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Archived questions from: August, 2009 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

Does my coach have a crush on me, or is it all in my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - This is a very weird thing for me. I am about 16-17 and this is actually my first teacher crush. Technically, he is not my teacher but my coach for the sport I play in. He is a teacher though at the school I attend. My coach is also very young and ...

What is the exact trigger point for an affair in the work place?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - Hello there! Just conducting a quick poll amongst those naughty rascals out there who have indulged in an office romance. Not the usual romance. I'm talking the one where both parties are married. For those of you who have experienced this, what ...

I'm really afraid of everyone finding out about me and him, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - It's a long story. I was in love with a guy who was 19, but i was too young at 14 and I knew it. my friend who was a bit older went out with him for a bit, but she didnt like it and they split up. He said he loved me. i loved him so we went out but ...

Head over heels in love with my step-brother. Stop, or see where it leads?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - So my mother and step father married when I was 11 years old my mother has two children, my sister and myself. My step father has three, one older than I, and then two younger. My step brother is only six months younger than me. This past summer he ...

I am 18, she is 13, can we get engaged?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - i like a girl in Mansfield but she love me will it be ok to get engaged to her, they are 13 years and i am 18 years old ? ...

When I turn 18 and I'm going to risk losing my family by leaving with my step-brother, who I'm in love in. What do you think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - Ok I'm 15 years old. I'll be 16 in a few weeks. I have this step brother who i'm madly in love with. And he feels the same way about me. We've both been liking eachother since we were 13 and we can't seem to stop. In the summer of 2007 my mother and ...

I confessed my feelings to my cousin and now she won't speak to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

24 August 2009 (M) - Me in my cousin were sooo very close. We were each other best friend. But I started having feeling for her, and naturally confessed to her. However, she freaked out, saying it was wrong because we were of the same family. Now, i'm hurt and always ...

Should I set aside tradition and family and just go for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - Should I go for her? She's my first girlfriend and the girl I ever truly loved. We broke up about 4yrs back because I didn't want to cause problem in both of our families. She went into about 4 relationships that didn't work out and she is now n...

Please help me... We love each other but cant be together, I'm having a breakdown.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - I have been in a relationship for the last 3 months. We love each other so much it sometimes scares me. She makes me happier than I have ever been in my life. About a month and a half ago we were having some drinks, then a fight started, she pus...

We're ready to get married but his parents won't consent - is there a way around this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - I am an 18 year old mother of 2 beautiful boys and their father is only 17..we are trying to get married so he can go of to the army but its becoming impossible because his mother does not approve..we have been together for 4 years now and were ...

We want to date - but the 'kids' think it's too weird, what should we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - I am interested in having a relationship with my daughter's boyfriend's dad. We like each other and would like to date.We live on opposite ends of the country but communicate each day.We will get together when we can.Here's the problem though, my ...

They were just kids! Do you think the kiss was wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - Back in 2000 I saw my niece who was 11 years old kiss a 6 year old boy. It was mutual but she has recently come to me and said that she cant believe that she did it. She is 21 now she and said she has never been with anyone younger than her and ...

I'm 15 and in love with my 33 year old teacher

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - Well I am 15 years old and am madly in love with my 33 year old teacher, and i know most of you will probably say it’s just a stupid crush, to stop being so stupid and move on, but honestly i know for sure it isn’t a stupid crush, and believe me i ...

He's 18 I'm 14, can he go to jail?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - I am currently talking to a 18year old and i am 14 and i would like to know if He could go to Jail??...

Big age gap & it seems he doesn't love me like I love him..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm a 39 yr old female and I've been seeing a 22 yr old guy! I have fallen in love with him, but have been trying to hide it!! I'm crying as I write this, because last night, we talked, and we've decided to stop the intimate part of our ...

My cousin and I love each other, but my family won't let us be together. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - i love my cousin; but i have a boyfriend. ma cousin lives with me and my family. my love for him grows every day. i have so much love for him that i dont even know if i love for my boyfriend. i no that my cousin loves me back cause he tells me ...

Pregnant with my cousin's child.. please advise

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - i have this hot cousin who i love alot and he loves me too but we have family standing between our love.We hav been dating for 3years and things are great between us,we want to tell our parents but we are both scared they might hate on us and the ...

I need help to cast off these feelings I have for my friend's daughter!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

18 August 2009 (M) - I am 35yrs old and I am scared that I am falling in love with my girlfriends 15yr old daughter. I adore her so much and I have no sexual intention towards her at all. I am so confused by these feelings because although it seems so wrong it does not ...

I love my wife's sister!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - Hi, I am a 40 years old man and have been married for about 15 years. My problem is, I am mad about my wife's sister. She is sooo gorgeous and entirely sexy. I cant stop thinking about her. She is also married and has 3 kids. But she is a wonderfu...

How do I end this affair with a married man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - So, I have been seeing a married man. Didn't find out until the third time we met that he was married, because something was telling me there was something not rite. We usually meet up about once a week for a few hours then go our separate ways. ...

I've fallen for my stepbrother!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - My mum and her partner have been together for 2 years now and had a baby togther. About a year ago i met my mums partners children and for the past 6 monthes i have been in love with his son which soon will become my stepbrother as there due to get ...

Will I ever feel love for anyone the way I love my teacher?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - i used to Love my school teacher, he was everything to me.I thought we were meant to be and i loved being with him he made me feel important and loved, i hated being away from him. Sometimes it would feel like he loved me to i knew it and sometimes ...

