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Archived questions from: August, 2008 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

Did I betray my best friend? Is this considered cheating? What do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Basically I want to know whether this counts as cheating/boyfriend stealing and betraying my best friend at the same time? I'll start from the begining. Ok, yesterday, actually technically the day before yesterday, I go on msn. My best ...

My cousin and I had casual sex a lot when we were younger. What does this mean now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Hi, I have a problem that I want to try and sort out... Me and My Cousin moved away from each other about 9yrs ago...she was about 20 then and I was 13, Now when were younger...we had casual sex alot..we didn't plan it to be like this..but It ...

My teacher wrote in my year book that I am a very inquisitive and stylish young lady. Does this mean he likes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 426 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - Im a 17 year old highschool female senior. i have had a crush on this italian male teacher since i met him last year. he tutored me in math and sometimes we would be alone in his classroom alone with his door closed and i would ask him questions ...

Is there any possible way to regain trust where he will still see the woman he was with for the rest of his life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - This is a long one, so brace yourselves. I probably have one of the most unhealthy relationships out there besides abusive ones. My boyfriend and I were both engaged to other people when we met. I was with my ex for 10 years, he was with his for ...

Sexual crush on my cousin! I'm tempted to try something,,,advice needed!..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 447 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - I've had a sexual crush on my cousin, I would always get a "hard on" when I thought about her. Then one night, 2 yrs ago, we slept in the same bed, since she usually slept with my lil sisters, but she didnt like them. I found out she was a REALLY ...

This guy at work asked me out but I want noting with him. Should I ask him if he wants to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 451 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm really confused. I'm married and this guy at work asked me out. I've seen him around for the last few years and we talked occasionally. However, I was really surprised that he asked me out. I rejected his advances and then have been avo...

Work issue: I'm infatuated but I'm married!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - The difficulty I have is that I am infatuated with a woman at work and I’m married. I seem to have been up and down this problem and whenever I seem to have a new understanding of where I am I fall down a snake and I am at square one again. ...

I had sex with my wife's sister and now she's driving me crazy! What do I do about such a weird situation?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - About 2 years ago I had the best sex ever with my wifes sister. I have always wanted her and in fact, when i met my wife my intention was to hook up with the sister but it didn't happen. Anyway we ended up in bed together just having the best sex ...

Will there be much contraversy if I want to spend my life with my cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 451 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - my question is simple. my cousins mom starts to suspect about us and its posible that she knows about us already, i feel like i really love this girl and plan to have a family with her and spend the rest of my life with her. we have been together ...

Does My Teacher Like Me Back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I'm not his student anymore but he comes and helps out at my high school in the summer sometimes and I see him there. Anyways I've liked him since I met him which was 6 years ago. I found myself staring at him when he was around and a lot of the t...

Years after our marriage I find out he's my half-brother!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - What would you do if you met a guy started going out with him than years later you got married to him and found out that you had the same dad....... What would you do? stay together? seperate? or see each other as brother and sister? ...

In love with brother in law but my relationship with my in laws is not good now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 453 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - I am in love with my Husband's brohter. we are married for 3 years. but when i entered there house he was the youngest and the charming person who always loved me, adored me and did what ever he can for me. i have lots of problems with my in laws...

Is it ok to date a friend's ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 453 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I have an old friend that I lost touch with approx 9 years ago (I have to add that we weren’t best friends but hung out occasionally but friends just the same). I recently met a guy and surprisingly enough he is her soon to be ex-husband. I had only ...

I don't understand what he wants and his behavior is hurting me. Is he playing with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 453 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I am a married woman that cheated the husband for the first time with this guy(36 yrs old) I have been talking to for 7 months. During the 7 months he called me every single day and our conversations lasted more than 1 hour in average. We had sex ...

Is it immoral to fall in love with a married woman with children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I have been a mentor to a beautiful woman in management. She is an awesome manager now, and married with grown children. We are very good friends only, but we both fell in love with each other, since we both married , we do not have any type of...

I'm 16 and in love with a married man!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - hi, im 16 and i joined the police explorers group about a year ago. In like November of 2007, i noticed was growing more and more attracted to the police officer in charge of our group. I had knee surgery that spring, and he saw a picture of my knee ...

After 2 years, she confesses to me she has cheated with her step-brother. I feel the whole time together was a lie now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I have been with a women for almost two years and finely after almost to years she has came out with the truth. that the first month we got together she had cheated on me with her step brother. i think its wrong i mean step brother or not they ...

