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Archived questions from: September, 2008 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

Who's more likely to end up with the girl? - A hypothetical situation

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Hi internet fans! I'd like to cut to the chase once and for all in relation to the subject of attraction. Ladies: which man are you most likely to be attracted to: guy no.1 who is good looking, has a great body, has personality and charm, but you ...

I still can't get over my crush on a teacher who moved away. Advice please!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hey! Ok well you might have read some of my other questions which were all about my teacher who i love and my last one was when he was leaving. But he's left to go to another school now and everyone said it will get better over time but it...

Do I tell her I find her attractive and see what develops?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Hi I am 46 year old who's remained married for 14 years with a wife who I still love and a lovely 7 yo daughter. I and my wife have communication difficulties and have grown less close emotionally or physically over time although we still connect ...

I think I’m a stalker..and my teacher has become my latest obsession. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I have fallen in love with this teacher since June 2007, she is beautiful(age 25 this year) . And she left at the end of june 2007 to a different school to teach. And i still really really miss her :( and i haven’t seen her since. I think about her ...

How do I get to know my art mentor better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I'm 18 and in love with somebody who seems inappropriate for me, because he's 47 years old. He's also my mentor of art performance in the school. I can't get him off of my mind. I think about him all the time. When I first met him (the year bef...

My married man doesn't make me climax like he can with his wife! Any suggestions?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm 20 years old and have been seeing this guy for about 4 months. He is married but we have this amazing attraction. However he is a little frustrated because he hasn't been able to make me come yet. I don't know why as he is so gentle and ...

Can I have my cake and eat it ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Hello, I've been in a relationship for nearly 3 years, is a long term friend that went further, she is married and has intended on leaving her husband but we have had set backs, we've had our ups and downs as any normal "proper" couple go through,...

I turned down my coworker as I am married and love my husband, but why then can't I stop thinking about my coworker?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hello. Just a quick post before my husband catches me using his computer! There's this guy at work who had the cheek to ask me out a couple of months' ago. I turned him down *of course* - but have not been able to get him off my mind since. In fact ...

I keep sticking my fingers down my throat to make myself sick... any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - Recently i've bin so stressed wiv things at school and home... my bro and mum and dad keep fighting and i've really fallen for somone who's got a gf. i have low self esteem anyway and my friend's family frend said i was fat when everyone else says ...

I'm in love with a guy who's got a girlfriend but I don't want to turn him gay. So what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

27 September 2008 (M) - Hey Guys I'm a 18 year old gay guy and i have 2 really big questions so here is the first one: I am deeply in love with a guy who is in two of my classes with me, since im a total failiure with relationships i asked some "flirt" advices to my...

My teacher comforts me about my problems, I have started to see him as a man and not a friendly teacher, how can I help this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - I am a 16 years old girl and is in love with my house teacher of a boarding school I live in. He is 38 years old, married, and has a 3 years old son. I was sad in my very first days in school, since I 'm not so fluent with the language of the coun...

Other than our religious differences, we get along wonderfully. To me, it seems a shame to throw that all away without even considering that some people convert, or that love can outweigh tradition...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - I've been casually dating a Jewish guy for about a month now. Vital background information is that I am a (Christmas/Easter mass attendance only) Catholic and always find myself attracted to Jews. Although I value different religions and find it ...

What do I do? I've no idea how to flirt, and I've never felt like this in my whole life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Really think im losing the plot !!!!!Ive been married for over 20 years ,Last three years downhill but just grin and bare it .Ive never in 20 years been unfaithful ,Im not blowing my own trumpet but i am classed as attractive but im very low on ...

Please help me NOT text my old teacher, I'm so tempted but I know I shouldn't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - I need help. I left school May this year and promised myself that this was going to be great as i was gonna finally get over my teacher, thing is i cant. Everytime i see a barbie doll, or even the shop borders! i think of him, due to memories and ...

I am in love with my teacher and I don't want to be!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - Cut a long story short, i am madly in love with my geography teacher. i am a 17 year old Bisexual (very nearly 18!) female and she is 25 years old and apprently also bisexual (but this has never been confirmed although i do get what some will say ...

I have feelings for my third cousin. How do I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5692 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - Hi Im a 18 year old boy from the united kingdom and, i have a question, i have feelings for my cousin who is a third cousin who i met only a few months ago.. but i dont know how to tell her.. because i get along with her alot and i dont...

How do male teachers feel about their female students?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - Ok. Im want only male teachers or males who work around highschool females. I want to know is there ever one time when you think of your female students. like im not saing chasing them down but like getting a crush on them but not acting on it. I ...

