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Archived questions from: February, 2009 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

Really like my long distance fella, but falling for his closeted sister!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - k so I am in the most incredible relationship with this guy and things are fabulous. We have a bit of distance between us so we see eachother whenever we can. All is great. He has a sister (17) (fyi I'm 19-20 and he is 21-22) n e ways, His sister is ...

Often seeing a male teacher after hours

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - I'm a female student who has yet to reach the age of 18, and I think that something may be wrong with the relationship I currently have with my male science teacher. He's almost 30 and has been married for less than a year. Although I'm rel...

Unfortunately, I love him, and that feeling isn't going to go away. What do I do here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Hi. I am 18 years old and I have liked my teacher since I was 12. I can say honestly and genuinely this is not a wind up or fantasy. I am going to share this in the hope that i might get some advice for myself and also warn others of the potentia...

Broke it off with a married 'friend', is he trying to keep things going with me ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Long and short of it, I in the naturalist of fashions was attracted to a married guy I work with. He was also attracted to me which was learned my first year of working with him.During that time we had natural 'moments' of 'dreamy' verbal ...

I'm in love with an older friend of the family, and seeing someone else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - I know this sounds crazy but it is a problem I am dealing with. I have been in love with someone for several years now that is a friend of the family. He is older than me and it is a secret affair. I feel that I am very much in love with him and my ...

How did you get over your teacher, if you have been in my shoes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Hey You may remember me from this... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/fallen-for-my-math-teacher.html if not then read that and your will get up-to-speed. Anyway.. this post is just an additional cry for help really.. I really cannot...

Irritated by my sister in law's behaviour!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - hi, i am a male of 26 yrs not married n my sister in law is 24 yrs. my sister in law is acting strange towards me. she is married to my elder brother. the problem is that she teases me very often which is embarrassing. the other day when i was goi...

My manager doesn't want a girlfriend but flirts with me and texts, what shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - we both have been flirting with each other and we started doing stuff but stopped as he dont want a girlfriend yet but then we started having fun again and we are supposed to be friends and then we stopped it again and he stopped texting me and then...

I think I might love this girl but my sister says I'm a psycho!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - Hi, I just need some help on what to do with my current situation. You see, there is this girl that's somewhat friends with my sister. I really like if not love her, however I've only met her once. Also, I'm a fifteen year old boy and she's a twenty ...

I'm in love with my friend's husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - i am 30 in age and have a son of 7 years im a divorcee few months back came to my parents a friend of mine helped me in my establishment .she and her hubby made my standing .but somehow i started loving him she doesnt know but he is honest to her ...

I'm married but in love with a relative who is my ex, please advise.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I`m happily married, after 9 years i met my childhood boy friend, who`s in love with me without telling it to me coz we`ve blood relation, and i`m in love with him as well..but i`ve keepng it for ages...now his telling me it all...and i can`t fade ...

Should I stop having sex with my teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

17 February 2009 (?) - I´m in college and I have sort of fallen in love with one of my teachers. I did have sex with him once. I didn´t feel bad about it, but he kept saying how sorry he was. He says it´s not the right thing to do, but he doesn´t really do any action t...

Unlike many girls who is crushing on their teachers, I am in my early twenties, what shall I do???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, This isn't the first time I mention about my obsessive crush on my teacher. Many of you have given me valuable advice, but I still feel powerless to stop myself from sinking into depression. It has been two years since my infatuat...

Professor Hottie

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I'm 19 and I'm in my second year of University. I've been taking a class since September, and recently in the second semester, I've developed this massive crush on my professor. It all started when I had to go to his office to get help with a...

How do I stop being in love with a married man????????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I met a guy through work, he has his own company and so do I. We ended up meeting on a business trip two years ago and the affair started. He chased me and broke me down until I couldn't resist him any more. It was not about sex as we had many ...

Did my god brother abuse me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - When I was a child I use to visit my god brothers house. the older one use to do sexual things to me like rub himself on me with our clothes on while his brother watched. I was about 7 and he was about 4 years older. Is it normal for kids to act ...

I've just had sex with my TEACHER!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I've had sex with my teacher last week and I don't know what to do. I can't look him in the eyes any more, I feel ashamed and bad. Can somebody give me an advice what to do?...

I love my cousin but she rejected me, how can we stay friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - Hello. Guys . This is about me and my cousin. She is 15 . Im 19. Things are like, this started 2 years back. This cousin of mine and me is too close. More than just cousins. We used to talk for hours, we used to hold hands, she used to rest on ...

