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Archived questions from: January, 2010 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

I don't understand my own feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 10 years and me broke up in Dec, I had started feeling feelings for my boss, Ive been waiting for my boyfriend to do something for ever, he's struggled with a drug addiction, and things just never seem to go right when he does try, ...

Is my music teacher flirting with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I've been thinking about this for quite some time now, and would really like to get someone else's opinion on the matter: I've developed a sort of friendship with my music teacher over the years. It felt like we were on the same page about many ...

How can I get my mum to accept me being with a 19 year old. I'm 15.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

28 January 2010 (?) - hiii, ok imm 15 and my bday is in april. the guy imm talking to is 19, jus turned on december 30th. we have only been talking on the phone and txting for about 2 weeks and we met last year when i was a freshman and he was a senior. hes amazing! he ...

I'm attracted to her sister and my gf is on to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - My girlfriends sister and I have had a "relationship" for a couple of weeks now. My relationship with GF has been shaky lately and I am really attracted to her sister, who has already said she loves me and would give up everything for me. Now my GF ...

Should I continue this complicated secret friendship/relationship with a teacher?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - So here is the deal. I was infatuated with my female performance teacher. 47years old, 1 child and a partner. I am 16 years old, graduating in 2 years. Since I have managed to tell her about my feelings for her we became friends. But that was one ...

Is this new guy serious about me? Can we ovrcome cultural differences?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I've been in this ambiguous relationship with a visiting prof in my school for a couple of months (I'm no longer taking any classes from him and would probably not be doing so in the future), and it's really kinda tormenting because I don't know how ...

Help! I have a crush on my boyfriend's younger brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a silly, on-going crush on my boyfriend's younger brother. He doesn't know, and I'd NEVER tell him or do anything - but I secretly fantasize about him, and I always have dreams about him if I've seen him during the day. ...

How do I set boundaries with my married boss and work to keep them? We have already kissed...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - I need help....I let something happen with my boss when one night we were out after a long day out of town we were sitting in the bar having drinks and one thing lead to another. I really thought something weird was going on but thought it was just ...

I'm attracted to my stepson.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - I'm 38 years old and married to an older man - he's 50. It's his second marriage and he's got 2 kids from his previous marriage. Over the past few months my attraction to my stepson has grown tremendously. We flirt a lot to the point it could be ...

I got my sister pregnant.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - I'll give you some background im 22 and i have an 18 year old sister. We've always been really close. When my mom and dad split up she was made to decide where she wanted to live. I had already moved out and got an appartment so to spite our parents ...

I am hot for my sister

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - hi my sister is very hot and i have a thing for her should i tell her?...

In love with my manager but he has moved in with girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - So I love this boy and he was my manager. He is 25 and I am 24. Two years ago, he started working at the theatre since he replaced our previous manager that just got fired. In the beginning, we didnt really talk, the only time we even spoke was a ...

My Wife's Boss wants an affair with her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - My wife attended her work Christmas party and her boss said he wanted to have an affair with her and other comments, such as her body it so hot he want to Fuc* her etc. I was furious and confronted her boss. He said it was all in kidding....

Is he interested or naive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - In a few weeks im supposed to interview one of my old middle school teachers about an event that is going on in spring. Just to let you know, I’ve liked this guy for like 6 years and we have a really good relationship as teacher and student. ...

Does my teacher like me or is he just flirting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - Ok well I see I really like this teacher of mine!.. But hears the problem he's 26 and I am only 14.I would just die for him to ask me to just at least stay after class with him!!! Well one day during a discussing I was looking around the room and my ...

Does my science teacher fancy me...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - Okay, so I'm pretty confused right now.... I'm almost certain that my science teacher sees something About me, or fancies me for some reason. I've been noticing some pretty weird stuff going on between us lately... Anyway, here's some information of ...

I think my teacher likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - hi all, ok well everyone says to me that my teacher has a crush on me, but im not sure if this is true? im 15, a girl and she is in her 30s i think. im not sure if this is a coincidence but she always seems to like touch my hand when handing me ...

