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anonymous
writes:I'm not sure what to do . I like two men, but i'm not sure which one to go for.One of them is married, but i really like him as he is confident and has a good sense of humour, and we have met up recently and known each other for a few years. The other guy also has a good sense of humour, but i hardly know him and i havent seen him for a long time. I found him on myspace recently and i want to ask how he is, and maybe ask him to meet again. He doesnt know that i like him, but i know he used to like me, but obviously, i dont know if he still does because i havent spoken to him. I know it would probably be best that i go for that guy, as he is single, but another problem is is that both of these guys are freinds !. I dont think they see each other as much now, but they are on each others friends lists on myspace.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 July 2010):
Well the married one will be nothing but a liar and a cheat if something does happen. And the other is single but you haven't told him how you feel. To top if off, they're friends,
I foresee a disaster of epic proportions here. This is straight out of a soap opera. One's a cheat (potentially), the other a friend of the cheat.
Which one? Neither. Firstly you can't pick, which means you don't like either enough. Secondly, they're friends. Thirdly, one of them is married which shows him up if he's interested, and shows you up for being interested.
Neither guy is right, so find a SINGLE man who is enough for you to want by himself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010): You aren't going for both of them so it doesn't matter if they are friends.
Go for the single one.
The married guy already has a WIFE and that's not going to change. You'll just get hurt.
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