Help.. I can't stop thinking about my boyfriend's buddy..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I hope you can help me and not think of me as a horrible person for what I'm about to say because I'm trying to deal with it... :/ I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. He's lovely, adorable, sweet and caring. The problem is that I'm...

I'm falling for my sister in law...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - ok i want my sister in law she is alwaus talking to me about her husband and her having problems and what he did to her and she tells me how she had dreans about me anand stuff i like her alots but im afraid to make my move on her i always give her ...

I'm participating in his affair but I don't want to be..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I just got out of a abusive relationship and all my past relationships were either abusive physically or emotionally or both, my question is how do I stop currently having sex with my boss who is married. I used to always say no but I finally gave ...

I'm having an emotional affair with my cousin and don't know what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I'm married and not in love with my husband. I've been with my husband for 12 years.I have been in love with another guy every sense my teenage years. The catch is he is a 5th cousin. I've tried to keep it a serect even from him but I told him and ...

I'm becoming attracted to me best friend's ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - i've started flirting with my best friend's ex girl, i never thought of her as atractive till she told me about her sexual fantasies and such, now i feel like i'd love to tap that, but what do i do?...

Infatuated With The Wrong Girl - Wasting My Time And My Feelings.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - 18 months ago I became infatuated with a girl I had never met before. She is a wonderful person in every way and I completely adore every part of her. We have always been good friends and I have always pushed for more - something she has made clear ...

I'm in love with a married man...I'm torn and confused about what I'm doing here. Any help?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - I'm 19 and i'm in love with a married man. We met once, and we've just been talking over the phone. He sends shivers down my body to the point to where i don't know if i want to cry or have some type of sexual release. I'm a little worried, because ...

Is the married man I'm seeing the one for me?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - I really don't know how to put this without seeming like the bad guy or appearing incredibly stupid. But I am going to try as I really need advice even though it seems so stupid. I have been seeing a married man for over 2 years now. He is slightly ...

We have so much chemistry... but he has a girlfriend! Should I wait to see if he breaks up with her or forget him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - I've met a guy I really like. He made it clear from the beginning that he had a girlfriend and that he didn't want anything other than friends. I accepted that and we went out. But it became very clear that there was chemistry between us. He flirted ...

He has a gf but I love him! How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid i have loved this boy for ages now. but he has a girlfriend. the girlfriend is totally in love with him but she doesnt treat him good. me and him always flirt with each other and i like it because i know what ever happens it wont get out ...

I like my teacher... but I'm not sure if he likes me back

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

8 August 2009 (F) - Hey, look it's another teacher/pupil love question, though infinitely more complicated than others. And sorry. Well basically, my teacher is 26 (male) and all the pupils seem to hate him, he is quite irritating in truth sometimes, and quite geeky. ...

Is it selfish of me to be friends with a married man I'm seeing, if we can't be more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5368 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - hi i have been seeing this guy for 4 months now and has recently gone back to his own country (spain he is english) to live with his wife and daughter however he has told me how bad things are between him and his wife she beets himquite often an...

How to handle feelings for married teacher/mentor?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5368 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I have begun to think of my martial art master in a romantic way. He is kind, generous, and giving. In martial arts we show respect and have trust relationship with our teacher/master. I know he is treating me just like all of his adult students ...

Just realized I have feelings for my boss! Should I say something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - Okay, so I just turned 18, and my boss is 23. I just realized my feelings for him about 2 weeks ago. We flirt back and forth, playful jokes and gestures... But how do I know he's not just goofy like that with everyone? should i say something? Im ...

Am I foolish in thinking we could rekindle what we once had?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

7 August 2009 (M) - I have recently been talking to an ex-girlfriend for whom i have not seen or spoken too for many years,i guess she was ok at the time but unfortunately it did not work out between us due to my insecurities the thing is i am in a relationship with a ...

I fell in love with a married woman. Should I continue being around her? Or should I stop any contact with her outside from work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - I fell in love with a married woman, we started as a secret but in time we both fell in love, her husband found out about us kicked her out of the apartment and stayed with the kids, she was heart broken about not being able to stay with the kids ...

My wifes lover dumped her now she's depressed.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - Hi Cupids, can anyone help me, my wife cheated just over 6 months ago and the OTM dumped her and then broke of all contact. We have remained together to work at saving our marriage,but the problem is that she seems constantly down and depressed that ...

I've dated, inpregnated, in love with, and proposing marriage to a possible half sister!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - hi. i'm 23, male, and looking for some advice for a situation that could be really great, or really awkward. i was adopted and raised an only child. i had a vague recollection of my birth mother having another child before me, by a different bio ...

I've tried numerous times to end it with this married man but I keep running back! Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - Ok this might be quite a long story but here goes.. I have never actually told anyone the full details of my relationship with Mr A (yes the MM)! but i need to get things of my chest because i feel as though i haven't got anyone to talk to about it...

My cousin makes fun of me because I'm afraid of sex. And now I like a guy who is engaged! Can anyone help me here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - Hello! my name is cathy and i have 2 pieces of information i need help on im 16 i really like this man and he's 21 and engaged!!! whenever were around with eachother theres alot of flirting going on and its a bit obvious we like eachother but yo...

Sleeping with the enemy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

1 August 2009 (M) - Sex with an enemy. Well sort off, I have fallen out with an ex friend after he ruined my chances of promotion by copying my proposal and sending it in at the same presentation to the board. I have always liked his wife and she used to really like me ...

I'm in love with my long lost brother

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - Im an 18 year old girl and im in love with my brother.. we grew up together until i was five.. we were separated for 13 years. hes 22 nn were imtimate, we dont use condoms we use withdrawl. i htink he knows that i like him,, but he doesnt say ...