Do I stay with my husband and live a life of vanilla sex or leave him for someone more awesome?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - I am in a horrible situation. I married my high school sweetheart. The first boy I ever kissed. No, we didn't date all the way through high school, we actually didn't really "date" until my freshman year of college. We dated for about 2 years, ...

I had sex with my Step Brother and I might be pregnant, Help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 453 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - I'm 18 and my dad and his girlfriend decided to take the next step in their relationship, so she moved in with us, along with her 16 year old son. Naturally her son is very attractive and well, we started kissing a week or so after they both moved ...

How do I know for sure that it meant more than just sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 454 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - When you have sex with a man that's married, how do you know if it meant more then sex? I asked him, and he said it meant more than just sex, but how do i know for sure?...

I have feelings for my adopted brother. I don't want to prey on him and mess with his development!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 454 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - Hi, I need help, or more or less guidance because I have feelings for my 14 year old adopted brother. He hits on me and I know that he feels the same. I want to stop liking him because I know that these feelings are unacceptable and i feel like im ...

How do I fight this silly crush that I have for a close friend of my son's?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

25 August 2008 (F) - My current partner and i are just in the process of seperating, he is looking to transfer his job and in the meantime we continue to share the house, he is busy texting another girl and has arranged to spend 2 weeks with her very soon. my problem ...

I'm in a 5 years long relationship and cheated on my girlfriend. I can't get this other girl out of my head. She has a boyfriend too. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 455 days ago

25 August 2008 (M) - Hi I'm 22 and in a 5year long relationaship, but recently a girl I used to have the hots for arrived back in town, so we met up and went for a drink, I walked her home and one thing led to another... anyway she text me the next day saying how g...

I am attracted to my aunt and I want to have sex with her! What do you think?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

24 August 2008 (M) - My aunt is 42 and she's hot and very beautiful. We have a good relationship. We have never been totally alone, but we talk all the time when we see each other. I have noticed 2 times when she looks at me, she looks at me with a sexy-look, and w...

My parents are against my boyfriend and will disown me if I don't listen to them...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 411 days ago

24 August 2008 (F) - i am 24 years old and very soon will be 25. i love my b/f and wants to marry him. But my parents are against it and they wil disown me if i go aginst them. i m in dilemma what should i do? let me explain in detail. we are in relatinship for ...

What are some things to consider when thinking about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 455 days ago

24 August 2008 (F) - I will give some background. I am a single parent and my son has just finished college. From my son attending college I have gotten to know his roommate. He is also from a single parent family. Over the four years his roommate and I have become ...

"Love" your teacher?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

23 August 2008 (F) - There are so many posts on the issue of teacher and student relationships. These questions are anything from "Doe's he love me" "I can't forget him" "I love him" "Is it the teachers fault" "I want to tell him" I think that the real quest...

Is there anyway to get my ex back even though she's dating someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 456 days ago

23 August 2008 (M) - My ex girl and I dated for about 7 1/2 yrs. We have been broken up for about 10 months. The first couple of months I tried to get back. she said NO!! i wne t on dated, she found out so I stoped talking to that girl and started talking again with my ...

I've been with my boyfriend for two years, we've never been in love, but I care about him. I've recently started to like someone else. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 459 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - hi im 16 an been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. the problem is that we r not inlove an never have been, we just really care for eachother. i know deep down we would want to be in a relationship where we r inlove with that person. anyway i ...

Should I try to interest an instructor 13 years older than me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 460 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - I have really fallen for a friend of a few friends, and also just recently my current private lesson instructor. I don't know what to do, I don't think I should make any moves at all since I am still underage for another year. I know he is single, ...

I'm in love with a teacher. Will these feelings go away?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 457 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - I'm 16 and I've been in love with this teacher for 2 years now. At first it was obsession. I know so much about him because he's my cousin's best friend. So its like he's a part of the family. Always at family parties and stuff. But anyway it reall...

What should you do if you love your uncle?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - what should you do if you love your uncle? if you know its true love and you alredy tried to back away but you just cant because you know its true love but forbidden what are the consequenses for this act? and can you like be together? a...

Is this true love or infatuation? We are both married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - When we first met and sat down for conversation at work, we both seemed shy and uneasy. But as the days went by we found each other sharing about what we wanted in life with our other halves. We both are married but not happily. One day we found ...

Has anyone gone through such turmoil in life?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (M) - I have been into an arranged marriage for last 7 years, having 2 beautiful daughters whom i love a lot. I always thought my wife was not the right choice for me by my parents, but eventually i just accepted it and was going on with life pretty...

