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Archived questions from: February, 2008 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

He broke off the engagement because we argue all the time. How can I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I met this guy at church and we instantly fell in love. We talked for hours and we started dating and then a few months down the road he asked me to marry him. Of course I said yes, we were so in love...everything was so right. Things were going ...

Is my girlfriend being selfish, to complain about her financial efforts whereas I am unemployed?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - ive been with my girlfriend for 2 yrs and she has supported me financially as ive been unemployed, i spend most of my time on the computer because i can chat to the women on there they understand me far better than my girlfriend does, although we ...

I refused to have his second child until he marries me, so he decided to leave! Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I have a friend I have dated for over two years now. I have a child of his since a year ago. The problem now is that he wants me to have another child for him. I refused. He has already married. He promised to marry me and divorced the first woman. ...

Why has he never contacted me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - Why would a guy tell you that he'll contact you as soon as he's free / has some time, then he never contacts you again - Is it just a polite way of cutting you off or does he intend to come back to you at some stage or you are his 'back up'. I know ...

I felt so hurt, used, betrayed by this man, whose son I gave birth to. There is also another man in my life, whom I actually love but I'm very confused!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - Hi, I need some advice, a different insight, well i'm sure you will understand... Well my question is basically who should I choose? You will understand why in a minute... I'm sorry if this long but I have been pondering this decision for som...

My gf, to whom I offered everything, told me she likes someone at work. What next?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

25 February 2008 (M) - I just dont understand what went wrong, but my girlfriend of 4 years had just told me today the worst news I could possibliy ever hear. She told me she liked someone at work and that she wanted to be with him. I have never expected this to happen ...

He just returned from Afghanistan and ended it with me but he won't tell me why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - My other half is a soldier and has just got back from afghanistan, he has been strange since he came back but now he has finished me and he wont tell me why. What do i do?...

I'm thinking ther only way to accept her past is to HAVE a past myself. I feel the need to cheat on my gf.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

25 February 2008 (M) - Ok, let's start from the beginning. My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost six months. We are very close and we love each other dearly. We also see each other almost everyday. My problem is that she is more "open" then I am. She is th...

Looking back, I see that I was more unhappy then I was happy in my marriage. Should I continue this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - My husband and I always argue on everything, and he is so pessimistic unlike me. What to do? I have been married for 8 years now. we were our first ones and because of that it was very hard to get along! We have huge communication issues. he sees ...

I am considering giving my daughter a sibling, even though I have severe problems with my partner, would this be this selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

25 February 2008 (?) - ok so here it goes. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs and we have a 3yr old daugther. our relationship is not the greatest. he has cheated on me before(more that once) and right now we went from living together to me and my daughter living at ...

Why do I find it hard to leave a relationship where there is no love??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - Why do I find it hard to leave a relationship where there is no love, intimacy and no respect? I believed I was more in this relationship than what he will admit to. I work with him and live with him, I dont have anything of my own. I believed ...

He says he wants me close yet goes out with other girls - while I don't seem to have the strength to leave!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - Hi nice to meet you, I was looking for some help, because I have been one year and 2 month with somebody and he told me that he cares about me but he didn't know what he really feels for me so. It hurt me a lot because I have no friends I mean real ...

I'm still living with him but he's told me he doesn't love me anymore. How do I leave him and move on with my life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - Time with friends, not with me. Now we break-up but we still living together because he cares about me and I can't leave him cuz I love him so much and that's the reason I'm still living in the same house. But it hurt me a lot because all the time ...

Why is he leaving me behind? Please help!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - My ex broke up with me about five months back now, he said he wasn't happy anymore, he didn't feel the same because he didn't see a future with us. Whenever I texted him regarding us, he just completely ignored me. When I asked for a second chance ...

I asked her what she thinks of us and she said she lost the spark, but still likes me, only not as much. Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

21 February 2008 (M) - Ok, so I've been in a relationship with this girl for about two and a half months. Everything was going great until a few weeks ago she asked for some space to be with her friends more. I said that's fine, so I gave her plenty of space. About a w...

Still living with the love of my life but she doesn't want me. Don't know what to do because for the past 7 yrs I've told her of every problem and she's been my best friend, always willing to talk.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

21 February 2008 (M) - Hello all, I originally came on this site to find advice for me and my own Girlfriend as we were having some problems. Some of you may have seen some of the advice that I've left so now, I'm asking for all of your help. My wonderful girlfr...

