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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have a cute cousin, I think she's sending messages. She likes to get close to me when we watch movies, she always dancing really hot when I visit and always likes to share what she does with her boyfriends( how they kiss etc...). Think I can at least get a little relatinship going?
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reader, Dr. Reality +, writes (13 July 2010):
Not illegal in the Colonies to screw your cousin but illegal to marry your first cousin. Hell, we had a President who married his second cousin.
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reader, Dr. Reality +, writes (13 July 2010):
Dude, this one will be a tough one. You want a little piece for yourself yet if you handle this wrong you will be outted to the family by her. Sometimes women of her age like the power they have over guys. Lots of 16 yo girls do, more than they realize. If you really want to chance this one, and in my opinion it might not be worth it, let her come to you. Subtly put it out there with a gesture or a smooth move but she must think its her idea. If you spring too fast or hard she just might go to your aunt then all is lost and that's what she will see in you until you are old and grey. Be stealth and patient and maybe you will be rewarded.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): Do not pursue your cousin! It is illegal and socially unacceptable. It would not be fun for you to be called a "hillbilly," etc. and be accused of incest. If you ever had children together, they have a good chance of having a serious disease or being deformed because cousins are so genetically similar. Just think how weird that would be if you were related to your girlfriend. I think you should seek other girls and possibly get professional help to sort through these feelings.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionReading other posts on cousins, I have decided just to close friends for future occasions.
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reader, straight to the truth  +, writes (6 July 2010):
do not persue this, you are related and I know its not legal in the UK and \i hope it is the same in the US.
She is a member of your family, there are a million girls out there who your not related to so go and persue one of them.
dating a cousin/family member is simply wrong.
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