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Archived questions from: December, 2009 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

Its been a year of unrequited love, now my teacher seems to be deliberately avoiding me?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - OKay, I have written on this before, but decided to stay anonymous, some people may recognize the story. I am in year 12 studying A Levels. I am 16 year old girl. I have had feelings for a teacher at my school for a year now. He was my former He...

Strictly attracted to older teacher!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. I am 14 and a freshmen in high school. Ever since the first day of school, I have had feelings for one of my teachers. I can't say it's love, but it might be. I don't think crushes are supposed to last this long. It is definitely ...

How do I get my parents to compromise with a little freedom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - my problem is having a boyfriend. My parents won't allow it. I'm 15 in my last year school, and he's my first boyfriend. I really like him, i usually don't pay attention to stuff like that, but i felt that he's different. He likes me for who i am...

The old question: In love with a straight guy part infinity!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - (MOD NOTE: POSTER'S ORIGINAL TITLE) I'm a just turned 20 year old (gay)guy who always attract straight guys. But here is the problem: I like my brother in law too much then i actually should. Everytime he looks/smiles or even talkes to m...

I'm dating my teacher, and I'm confused, Help!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I have had this enormous crush on this teacher of mine for almost 3 years. Actually it's not just a crush, it has turned into an obsession kinda. I've finally worked up the courage to tell him of my feelings a few weeks ago because I just REALLY ...

Attracted to a straight man, I am bi sexual, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - If you have an attraction towards a straight man but he is unaware that you are a bi sexual, what do you do?.... i have a real close friend that i do a lot with ( getting girls, playing sports etc.) but i'm attracted to him more than i think im ...

Her kiss felt different to his, I can't understand why, advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I'm 14, female and bi. A while ago me and my closest friend who's a girl kissed (So I could "experiment"-I told her that, but I actually just wanted to kiss her) A few weeks later a guy I've known for almost a year randomly wanted to hang out. We ...

If I end up with my Spanish teacher in the end, would I still be considered straight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

30 December 2009 (?) - I know what love is despite what everyone will say. Yes, I'm just a 17 year old girl, but there's not a certain age that breaks the barrier of being able to be in love or not. Anyways, I'm in love with my Spanish teacher. That's not the problem. ...

In love with my sister-in-law and afraid of losing her...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

29 December 2009 (M) - i was alone with my wife's sister march of 2008. we were alone at a place where she used to live. i was and still am really in love with her, and i am pretty sure she feels the same about me. we were alone in her kitchen i froze. i could have stood ...

Why do I feel jealous when my teacher talks to other girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

29 December 2009 (?) - I've had this teacher last year now I have him this year. I've caught him looking at me and we talk for ages and we have walked out of school together laughing and joking on numerous ocasions we are interested in the same things and we make each ...

How can I stop focusing on my teacher and do my schoolwork?

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28 December 2009 (F) - Hi Well i really need some advice i had a crush on my teacher (and before you thing i am in love with my teacher iam not just read what i have to say) when i was in Year 7/8 and im in Year 10 now. well at the time i thought i was inlove wit...

I'm confused, does he still have feeling for me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Ok, so i dated this guy for maybe.....2 months. When we met we had an instant, phenominal conection. Like, its wierd to explain, it was like we had known each other all of our lives. Thing is....is that he's 18 and im 16....legally, we cant date. ...

Our affair was exposed and my reputation is at stake!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I had an affair with a married man. About a year ago we started hanging out and a kiss led to touching, and touching led to sex. We had sex 3 different times and hung out from time to time after that. I have not seen him in about 9 months and then ...

I know its wrong but teacher is the love of my life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - okay, this all started a year ago, I told my teacher I loved him and he said he had feelings for me too and he also said '' but Im the teacher and your the student'' so that was a bummer. But after that things got better he looked at me ...

I'm in love with my first female cousin

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4328 days ago

27 December 2009 (M) - ok here's whats up I'm in love with my younger female first cousin and i think she likes me back because when we are around each other she sits with me and we hold hands and we cuddle a lot even our family say were kissing cousins their is a slight ...

Wooing the boss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

25 December 2009 (F) - I have a crush on my boss. At times it subsides some and then comes back again. I have remained professional. I never flirt or show signs I like him. I have had a crush on him for nearly eleven months and recently I decided that I should find ...