My love has faded and I find myself annoyed with my bf. Why do I feel this way? How can I make it go away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

21 February 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend of three years. A little bit more than that. I used to be basically obsessed with him because it took me a while to get serious with him because of other girls. He hasnt touched another girl for three years so that's all fine... ...

Take it slow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

20 February 2008 (M) - Hi, I have really messed things up with my partner Sharon of 3.5 years. I moved out of her house at her request just before xmas 2007 because of my anger outbursts (not physical) and tantrums. She has never gone out of her way to annoy me, upset me ...

Should he pay for this pregnancy termination?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

20 February 2008 (F) - I had a pregnancy termination last week as my partner and I agreed we are not ready to bring a child into the world. We have been together over a year. The contraceptive failure was my mistake (forgot to take the pill for a couple of days) and he ...

I'm sure the new man is waiting for me to tell him my love but I cannot while being married, should I ask for divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

18 February 2008 (F) - IM MARRIED AND FEEL LOVE TO ANOTHER MAN IM 28 Years old , i ve been in love with my collegue at collage but he traveled to work abroad after our graduation , we kept on contact with each other through the internet and we got married since si...

Do I just forget her and move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

17 February 2008 (F) - I have been dating this girl for couple of months. On February 9 we were supposed to go out and then she was supposed to stay over. On the afternoon of February 9 she calls me and say her dog was run over (not hurt, it is OK,) and that she wanted ...

I really want out of the relationship, but he's pretty attached and I'm concerned about hurting him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

16 February 2008 (F) - I'm 19 and have been dating my 20-year-old boyfriend for almost a year. We've had some minor fights over the commitment my job requires of me, but that's about it. In December of last year I found myself with a (requited) attraction to a ...

Could I be going through a mid life crisis already?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

15 February 2008 (F) - I don't know what's wrong with me lately. I'm starting to feel worthless, like I should be doing something more with my life. I'm in my early 30's, I am married and I have 2 kids (6 and 4) I have a full time job. My marriage is rocky right n...

Should hate him for what he has done to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

14 February 2008 (F) - I don't no where to begin, there has been so much going on in my relationship. He started off really nice, loving attentive, he has always been possessive and at the beginning it was nice. But then he started to control, and be nasty, he blamed me ...

My feelings died for him, will they come back?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - Hi all, Please, I need some advice. I have been in a relationship for 12 years, and am now 28. It has been a mistake from the start, but I did love him. He has spent alot of time critisizing me, bad mouthing my family friends, my ways, and tryi...

She's in the wrong. So why is she behaving this way towards me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

13 February 2008 (M) - My girlfriend starts seeing someone else and i find out, im angry and tell her but then i move on, but keep the peace... Now she wont speak to me and tells me to leave her alone (which i had), she knows i love her but what does she want me to do and ...

Crazy In Love: Obession For A Teacher

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 119 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - How can you tell if it's true love or just a crush? This is the question many girls face today but its not just with any certain boys; no these are men. Teachers to be exact. Can it be love? Not likely but somehow our minds convince us of ...

Can depression make him cold towards his family?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

13 February 2008 (F) - My husband has suffered from depression off and on for some years but over the last year it has got worse to the point where he wants to be alone all the time and says he is not sure he loves me any more and wants to get a flat on his own. Can ...

Worried that I'm going to become obsessed by this new girl. Is this a mid-life crisis?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

12 February 2008 (M) - I'm 37 and I have just 'noticed' a much younger girl. During my life I have really fallen hard for two women. Once was when I was 18 - which was unrequited, and the second time was a couple of years ago when I was abroad for a week on business (this ...

He said he wanted to try again, but I've just found out he's been seeing other girls. What must I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

12 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been on a break for a month i have just come back to find out that he has been seeing two girls while i was way but the hole time i was on holiday he was telling me that he wanted to make another go of things. I had to find ...

Why can't I seem to deal with her history?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

11 February 2008 (M) - Hello everyone, i really need some help, i feel as though i'm losing my mind. My girl friend and i have been together for almost 3 years and i can't get over her sexual history.. She is 30 years old and we met on a one night stand. The following ...

Why doesn't he treat me like a princess any more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

11 February 2008 (?) - I've got a big problem, and it hurts me more all the time... Me and my boyfriend of 16months are madly in love, and have always been ever since we first met. But he's been having a bad few days recently, including today, and he's started being a ...