Why does his liking for younger women arouse me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 462 days ago

19 August 2008 (F) - I feel I have a problem. I'm not normal anymore and it started after knowing that my boyfriend had sexual affair with a very young woman. He was 47 and the girl was 21, I hate him so much after he told me. On the other hand it aroused me imagining ...

My girlfriend's parents won't let me see her. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

19 August 2008 (M) - Well ok here's my story: Ok im really in love with my girlfriend and i for real when say this we are going to be together for ever. But right now im in a situation where i really need help. My Gf's parents well they didn't like me from the s...

I'm older than the girl I met, is that bad?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 462 days ago

18 August 2008 (M) - I am a 29 year old male from the UK. Two months ago, I met this lovely 21 year old young lady. I have fallen head over heels for her; we are very much in love. But, the age gap bothers me. Does it really matter that my girlfriend is many years yo...

Please give me your theories on why girls fall for their teachers!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 454 days ago

18 August 2008 (F) - There are many posts on here about teens in love with their teachers. Unfortunately i happen to be one of them, and it is indeed painful having such strong feelings for someone who you're never gonna be with. However, i'm not writing this to ...

I love her but she doesn't want a relationship! Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

18 August 2008 (M) - Me and this girl feel deeply in love about a year ago. we spent every waking moment together and she told me i was the one and that she had never found a guy like me. She was haveing problems with school and and her family and i was always their ...

I made out with my best friend's boyfriend - help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 381 days ago

18 August 2008 (F) - i really like my best friends sheas boyfriend alec. but sheas brother brent really likes me .brent is really jelouse that i like alec.but i feel guilty because i made out with alec when shea was gone . and i dont know what to do. should i tel...

The man I love won't leave his fiancee like he said he would, does he really love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 462 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - Hi everybody please dont judge me too soon as i already feel very guilty. I was previously in a relationship and split up since then I have met up with a friend of ours. We are instantly attracted to each other and couldnt help ourselves from having ...

Teachers, eh? Discerning between teenage crushe and actual love!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - Hey! I left school about a good couple of months ago and at frist i felt like my world was ending because of this teacher who i was never gonna see again, but in reality it is jst begining and id like to write somethin for girls who may think th...

I deliberately got detentions to be with my French teacher-I just can't stop thinking about her!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 457 days ago

17 August 2008 (M) - hi every1 im 15 and last year i dropped french because i was no good at it but i fancied my french teacher alot and tried to get in detentions just to be with her, it might b a bit 2 l8 now but should i tell her how i feel? because i cant s...

Is my MM still interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - he is married,dumped me once and we went back together,he had bn seeing my colleagues but dint have time to confront him,i met him a day before he left for vacation and had sex with him,he was away for two weeks and came to aparty,he saw me ...

I have fallen in love with my married boss and now I'm expecting his child!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

16 August 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been having a sexual relationship with my married boss on and off since January, we have always been very close and sexually compatible (we slept together briefly 2 years ago but it was purely a lust thing) but very recently th...

Confused about sexual feelings for older male cousin. Help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

15 August 2008 (F) - I recently started dating my cousin [first cousin, once removed. btw], like a little over a month ago. But my problem is that even though he's not around [different state], I feel as though I wanna have sex with him. But even if he was around, w...

I'm in love with my second cousin. Do we tell our families?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

15 August 2008 (F) - im in love with my second cousin and he feels the same we have both had bad relationships i have 7 children and my cousin has 1 i tried telling my eldest daughter last night and now she isnt speakn to me my family is old fashiond im now scared ...

I like my aunt very much, and would like to do something with her. What should I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

15 August 2008 (M) - The thing is, I'm starting to want to have sex with her, I can't resist it, shes gorgeous and sexy. I have spent time alone with her when I got to visit, and we have stayed talking for a time.I have helped some times in her house, too. I also have ...

I want to sleep with my boss

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

14 August 2008 (F) - I fancy my boss like crazy and i WANT to sleep with him, even though hes married and got kids? how do i get him 2 want me too? how shall i act? dress? make up? perfume? hair? ...

The guy I'm seeing tells me that hes not happy with his wife and the marriage is only on paper to him and she is just a roommate?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

14 August 2008 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for about 2 months now. He is married and i knew that the day i met him. Ive known him longer than ive been seeing him. I am in love with him and i know for sure he is my future. He was the one to say I love you first and ...