I want to kiss my teacher.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

24 December 2009 (F) - hey, k I'm a girl going to school and i have this hot teacher. when i have him by me in class all i want to do is kiss him. I'm always smiling at him. i go to his class when he doesn't have students so we can talk. i want to kiss him and i t...

Tell him or lock it in my head?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

24 December 2009 (F) - I feel confused and wrong. I'm 17 and i'm crushing on my 29 year old teacher. i have it bad, i can't stop thinking about him and being around him makes me excited and happy as well as nervous and scared. i need help i dont know why im feeling this ...

Is there something wrong with me for being in love with a much younger girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

23 December 2009 (M) - [Moderator note: The OP is not asking for advice on how to pursue a young girl. He just wants reassurance that he's normal for fantasizing about being with her when she's older.] Hi I really like this 10 year old girl I dream about her that she is ...

I have a crush on my married teacher, I told him and he blew me off! What do I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - Hi every one, I really need help a very serious help. My story is different. I fell in love with a teacher in my college for a year.It's really diffcult to write what I've through ,but i will give it a try. At first, It started as a normal thin...

His family is breaking us up...i am pregnant with our second child and don't know what to do. please help me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I'm 7 months pregnant with my ex's child and he wont answer my calls, letters, emails, or texts. I'm 20 and pregnant with our second child. We have a 19 month of baby girl. We're expecting a baby boy in early feb. He has currently been to a universi...

Do I date him anyway...his culture will not accept me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I am currently at university and have fallen for a guy, I found out that he also likes me...everything was good! Then he told me that before we get together he needed to tell me something, He was completely honest and said that if we got together ...

I can't stop thinking about my teacher!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I need help! I had this teacher last year he was amazing he is so sweet and caring he is 12 years older than me .i really love him.I know that he knows that i like him because one of my bestfriends asked him out for me .He makes me get shivers a...

Should she get a divorce because of our love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5239 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - i am a 24 yrs old guy. i m in love from last 4 yrs i love her so much but last month she got married. i tried a lot to marry her but i couldn't make her father agree bcos of castism.she told everything that guy about us before marriage. that g...

Did I do the right thing by ending an affair with a married man? I know we could be soul mates.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5240 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - I'm so confused.....I am a horrible person and recently went out with a man who I knew was married. We had fun for about 2 months and neither of us could end it. I did however after realising that he was starting to fall in love with me and I ...

Is my dad showing sexual interest in me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - Right, well....I've asked a few questions on dear cupid already...and I'm beginning to realise that I haven't mentioned everything that I need to...infact, there is a big thing that I haven't mentioned in my other questions which I need to ask help ...

I'm married but I can't separate from my girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

21 December 2009 (M) - i loved my girl friend very much from last 6 years, but due to my family problem, i married other girl.still me and my girlfriend love each other. i also loved my wife. suddenly my girl friends mother khows our physical relationship, so they are ...

Sleeping with my sister's boyfriend's son?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5241 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - ok so heres the problem. theres this guy, who i have managed to really open upto and feel really strongly about. we have a great time when we are together, and im constantly craving his company, the thing is that we have actually slept toget...

Will he divorce his wife for me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

20 December 2009 (F) - I met this guy at work and he was interested in me a lot bcuz he started talking to me and he told me he was in the process of a divorce. Little by little he mentioned to me several times that he loved me. I fell deeply in love with him and we would ...

I'm pregnant by a married man. How do I cope?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I am married with 2 children and recently had an affair with married man who also has two children. It did not last long but the emotional impact ran very deep. I stupidly let myself get pregnant and everything blew up from there. Our spouses both ...

Unrequited teacher crush has spiralled me into depression!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I have been in love with my teacher for the past 2 years. Please don't sigh and raise your eyebrows and think "Oh not another pupil-teacher crush, she'll get over it it" and then move on because I desperately need some advice. It did only start o...

I am pregnant to my step brother and don't know where to turn

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I was looking for advice and found this site. Ill try and make this short. I had a bf for 8 months he was ok at first and we started having sex mostly because didnt want him to cheat after awhile it seemed like thats all he wanted me around for ...

I love my cousin but she hates me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) - HI My problem is Im inlove with my cousin. shes smart and beutiful and every since the first time i saw her ive been in love with her. im three yrs older i saw her for the first time when she was about 7 and as she grew she got so beautiful. Shes ...