He cheats and cheats and cheats. What to do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

10 February 2008 (F) - hi i been wid my partner from last 5 years. Several times he has cheated on me, but i love him more than anything . is this just stupid love? evrytime he gets caught he promises me neva again. this has been ongoing. i have considered leaving ...

He doesn't want the drama queen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

10 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years and i am completely in love with him.He tells me that he loves me too, but i dont believe it. He has always been in control of us. Before we got into a relationship he told me that he doesnt ...

She is 75% sure I am the one...but wants to date other people but I still want us to get back together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

8 February 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend of 2 and a half years just broke up. We had a really long talk about what it all means and basically we have decided to stop contact for around 4 months and then try to be friends. She still loves me but she isn't 100% sure that ...

Why would he tell me he still wants to be with me, but not show me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

8 February 2008 (F) - I recently reconnected with my ex and we ended up spending a really nice evening together. He said that he had been missing me and that he still cared. That was on Sunday and he hasn't called me yet. I can't understand why he would say those things ...

Only 3 days ago I met a nice guy online, and I feel like risking my 3-year relationship for him! What should I do?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 and a half years but about three days ago I met a guy on a chat line, he has been very nice to me and I started to get feelings for him. I love my boyfriend very much and don't believe in cheating but I ...

Teacher, student relationship advice. PLEASE!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - sorry it's so long. must me nerves. I am a sophmore in high school. I am in the high school band. I love being in the band, and playing my instrument. The problem is that i have what i think is maybe a crush on my band teacher.Now,i'm ...

How can I stay with my wife and win back her heart? Lately we've had a lot of stress from two bereavements, and we've grown apart.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

6 February 2008 (M) - Hello. In the middle of complete shock - four days ago I found love messages on my wife's phone (no I wasn't snooping, but whatever..) We have been married 2 years, together 5, we knew we'd both met 'the one' and have always been devoted to each ...

My boyfriend of 4 yrs is now ignoring me. Has he lost interest?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

6 February 2008 (F) - I have a really bad problem. For no reason whatsoever, my boyfriend of nearly 4 years has decided to just ignore me. He's ignoring my texts and calls, when he says he will see me he backs out last minute. I know it isn't cheating, he just isnt that ...

I love my boyfriend, but I am attracted to someone else. Do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

5 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 3.5 years, but it has been rocky for the last year. He is constantly too busy to spend time with me, and when we get together he is usually too tired to do anything. I get so frustrated and lonely, and question ...

I pampered him all weekend and now I'm being blocked!?!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

4 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had troubles so we decided to slow down, I used to live with him but I moved out because we both needed our space. Well on the weekend I went to go visit him, had the time of my life, but I gave him money, bought him ...

He's become withdrawn. Could this be the end of our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

4 February 2008 (M) - I've been together with my partner for 2 years. When we started dating, there was a spark there and an ease in communicating. I enjoyed being around him and learning about him. However, our time together has never been perfect. We have always...

What can I do to make my present situation work and stop thinking about my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

4 February 2008 (M) - I have been married to my loving wife for more than 6 months now and i do not know if i really love her. Before my wife came around i fell in love with a girl and she ended up cheating on me after 2 years of dating. i was so heartbroken and ...

He makes himself look as the victim.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

4 February 2008 (F) - I have been engaged for almost one year....it's been a lil bumpy breaking up making up...mainly over dumb things and this past sunday we had just made it past a breakup (we had broken up for 2 1/2 weeks) and we had talked and realized that this is ...

We fight every single day because he doesn't understand me...but our familes are excited about us getting engaged.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

3 February 2008 (F) - hi everyone... Well... my problem is similar to many girls here. I've been goin out wih this guy since almost 7 yrs now. Both our families knows all bout it infact his parents talked to my parents and its all good. We mite get engaged very soon but...

I just don't feel we are functional together...what should I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

2 February 2008 (F) - I am having trouble deciding what to do in my current relationship. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We have been having trouble (miserable around each other) and I moved out of his place into my mother's. He wants to...

His contact with other women is killing my feelings & desires towards him

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

1 February 2008 (F) - I'm a little embarrassed, but I need advise again. My boyfriend continues to have contact with his ex's and I have gotten to the point that I am becoming so resentful towards him, that I am beginning to feel like I am not attracted to him anymore....

I feel neglected, unwanted, heartboken and emotionally abused

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

1 February 2008 (F) - Hi, I am currently in a relation for 4 years living with my bf. I truely love him and he says he does to but lately he hasn't been showing that love, we argue and fight all the time, he treats me like sh-- and after a few days acts like everyt...