Should I have tried to occupy the friendzone? Or walking away like I did?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - Hi. I've really made a fool of myself and I'm crushed. I recently made a move on a very special woman at work who has recently separated from her husband. I've fancied her - from a distance - for years, but respected the bonds of matrimony and left ...

Ever since my boss kissed me goodbye I've started to want him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - He kissed me goodbye after out works party, and ever since I've started to think of him in a sexual way, not in a relationship sort of way, he's married with kids so I know nothing would happen but I can't help wishing something would, he's 38 and ...

He's out of my league, and we will never be. But I love him so much.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - I love this guy I met, when I say love, I will drop out of college and start a family, or even have his baby if he wants me to. I just love him, I may even be infactuated with him. I think about him and cry sometimes, he is 28 and has his life ...

The office scandal - what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

11 February 2009 (F) - I am bisexual, my coworker and friend knows I gave big hints. I really like her she's in a unhappy / abusive marraige. We have had a connection always touching each other hands 2 her complmenting my voice. She and I have a eye connection thing going ...

Is it ok for a student to be friends with a teacher after graduation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

10 February 2009 (F) - is it ok for a student to be friends with a teacher after graduation? like, keep in contact via email and maybe, meet for coffee once in a while? i mean, it's not like they'd exactly be student- teacher anymore, right?...

Am I in love with my priest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5527 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - I have a problem, it happened about a month ago when my husband and I went over to his friends house for the weekend to drink. My husband had a rough night and too much to drink so he passed out. His friend started telling me how much he likes me, ...

My first husband remarried, then called me and we started chatting, no sex, he does not want another divorce, I still love him, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

7 February 2009 (F) - I was married twice. I have known my first ex since we were in 7th grade and we had been together ever since; we got married when we were 23 but divorced when we were 27 due to my family issues. He was hurt and so was I. I had to take care my family ...

Another teacher crush, how can I stay focused?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - See the problem is I am madly in love with my teacher. His been my head of year for three years now and I have tried everything to forget about him, everything reminds me of him! He's 56 years old and for some reason i'm attracted to him, I didn't...

I have a boyfriend but fancy my teacher, I'm confused, can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

5 February 2009 (F) - I'm 18 and in my second year of A levels and finish in June then i'm off to University. I know this is going to sound like a teenage crush but i think i fancy my head of sixth form. He is 30 and we get along well. As part of one of my Alevel sub...

I slept with my boss and now he's flirting with other women right in front of me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

5 February 2009 (F) - I've been at my job for a while and just over a month ago a new manager started. From the first time we meet i was attracted to him, there was a bit of subtle flirting for a week then we went out one night after work ended up getting drunk and ...

My married man has disappeared, what's his story?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - i am a 36 year old woman and i have been in a new job for 12 months. I absolutely love it after being at home for 6 years with my children. I have been with my partner for 17 years, reasonably happy. I have met a 54 year old married man at work ...

Was fooling around with my older sister's ex wrong of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

4 February 2009 (F) - I realy don't know were to start. Last year around March I ended up talking to my oldest sisters ex. He was 33 and I was only 17.I know sound realy wrong of our age difference. My sis and him hadn't been together for years cuz my sis was h...

Is it worth the risk to fall in love again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I have a real dilemma on my hands. I reconnected with someone I knew in high school. Didn't date him then, but I ran into him recently at an event. We talked and I was very attracted to him. So, I emailed him and we've been talking over the ...

Keeping relationship secret but I'm worried he's seeing others

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Okay so i'm 16 and i've been seeing this older guy. He seems to like me, but we can't let anyone know that we talk, cause he's just above the age limit for my families approval. So he tells me that he wants to be with me when i get older, and we ...

Letting go of seductive teacher - please help me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts and Uncles, I have a huge problem that has taken over my life, and I'm looking for advice on how to LET GO. I'll try to not make this too long. Basically, I have a female teacher(single, 40s) who I have finally realized is d...

Laws on teacher student relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - hey :) I just popped on here to ask a simple and maybe somewhat controversial question but I shall discuss it whatever :) If you are 18 and want to pursue things with a teacher what EXACTLY are the laws on this? I understand people will tell me...

I'm in love with my stepbrother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - Please somebody give me some advice. I think I might be I. Love with my stepbrother and I don't know what to do! I'm so confused sometimes he acts like he likes me and then he acts like he doesn't? But I really think he does and so does my closet ...

Touched by my cousin and don't know what to do...?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 February 2009 (F) - Okay so tonight I was at my aunties and uncles house, and I'm really close with my cousins. So me and my cousin were watching a film in the front room but I was on the side of his chair so I could go on the computer, he put is arms round my waist ...