I'm falling in love with my husband's brother

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - my husbands brother moved in with us after his divorce. he had no where to stay so i agreed to let him stay with us. i spent some time with him, while my husband was at work. I got to know him better, and acually got close with him, i find myself ...

I just want to be friend, but I think she might fancy me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - Ok so im just a little bit confused as of lately.... i know a girl, have known her for a couple years casually. U know not close friends or anything.. well last week we got to talking and exchanged numbers, Now i know she has a bf and while sh...

Please help...hes married

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I need help... I really like this man that is married. And i can tell he likes me too. I have never told this man. Cause i know hes married. And im not the type of person to break up someones home... I think about him all the time. Please help. Do i ...

My Techie Crush!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Okay. So there is this amazingly beautiful man at my school. He is a techie, he fixes the computers around our school and stuff. And ya, you've guessed it.. I like him. Probley way too much. But its freaky. I've NEVER felt anything like it in my ...

I'm a born again Christian. How to prevent the relationship while keeping the friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - My name is Jerusalem, i'm 24 born again christain and i am not allowed to be in a realtionship and i met this gay his very nice person, he is realy nice to me. when we met I told him that i can't be in a relationship because i realy want to be a ...

Should I tell my Dad I'm dating a black guy when he said he wouldn't approve?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - I'm dating a black guy, we're both 16. My mom is fine with it, but my dad has always told me he wants me to date white guys only, which I think is awful for him to say. So I haven't told my dad yet. I'm worried how he'll react. Race has not come...

I've fallen in love with someone I cant have, and its my cousin! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - Hi everyone, this is really hard for me to say, and I know some of you will mock me but I have nowhere else to turn, I have to ask these questions, and I need the anonymity of the Internet. I don't believe you can ask somebody to control who they ...

School cast system (or something similar) eating away at me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - So I have a crush on a teacher of mine. I'm in high school, and I know nothing could ever happen--or at least, the REALITY of the situation tells me that. He's not so much older than me (there's only a six year difference), and he's actually quite ...

I am attracted to older guys of about 28, could it be because I miss my Dad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Why am I attracted to older men? As in old, I mean guys from 28 years or older. I don't know if it's important, but my dad recently died - so maybe I like older men because I want to love a man who reminds me of my dad? I even found myself flirting ...

Help..how to seduce my cousin?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Hey, So my cousin's really hot. He's 17 and I'm 14. We chat sometimes but we never flirt, and he has a girlfriend. But I really want to get him to notice me! How can I do so? Please don't say "you're too young" or "it's your COUSIN get real". F...

Could our adolescent sex play have turned her into a lesbian?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - When I was younger, me and my cousin played doctor and it went a little too far (sex, anal sex and oral sex). I was 11 years old and she was 10 years old. She was the one that talk me into these acts but after the first few times, she did not have ...

My brother raped me when I was in 4th grade

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - When I was in fourth grade, my brother (9th grade) had been touching me a lot lately and saying sexual things and putting on porn while I was there in the room, showing me his genitals. I would try to cover him up but he'd uncover himself again. I ...

I am in love with my same sex teacher

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Okay, first off, I realize this situation is incredibly cliche, but I can't seem to get over it by myself. I'm eighteen years old, female, a senior in high school, and I am completely in love with my female government teacher. Blah, blah, bl...

Everything is a mess! Dad threatened my boyfriend and I haven't heard anything from him since.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - [Mod: Stated age incorrect poster is 15] hey im 15 and my ex is 17 We broke up because my dad caught him round mine when he wasnt aloud(We wernt doing anything just sitting there chatting) and my dad phoned his mum up and started shouting at ...

I'm in love with 2 teachers!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - iwas and still am in love with my it teacher...he was over 20 's /30's..and i was 17 then....we started to have an affair...he was on my mind 24/7...i couldn't stop dreaming about him...i didnt want to reck his career...i suddenly found out that i ...

Relationships between aunts and nephews

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - just to understand, why does, most of the time, aunt-nephew relationship gets into sex flavor. i have had experiences. many friends of mine told me they too similar kind of experiences. i think most guys goes thru this session. can people in here ...

I am in love, but she has a boyfriend and when I see them together I die inside

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - hi, i'm on love with my best friend (a girl) i mean want whats best for her love not just the humdrum. but she has a boyfriend whos. well. bound to get her into trouble. they make a nice couple and all but everytime i see him with her (always) i ...