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Archived questions from: January, 2008 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

I can't decide.....my wife?? Or my girlfriend??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 175 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - I need help from someone who has been through this life crisis before, and has time to read my story! My wife and I married in our late 20s, thinking we both knew what we wanted, and although we didn’t have a whirlwind passionate romance, we thou...

My ex wants sex. Does she still love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - My ex-fiance said she broke up with me over my temper,I got mad because she would not tell another guy to stop calling her while I was present. She said she had nothing to say to him, she recently said he does the same thing to his ex-wife. She says ...

He bores me, I want to break up. How can I do it gently?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I want to break up with my boyfriend of two years. He is a very sweet, but dull person. Sounds harsh, but there's no spark there. I can't chat with him like with my friends. I don't love him or fancy him anymore. I really want to be single because I ...

How do you find the balance between loving too much, or not enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - How does one find the balance? I recently heard a theory that if you show women you love them too much, all you do is chase them away. But at the same time, if you don't show then you love them, they will feel unwanted. What the f--k is tha...

He has a "long distance" girl on the side. Should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

29 January 2008 (?) - I have been with my current bf for 1 and a half years. He had a long distance relationship and told me he ended it. But, I found out they still keep in touch and he updates her on what is going on in his life. He denies that they still communicate. ...

Is he just playing hard to get...Or just insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I made a big mistake last summer and had a no strings attached relationship with a guy for about 3 months. I started to have feelings for him so I called it off. I always thought that he did have feeling for me too but that he was afraid of ...

What should be the right choice to make here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - This is a very awkward situation .I hope I can explain it as close as possible,and someone might be able to relate to this or give an advice. So its a long and troublesome marriage ,was real love i guess, but today, its an other story.. So the pr...

He says he only got married to me because I was pregnant. How can I deal with this pain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I am 25 years old and have been married since November 2006 to the man I loved, thinking he loved me. I was about a months pregnant at the time. Throughout the whole of our marriage he has been distant and uncommunicative for the most part. I hav...

I'm thinking we're better of friends than lovers

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I really need advise. I have been with my boyfriend for two years. He is 26 I am 31. I am very sexual and had great self confidence in bed until now. He always had issue with sex from the begining. Couldn't get it up or keep it up. I don't ...

My wife doesn't contribute much to marriage.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - Who's responsible for doing what? I am having a very hard time understanding what is suppose to go on in my marrage. I am married almost four years and I get frustrated because I feel my wife does not contribute enough to this marrage. On the ...

Breaking on through to the other side

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - i feel like i have/going to miss out on so much in life because of my shyness. i find it hard to bring up conversations, and most of the time in social situations i just stand there, not talking. however, when im with my frends, i can be so t...

Wondering if I'm fantasizing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - My bf and I had been together for about 4 years now. We've known each other for more than that, but only be seriously dating for that time. We've had some really bumps on the road, and I had always been the one trying to salvage our relationship. ...

How to say it's over

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - he wont even hug me anymore - i know i am a beautiful and desireable woman, this is over and i must tell him...

Loved one refuses to get help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - When a man leaves you for reasons of insecurity or committment issues, how do you convince him he needs help without outright telling him to? We broke up, but not because we don't love each other. Everyone said we were a perfect match. ...

Current stage of love is so boring

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - This is porbably a silly question but, is it wrong to wish that you were back at the begining of a relationship? My boyfriend and I have been together just over a year now and well, I'm kind of getting bored. I miss that excitement I use...

I feel she only needs me as a dad for the kids now, and I'm doubtful of her love. Should I give up so easily?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

25 January 2008 (M) - Hey guys. My problem is I don't think my fiannce loves me anymore, we have been having problems since before christmas and it just seems like we are going round in circles. She used to tell me everthing any problems she had. I love her so much...

I want out of this relationship but I don't know how to break it too her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) - Ok, i have posted for help 2 times so far and both i have not added ALL the information, and iwant to be 100% sure about my next moves. AND I AM SORRY THAT THIS MAY BE VERY LONG!, but please read it all and help. ive been with my fiancee for...

He says he doesn't love me like he used to. What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

23 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend was with me for a year and a half, and then we split up for a month (he was halfway cheating on me). During this time, he squished his love for me and since then, we got together and it has been 'growing back.' Well, it has been almost ...

I'm almost 6 months pregnant, married only a year and a half and my husband is leaving me, I don't know what to do, help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

23 January 2008 (F) - Hello everyone, My name is Caroline, I'm totally new on this. I only really came across it a few days ago through looking on the internet for answers I guess. My situation is awful, I'm 34, we got married in July 2006, bought our house together i...