Do you think he is messing with me, or do you think he really wants something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - Last fall I met this married cop, who is 27. I am still in high school, and only 17, but it feels like he does not really care that im underage. When I am around him, he is very flirty towards me, it almost feels like he does not really care that he ...

It's not fair on us. We want to spend some time alone, but his family keep getting in the way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5692 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - hi, i love my boyfriend he is 27 years old and moved back in with his mum and dad when he broke up with his ex. We are putting in for a house together and he is fighting for his kids, but since i have been with him we dont get left alone. pe...

I am truly in love with my teacher. How can I become friends with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I am truly in love with my teacher, and it's more than a crush. He is about 20 years old than me, happily married with two kids. Obviously it's never going to work out, and I know that, but I am always day dreaming about him and have actual dreams ...

If I was to carry out my feelings for my married neighbor would it be considered wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5693 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - If I was to carry out my feelings for my married neighbor would it be considered wrong? (If you straight off read that, you're going to say YES! So keep reading, maybe you'll understand better) They have been having marriage problems for a c...

I have developed deep feelings, for a married woman at work, I told her, and she will not speak to me anymore, my question, do I have the right to have feelings for a person that I have never been on a date with, is this some kind of emotional immatu

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - Hello. I'm really depressed and disillusioned with life at the moment. I couldn't give two hoots about the credit crunch, I'm too busy licking my emotional wounds after my latest rejection. I basically developed feelings for a woman at work over a ...

Is it illegal to email a teacher out of school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - Is it illegal to email a teacher outside of school in the uk? i am currently being taught by him, i am female, he is male, i am 17 and he is in his 30s, it is his personal email address and the emails are informal and of a personal nature,...

We've been involved for three years, and we're both married (to other people)- How do I get over him when he's always in my thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5695 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - I have been involved with a married man for almost 3 years. Hes been married for 16 yrs. Im married myself for 13 yrs. Its hard as I havent had the greatest marriage. Him, hes says the same thing. We connected as friends and ended up being more. Its ...

I'm in love with my cousin- how do I deal with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - This has been bugging me for a while... I'm quite certain I'm in love with my cousin, but I've never known how to deal with this. To be accurate, she's not my first cousin, I think. She's the granddaughter of my grandfather's sister (if that made ...

My best friend's boyfriend loves me, but we've never got the timing right. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5692 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - I have a friend who i have known for many years now an were really close an we get on so well. I used to really like him when i first met him but he was going out with someone so nothing could happen but we formed a really good friendship. i foun...

He wants me to have his baby, how can I postpone this?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - ive been seeing an older guy for 4 weeks now.(26) im (15) and i generally feel like ive fallen for him big time. we see each other once a week as he lives too far away so he cant afford paying 50 pounds everyday just to see me. i met him for the...

Do we have a realistic chance of rebuilding our family after an affair?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

21 September 2008 (M) - has any one been in my situation or can anyone give me some advice.Can a marriage survive an affair which resulted in a baby.I dont love my wife i had affair with an old flame and fell in love with her,i got caught out and i chose to stay with my ...

Is he asking me to coffee because he's being 'nice', or is he asking me on a date? He's married!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I've known this guy for about a year now. He's 11 years older than I am, married, and I'm confused about his intentions. I always made sure that we only interacted at work. I'm not going to deny that there is an attraction there, but I'm not that...

I want to seduce my 30 yr old teacher for fun. Any tips on how?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - Ok, how can i tell if my male teacher is interested in me? Like what signs should i look for? How do i seduce him? Im 17, a highschool senior, and he's in his 30's. So I want 2 seduce him for fun. what way can i do that? Me and him get along like...

He want's to keep our relationship quiet because of our religions.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - One of my friends told me that he fancied me and when I told him that I did fancy him too, he told me that nothing can happen between us because his family would not approve due to our different religions. He then says that this is not the reas...

I have a problem with my boyfriend who is still living with his wife. Should I be suspicious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - I'm very upset and feel bad. Today is my bf bday and we had some nice plans tonight. He's getting divored (final in January) but still lives with his wife. We have beendating only a few months and its been a huge concern of mine that they live ...

HOw do I fall out of love with the man I am having an affair with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm having an affair with a married man....yes i'm married too. we're friends and about two years ago we stepped over that line. .....I've always thought that people who have affairs are cold people only thinking of themselves and vowed...

I have been with my girlfriend for 7 years, but now I have a crush on a girl at work... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

19 September 2008 (M) - I everyone, I am 30 years old and I am with the same girl, not married, since 7 years. The problem now is I m having a crush on a girl at work who is with her boyfriend for 15 years. A little voice tell me not to act on it but I can't stop pictu...