Was I too pushy with him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - My husband and i are in the process of getting a divorce and so is his sister and her husband. well last wek her husband and i made out and talked on the phone for an hour and had phone sex. we both said we liked it and he told me to call him ...

What's wrong with me? I love my teacher (not IN love)

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - Ok, so I've been doing as much research as possible over the internet on this topic but none of the cases I found were quite the same as mine, and after months of searching for advice online and finding nothing, I've decided to post my question on ...

Am I crazy or is my teacher interested in me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - What does it mean when a former teacher asks you if you're a senior yet? My 9th grade art teacher saw me for the first time since he left the school for another teaching job. He recently came back and When he saw me he seemed happy to see me. anyw...

Is our affair worth all this stress?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

17 January 2010 (M) - I have been having an affair with a married woman for the last 4 years. We know the relationship is never going to go anywhere due to our commitment to our respective partners. Over the last few months I have seen our affair is adding stress to my ...

Should I sleep with my married boss?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - Am considering sleeping with my boss. He is married with a family, and from the outside all seems fairly happy and normal, I am single and have not been in a relationship for a while (so had been feeling rather lonely). I've known him for over 6 ...

I am crushing on my cousin!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - I don't know why but recently i have been having feelings for my cousin. Now i know that this is wrong but i just get weak at the knees when he smiles and i think he knows about it because he gives all the hints and we always give hugs and kisses to ...

I love my husband AND my brother in law!!!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3391 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I'm in love with my brother in law: yes, I know it is extremely wrong but this is my story: I've been married for 11 yrs. My marriage is a good one though there are things I don't like about my husband...in any case, I do love my husband too. When I ...

How can I break them up so that I can get him back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

15 January 2010 (F) - hi, i was married to the love of my life. he left about 7 months ago, and i am still in love with him. he is living with my EX BEST FRIEND, they have been together since sept.20... how can i break them up, so i can get him back??? ...

How do I become strong and start refusing this married man?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

13 January 2010 (?) - not sure how to start and is not good and I know it but what's done is done and now I'm stuck. I started seeing this married guy at work and having intimate relationship with him at work only. This means only in the half hour of lunch being ...

I am the "other woman". What is the right thing to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - good evening aunts and uncles where do i begin? i suppose i could start with im the other woman. it started about a year ago when i joined a new gym, i was new to the whole setup and was being introduced to how everything worked. on my first d...

I want to me more than a support for my married friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

13 January 2010 (M) - im texting and emailing a friend and she isnt happy in her marriage, and oh i would love to be more than the wonderful support to her that i am! im a single, no children yet, 30year old male and she is a 28year old female of a 8year old boy. any ...

I'm being harrassed by his wife! How do I get rid of this married man I had an affair with?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - I recently read an article in regards to a women in a relationship with a married man for 18 years and some of the comments were pretty harsh, understandable, but harsh. Like her, I too was in a long term relationship with a married man, 13 years. ...

Best friend engaged but I love her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

12 January 2010 (M) - I have this problem. I have this bestfriend. We have been friends for 5 years. Well I've been in love with her for a couple years now and never admitted to myself. I have just got out of a relationship. And of course she's been there for me this ...

I'm in love with my pregnant principal

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - i think im falling in love with my principal. shes all i ever think about, theres not one day where i dont talk about her and i cant walk by her office without saying hi. She sometimes stops by my cafe. at lunch, i always have to go up and talk to ...

I didn't get to say goodbye to my crush and now I think of him all the time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4698 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - Hi Everyone I have a bit of a problem and I hope someone can help me with it every Answer I,ll be greatful For :)( It kinda rambles on but I want u 2 know the whole story ). About two years ago my friend Brought me to a Church youth group.The reason ...

I made out with my teacher ... where do I go from here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - i have been attracted to my science teacher for three years now, but never thought he was interested in me; we've always been close, but only in a friendly way. recently, though, we started texting and it escalated into him telling me how he truely ...

"I love you, but relationships are complicated." What does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

10 January 2010 (F) - When I admitted my feelings to my friend his response was, "I love you.. *pause*.. but relationships are complicated." Is there hope in a relationship?...