Girlfriend blows hot then cold! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

21 January 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have just broken up becuase we weren't talking much to each other. I was trying to talk to her but other times she just left before I had the chance to. Her friends says she liked me for a while but it doesn't seem like it ...

What can I do about my long-distance gf going cold??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

19 January 2008 (M) - Hello there, i am in a long distance relationship that is going very very sour. I have fallen in love with a girl i met on holiday we have been going out for about 5 months and i get to see her a couple of times a month due to her work (cabin c...

He's not in the mood anymore! Should I stay or leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - Should I stay or should I leave? My boyfriend and I have been together for close to 15 months now. Ou physical intimacy has been non-existent for the last 3-4 months. But we still have a great time when we are together. There is no tension, whenever...

Going with my girl for 2 years, but the little things are annoying me, any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - Hello, my problem is this. I've been with a girl for nearly 2 years. I had liked her for some time before and eventually we came together. It was a weird twist of fate for me since this thing usually does not happen, and I was thrilled. I thought ...

I really don't want to be alone living so far away from home but we argue everyday.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

12 January 2008 (F) - Hi Everyone, I really need some help. I have been with my boyfriend for two years, he has cheated twice but i forgave him. We moved hundreds of miles away from all our friends and family to start a fresh. But when we got here i was real depresse...

The relationship has lost the 'buzz' it once had but he thinks things will be ok with time.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

12 January 2008 (F) - Hi everyone - can anyone help my situation. I've with this guy. We've been together nearly 5 years but have split up a couple of time within that time. We don't live together and have no kids together. The problem is that we split up last Feb...

My life is a shambles and I feel like I have lost the chance to be happy.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

12 January 2008 (M) - I'm looking for help and feel I've nowhere else to turn. 25 years ago I met a girl, we fell in love but my love for sport caused us to finish after a year or so. No one else was involved on either side. Within weeks I'd regretted my decision but ...

I am falling out of love with my bf and want to break-up but he says if we do he will hurt himself. Please help, I feel trapped.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

12 January 2008 (F) - I'm 14 years old and me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 4 months 2 day. I really do love him but i'm not sure if we should stay together. he's really great but i feel like i'm falling out of love with him. He says he loves me but h...

The thought of making love to my husband repulses me. Should I end the marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - I have been married to the "perfect" man for 15 years. We do not have children together (he has had a vasectomy) but he has children from his first marriage although they are now grown up. I have a job that I love (fitness instructor) but does not ...

I've changed and she knows I have but do you think there is any chance for us??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

11 January 2008 (M) - Sorry this may be a little long, but i want to put in as much detail so you guys can understand my situation and to better help give me advice. Me and my ex gf dated for 18 months. but a couple months ago she found out i was flirting on the internet...

My husband is a lovely man but we have become... companions. Facing a new start at this age is frightening, what alternatives do I have, you think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - Am in the middle of a divorce have been married for thirty years to a lovely man. However we have been just friends best mates now for apprx 5 years. I cant imagine what life will be like without him but also know if we dont end this now I will ...

I feel starved of love as my partner is not the affectionate type. Please advise.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

10 January 2008 (M) - Hi I am Gay and have been in a relationship for over ten years. I Feel starved of love as my partner is 20 years older than me and a person who cannot really share their feelings Easilty. I dont just want copanionship, I want to be hugged and loved ...

I was so afraid of being hurt again I decided to live with someone I didn't love. Now I no longer think this is right and I want to end it but I don't know how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

5 January 2008 (F) - I have been with my partner for 11years. He is 15 years older than me (im 32)We got together when I had a bad split from my ex - I knew at the time it was a rebound thing and even told him this, but we got on well and even though there was no ...

Losing her Dad and her job and the absence of children suddenly made her feel unfulfilled, in need of a change. Where does the love go??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

4 January 2008 (M) - 25 years ago I married my high school sweetheart and I thought we'd share the rest of our life together. Then four years ago, her father passed away, and she lost her job within about a month of each other. She found another job but I could tell...

I've been married 3 years but realise I've been missing out on the single life. Should I split from him?ife.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

4 January 2008 (F) - Hi there, i've been married for 3 years and after talking to my single friends I realise i'm missing out on so much fun, should I carry on with my husband or divorce him. My friends say my husband will probably leave the house to me thus ensuring ...

8 years down the drain in exchange for somebody she knew for a matter of weeks; she had been unfaithful on other occasion, before this. I'm so confused, thinking I did something wrong!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

3 January 2008 (M) - I would like to share my story with you all it is unique in its own way and i would very much appreciate any help and advice you can give me. Me and my ex were together for 7 years 6 months i am now 25 and she is now 23, we met when we were teenager...