I'm attracted to a guy 11 years my junior, and I'm falling out of love with my husband.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - I am in such a desperate situation so please bare with me. I have been with my husband for 13 years we have 3 wonderful children. I found myself attracted to another man who is 11 years younger than me. He is not the problem ,even though the ...

My husband and I don't see each other as often as we should, and we argue a lot, I think I have fallen for my husband's brother and I don't want it to be true, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5700 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I've been married for 2 years and im afraid that i've fallin for my husbands....brother. Oh my gosh this is so hard. I don't want this to be true. Could this just be a phase i'm going through because i don't see my husband alot and when we see ...

I understand that parents are a bit wary of letting me go over to Ireland to see someone they'd barely met, but they're being unreasonable about it!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Hey Aunts. It started like this, I met a guy online and we liked each other loads, so I gathered as much proof as I could that he was who he said he was, and arranged to meet up with him. We'd known each other for over a year and a half over msn ...

What is all this? I have a boyfriend already? Why do I have these feeling for my cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5700 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - i am 22 years old and i have a cousin (my mothers sister's son), he's 2 years younger to me. We have always been friendly n never really acted like brother-sister, but this time when i met him i began to have feelings for him that are not so ...

She deliberately excites me...we're in our late 50's and we're first cousins!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - I am a 59y/o divorced male who has a 58y/o female first cousin. We visit each other about 3 times a year. She is married to man about 15 years older than she is. Over the years weve always been close, she even tells me when she and hubby are ...

An old affair contacted me, then blew me off. I'm crushed, how do I get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - 5am and the pain is still there. Its 5am and the pain is still there. I did manage to sleep but have woke at 5am and the feelings are still so ripe. The contact ended yesterday with a final text saying "it was for the best it ended". I insti...

We slept together, went on dates, she was very affectionate and said she loved me. Now she says she has no romantic interest in me. I am crushed, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - So here's how it went down for me. I've had a friend for over the last twenty years. He's also my backyard neighbor (meaning not back to back, but corner to corner). Were both 24 and still living at home. Because his family is so friendly they've ...

I love a girl that's in love with my brother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5700 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - I'm in love with a girl who in love with my brother. He seems don't really care about her feeling. I'm not sure about his feeling but I think I truly love her. I don't know what stage of love I'm into right but deep down in my heart I think I love ...

I'm in love but not with my husband. Do I follow my heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've tried to deal with this situation alone but, it's getting the best of me. I got into a relationship in 2006, everything was wonderful, it was like he was made just for me, so we got married in 2007, had our 1st child in 2008. B...

What should I say? Does he like me? How should I approach him? Please help I feel like I am going insane!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

14 September 2008 (?) - In January I met somebody who I was not particularly interested in - at the time I was hopelessly 'in love' with my married art teacher whose wife is now pregnant. He was 17 at the time and I was 14. We went on a theatre trip together and he seemed ...

My parents think it's wrong for me to date a black guy, is this racist?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - My mom and dad are soo protective. i like this black guy...alot and he likes me. but my parents think it is wrong for a white girl to date a black boy. i think thats racsism. but me and this boy have been talking for a year and we tell each other ...

I'm hot for my cousin's husband and I'm much prettier than her! Should I avoid him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - I am 21 years old and I have a cousin living in the same city with me. My cousin's husband, who's 30, is a very sweet guy and I always feel he's too good for my cousin. I had a crush on him ever since I met him, and I think he has feelings for me ...

If his wife was taking care of him, he wouldn't have to lean on his female students. He isn't 'traditionally' attractive but should I flirt with him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - A few months ago, I couldn't help but fall for my much older principal. Sure he isn't TRADITIONALLY attractive, but looks aren't everything. He has a big.....let's just call it a 'beaver'. I just know it. He also has a really cool voice, kind of ...

I caught my boyfriend looking at VERY young girls online!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

14 September 2008 (F) - so here's my problem I am 22 and my boyfriend 26 have been together for almost a year and we recently moved in together. I was on the computer the other day and I saw that he had been looking at sites such as veryounggirls.com and others related....

I have a boyfriend but also have strong feelings for my ex. Do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - i have a boyfriend that i love but i still have strong feelings for my ex.. and i think i still love him too.my ex is leaving the country should i tell him how i feel?and say goodbye? my current boyfriend hates him.... please help me.i feel that i n...

Will my young mistress ever come back? I plan on getting divorced...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

13 September 2008 (M) - ok so here it goes . We met @ work and still work together. we dated for about a year during the time i was and still am married with 2 kids. just last month she says she can`t do this anymore and the reasons she gave was all over the board, from ...