How can I get over a teacher crush I'll never forget?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - I once had a crush. It felt stronger than a crush - it felt more like I was in love. At the time it was wonderful and when I saw him my heart made a jump out of my chest, or when I talked to him he would always be kind and had a wonderfully charming ...

Confused over long distance relationship. Where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

7 January 2010 (?) - I need some advice on how to handle a situation. me and my boyfriend have been together for 14 months. out of those, 4 have been long-distance (we live in different continents because of college). We have a lot of history together, (i was his firs...

Messed up joke

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - i'm affectionate with all of my close guy buds and even other teachers and some others who are way older than me. but this situation has somehow gotten out of hand. it all started as an inside joke between the two of us. i was kidding around w...

A crush on my assistant principle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - Well, ever since September I met my assistant principal, and ever since then ive been becoming more and more attached to her. My friends think im obsessed with her and a suck up. But the truth is i think i have a crush on her. I dont know though, ...

I want to add my teacher to Facebook!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I tried to add a teacher that I think I love and I mean honestly love on facebook last year and he declined because he obviously wasn't allowed, but I didn't know that teachers werent allowed to accept students on the site, at the time. He said he ...

How can I stop my feelings for my cousin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I have a feelings for my cousin.And I'm sure that it is more than crush.I want to beak my feelings for him and I also want to share my feelings with him.Now please...someone help me what should I do? ...

A married man has been pressuring me for sex. What do you think he meant by his last comment?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I have been friends with a married man who is 29 years older than I. I met him at my work place 3 years ago. I am a nurse married and he is a physician. Anyway, we started to become really close. We started going out, texting, and sending pics ...

I like a teacher... more than I should... what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Okay, so. I've had a crush on a teacher for probably 3 years-ish. He's a mentor of mine and has been since coming to my new school. I'm in grade 12 this year and he is 29 so obviously there's a bit of an age gap but I have a lot of feelings for him. ...

My teacher's confusing behaviour makes me think I might be infatuated with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - Unfortunately, this is going to be...yet another cry for help for the eternal forbidden love section. I already imagine eyes rolling...somewhere, in front of a screen. I usually don`t ask for help in matters like these, but now I am totally confused...

Kiss from cousin was "electrifying". Is it wrong to love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - Helli, I am just wondering if it is so wrong to love my cousin. I never grew up with him and met him about 8 years ago. I always thought he was cute but never thought anything of it. He is froma different state so we get to see each other about ...

Is it wrong to fancy my teacher, especially since he is the same sex and a lot older?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - I am a 13 year old boy. In school, my P.E teacher (who is in his twenties...or thirties) is a close family friend. He comes round my house often and we all get along really well. He favours me over the other boys and he treats me like a really good ...

I am in love with my teacher and I don't want to give up on this idea, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - i am in love with my maths teacher, he was my form tutor when i was year 7 and im 13 and in year 9 now. he knows how i feel cuz one of my mates told him (which i hav forgiven her for now). he is so gorgeous and he seems to treat me more caringly ...

Falling in love with an adopted brother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - me(im a girl btw)and my family might adopt a guy my age (13)and im really excited about that its there is one thing im worried about.... what if we were to fall in love? I mean i dont don't think i would mind it at all! but at the same time I dont ...

In love with my boss, obsessed by him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

3 January 2010 (M) - I'm in love with my boss. So much so that I have become obsessed by him. I have downloaded pictures of him to my computer and saved each of his voice mails that he has left for me. Over the past two years I have tried to get close to him but he ...

In love with best friend and she's what I'm living for!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - I just dont know what to do anymore. I love someone even though I know I cant have her cause shes my bestfriend and we all know how that ends. Shes going through some pretty rough shit and all I wanna do is be there for her. Problem is I listened...

Would it be wrong to kiss my teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

2 January 2010 (F) - Ok so the other day I posted a question asking how to get over my much older teacher (I'm 15 and he's 50). I never expected it to go anywhere, but the other day it did. I have his class last period, and it just so happened to be my birthday. My ...