to me, and do you think he is?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - i know everyone is sick of hearing about teenage girls and their crushes on their teachers. Whenever a girl writes about that kind of stuff, the reply is usually, "you're reading too far into it, or its wrong and you'll get over it soon, and that he ...

Dear Cupid I need help badly..

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need help. I have meet this man whom I thought I could have a relationship with, how very wrong I was... after 3 weeks into the relationship he told me he was married with 3 children, he told me he plans to leave his wife after xmas,...

What do I do and how do stop behaving like some clinging, needy female.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - Please help. I have met a man I have fallen for in a big way. It started as an affair, yes he's married. I don't think I'm a fling, my gut feeling tells me that. He tells me he is deeply unhappy, they don't sleep together, she has no interest in him ...

I'm a player, but for the first time I really like a guy and he has a pregnant GF.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - i had a one night stand with this guy at a party i just had way to much to drink at. i don't remember it at all and neither does he. i was humiliated the next morning seeing as i couldn't remember his name. he took me for coffee and we talked. i ...

Tell me if I have something with the teacher who isn't allowed to talk to me anymore...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - I'm 16 years old and I'm a junior in high school. In freshman year, my history teacher was pregnant so from March to June, we had a substitute teacher. When i first saw him, i didn't think much of him, but i knew there was something different about ...

Every time he is near I just want to grab him, hug him and kiss him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

14 November 2008 (F) - FORBIDDEN LOVE! Ok. Away back last year I liked this boy. He is only 3 months older than me but is in the year above me at school. As soon as I started talking to him I fell in love. He was the first guy I really felt this way about. He is jus...

Do me and this man (my teacher) really talk in metaphors? Opinions please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

14 November 2008 (F) - Hey guys, Ok, this question may be long, but I need some opinions from you because I really don't know what to think. My teacher of perfomance is 48 and i'm 18. I know what are you going to say and i know it's illegal to have relationship, because ...

I'm in love with my cousin, how do I tell my family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

13 November 2008 (M) - i am a 44 year old male in love with my 39 year old female cousin. we were kissing cousins in our teens and fell in love then, but i moved away and we haven't seen each other in 20 years. i moved back this year, we got reacquainted, and are in love ...

He has a girlfriend but says he is bored without me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - im in love with a guy...that i should not be in love with, because he has a gf. but im to the point that i think he may be with me in the end. i try to go days with no contact in attempt to leave him alone, but it hasn't worked. we had a talk last ...

Married guy lied to me and said he was unmarried

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - Married guy crazy on me why? i met guy at my work place. he was top level manger in he working company he was begin my company. v had chance to talk . it was normal. mean time he said im un married. i feel it does matter for me. it he develo...

How can I keep my teacher in my life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 November 2008 (?) - Ok well first off I will refer to my teacher as Mr. Chemistry because it's less confusing for me that way. Anyway, I have had this teacher for several years now and he is also my class advisor. We have grown pretty close and I spend almost eve...

Should I politely tell him to go away or should I throw caution to the wind and meet up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

12 November 2008 (F) - About 7 months ago I started temping at a company I worked at 6 years ago. A couple of weeks after I started I got an e-mail from a guy I used to work with saying hiya how are you, saw you in the canteen, you're still hot, are you still single. I ...

I am having confusing urges for my father.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

12 November 2008 (F) - I have recently been getting some rather foreign urges. I am a 23 year old female, who is going to school and living at home with my father. My mother passed away years ago and my father has never really gotten over it. I love my father with all ...

Is this teacher behaving innappropriately? Or just being friendly?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

12 November 2008 (F) - Long story cut rather short, I have the best friendship with my ex head of year. He know alot about one another, can read read me like a book! We have a very mature and brilliant relationship, some students actually envy as he is an amazing man. ...

Do you think my teacher has feelings for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

12 November 2008 (F) - I'll try to keep this as short as I can because I know, a lot of agony aunts or uncles must be fed up of the classic "does my teacher fancy me?". Well, basically I'm 16, from 13-14, i had a crush on her, but i got over it,I hadn't accepted that I ...

I'm dating a girl 4 yrs younger than me and everything is fine now, but when I turn 18, will our relationship then turn illegal??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - Well I'm dating a 12 year old and I'm currently 16 years old. And I'm always hearing about when I turn 18 it'll be illegal, but I can't find the law that say's this. I just want to make sure I won't get arrested when I turn 18 and what is the law ...

I have to stop feeling this way before it kills me. How do I handle this ?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - I need help. I am getting seriously sick - literally and metaforically - because of the situation I am in. Here goes..I have been married for several years now. During the marriage me and my guy have been through a lot ups and downs and I see him ...

Love and Torture

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Ok. I have a problem. I am SOO madly and deeply in love with two people. One is an old teacher of mine who moved to NC but I still keep in contact with him and the other is this boy a year younger then me. I wanna tell the younger boy that I like ...